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I am 15 nad I really like this guy named andrew. well he talks to me every day but only for a minute but everytime we see each other in the hallways he waves at me. He has a girlfriend, but I lkie him a lot. does he like me????? what should I do???
please help. (link)
Honestly you shouldnt try anything with him he has a girlfriend and you should respect that. to me it sounds like he is just being nice not that he likes you or anything no offense. you should probobaly move on since he is taken..you can be friends with him though.


ok, this is kinda wierd asking...but, whenever I go poop...when I wipe, there is bright red blood...is something wrong?!?!?!

your advice is greatly appreciated! (link)
It could be because you are straining when you are using the bathroom.Or because your bowel movements are not soft enough.You can buy pills called stool softners and that should help if this is the problem.If this continues you should consult a doctor.


where can i get the healing garden waters perfume? its like in a glass perfume bottle and the top is either blueish or purple.. ive tried walmart, cvs, alot of places and i cant seem to find it.. any stores you know that will surely to have it? and NO internet sites please, like ebay. thanks!! (link)
here is the actual website http://www.healinggarden.com/home.html


I have been getting really sad/depressed lately, and for no reason or for small reasons. I overreact to everything or just have breakdowns. I have been getting more and more of them recently, and I don't know what I should do. Sometimes I'll be really happy and then sometimes I feel like I have no friends and want to die. Is there something wrong with me? Do I have manic depression? (link)
to me that sounds like bipolar..the best thing to do is talk to your parents about your situation and ask them if you can talk to a professional about the way you have been feeling


i think i have anger problems... yesterday, i got mad at my parents and i dug my nails into the palm of my left hand until it bled. now there is a huge chunk of skin out of my left hand. I am a cutter. I cut when i get depressed. any idea of what to do when i get mad other than drawing blood? i dont want to go see a doctor... because my parents dont think i have problems. (link)
You should find something you can do to get rid of all your stress that is healthy. some people scream into pillows or punch them..its actually normal and healthy to do those things...when i get mad i like to run or write..just find a healthy outlet to release all your stress & about your parents i think you should really sit them down and talk about it if that doesnt work you can always talk to a counselor at school or someone like that.


I know we all have insecurities, but I'm pretty sure no one is as paranoid as I am. I'm not fat, but I'm not really skinny either. All the girls in my school seriously look like they are anorexic and the guys are all over them. I thought guys like curvy girls. Anyway, my best friend is a freakin' twig, and she has all these guys all over her. Seriously. It doesn't stop. Two of them even came to her house when she was sick because they're like obsessed with her because she's so beautiful. And I know I'm not ugly, but something inside of me keeps telling me that I am, and I need to get skinnier and more slutty and wear more make-up or stop wearing my hear a certain way. I used to be a really confident girl, but it's all changed now. I know like 2 guys think I'm hot, but that's TWO guys out of the whole school. Everyone likes my best friend. I mean everyone. It makes me sick.

So, my question is, how do I make that little voice inside my head stop saying "you're so fat, you need to be more like Danielle" or "don't do your makeup like that, that looks gross"? (link)
Hunny you aren't the only one who feels that way trust me..i am a teenager and i know exactly where you are coming from my insecurites however were so bad that i became anorexic/bulimic..my advice for you is that you should realize that you can be no one but yourself so don't try to be anyone else.The sooner you find that out & love the person you are on the inside the sooner you will love who you are on the outside..trust me i know its easier said than done because ive been through it. what i started to do was every time i thought how i wanted to be like someone else or thought i was fat or whatever negative thing i was thinking about myself..i thought of something good about myself. You should try to work on improving the person on the inside not the outside. everyone is beautiful in their own special way & real beauty is not what you see in magazines or in movies..real beauty shines with in!


Hi im 15/f and I am what you can call it a "semi-bulimic"

i am "semi-bulimic" because i only purge when i feel i need to...

you know what i mean? like if i feel i ate a lot

which i feel that right now ...because i decided to go on like no bread or potato or cake and snack crap... only for a week like south beach diet... but nooo i hate to eat the fricken cup cake (not one but 5)
and i had to have potatoes and bread...

I knew i was full when i was eating cakes...but i shoved that in anyways because it tasted so good...ugh and now im feeling rly full and feel really guilty that i couldnt control my stupid
temtation i had... so yeah...

I mean i am even on this stupid pill that is suppose to control my hunger but it doesnt... i mean it doesnt make me hungry but i still eat it anyways cuz it taste good... how can i control my temtations??? i've been through this so many times that i am depressed all the time i think about me losing control over my self like that...

so anyone please help me stop over eating like that... please??? thank you so much in advance (link)
I really hope i can help you because i went through the same thing except i was anorexic before bulimic. The answer is not that you should start excercising alot or anything because that may lead to obsessing over that. You should just try to eat things in moderation. Don't restrict your self from any food but at the same time don't go overboard you know what i mean? there has to be some boundaries.I also think that you need to talk to an adult that you trust maybe a parent? this is a serious issue. although you may not see it that way it is ...you need to stop doing that before it's too late.. please seek out some help and if you need anything at all i can answer your questions. i just hate to see anyone go through what i did.


I have been with my boyfriend for a year but we have been sexually active for three months. He broke my virginity. And he takes care of me so I won't have to work and quit school. But his sex is very aggressive and I really don't like it most of the time. He even freaks me out by some of the things he tells me. Like he is going to let his boys get some of me and stuff like that. What should I do. I love him and he takes care of me. I don't have anyone else but him what should I do??????????????????????? (link)
Honestly this guy sounds like a jerk. No one who cares about you would ever tell you that he is going to lwr some of his boys get some of you or anything close to that.I think that he is very disrespectful and maybe you should try to find someone else. If not then you really need to express the way you feel about all this to him if he doesn't change then you definately should tell him to hit the road.


Okay, so last Friday, this guy I liked, who is also one of my good friends, totally scarred my heart by asking my other really good friend out when he knew I liked him. Most of my friends told me to not jump into any relationships just to get over him and I know they are right. I've seen the effects of a reboudn relationship.

Anywayz, today this guy who I used to like and even went out with for like a few months (not a super long relationship, but not too short for middle school) was totally flirting with me and making it wicked noticeable. I had like so many people come up to me and tell me. Well, the truth is, I thik my feelings for him might be coming back.

Am I just rushing into things? Should I act on my feelings? Talk to him about it? (link)
In my opinion I think you should just really think about how you feel.You might just think you are starting to have feelings for this guy again just because you know he likes you.That sounds a little weird but it's true. Sometimes when someone has feelings for you and you know it you are flattered by it and it's not really that you like them at all. Trust me this is from personal experience. Just think about it before you rush into anything who knows you may really like this guy.Keep in mind that you are still young and not to take any relationship to serious! :)




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