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Already Moved On?
Okay, so last Friday, this guy I liked, who is also one of my good friends, totally scarred my heart by asking my other really good friend out when he knew I liked him. Most of my friends told me to not jump into any relationships just to get over him and I know they are right. I've seen the effects of a reboudn relationship.
Anywayz, today this guy who I used to like and even went out with for like a few months (not a super long relationship, but not too short for middle school) was totally flirting with me and making it wicked noticeable. I had like so many people come up to me and tell me. Well, the truth is, I thik my feelings for him might be coming back.
Am I just rushing into things? Should I act on my feelings? Talk to him about it?
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he may like you again and it's normal for your feelings to come back but i dont think you should jump into a relationship just keep him as a friend bc you dont want him to get hurt bc your only doing to get over the other boy
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In my opinion I think you should just really think about how you feel.You might just think you are starting to have feelings for this guy again just because you know he likes you.That sounds a little weird but it's true. Sometimes when someone has feelings for you and you know it you are flattered by it and it's not really that you like them at all. Trust me this is from personal experience. Just think about it before you rush into anything who knows you may really like this guy.Keep in mind that you are still young and not to take any relationship to serious! :)
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Wow. The first guy sounds like a complete loser. Coming from experience, and yes this has happened to me as well, the second guy sounds like the one to go for. For one, if you spend too much time dwelling on the first, how are you supposed to meet and be happy with any other guys? And two, if there is this really great guy going after you, who makes you laugh and smile, what are you waiting for? There is no rebound in your situation! Girl you are full on crushing on him. If you are deciding to be in a relationship, make sure you are interested in the kind of boyfriend he will be for you. If he doesn't seem to be what you want, wait for the next guy and keep him as a flirty friend. It's all about you here! Don't let your life revolve around any guy. Good luck!
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ok lets just say he likes you {wich he does}..
go with him dont be scared to say it he likes you go after him the worst he can say is no!!
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First off, I think you should forget about the first guy. I mean he asked out your good friend when he knew YOU liked him. For the second guy, I think you should definately go for it. Even if it is a rebound relationship there are still feelings and you need to bounce back sooner or later so why not sooner? Hope I helped!
♥Ashley
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