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Okay, so I'm a senior, I'm still not sure if I even want to go yet. If I do I would want to bring my girlfriend, the thing is, is that she's a freshman. I really like her, and it's not like I'm 18 and she's 14, I'm 17 and she's 15. Would it be awkward if I took her to prom? (link)
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Why would it be awkward? She's your girlfriend, your age isn't illegal or anything, so why not go with her?
You both like each other, I really don't understand why it would be awkward. Are you guys hiding the relationship or something?
Anyways, no it wouldn't be awkward, you should take her.
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how do i lose weight fast? (link)
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Losing weight fast isn't healthy.
The best way to lose weight is to do it in a healthy way. Eat healthy full meals, healthy snacks, and exercise about 3 days a weeks.
If you try to lose weight fast, you'll gain it right back fast.
It's better to work at it, and then if you keep at it, you will keep the weight off.
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ok, this guy always comes to the cafe when im ther, he does stuff for me, he even lent me his jacket when i had mine on my arm!!! i wonder if he likes me. he always touches me on the shoulders,and neck. What should i do?
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He does like you.
What should you do? That depends on how you feel about the situation. If it makes you uncomfortable, then make sure he stops touching you and doing things for you.
If you like him, then let it be and either ask him out or wait for him to ask you.
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me & this guy grab each other ALOT & we both REALLY like it so he asked me 2 grab him & we got alone IN SCHOOL 2 do it & he said go 2 thi place if u want me 2 F u& I whent, I walked intha room he told me 2 grab im asked me if I liked it whent 2 a dark corner & told me 2 come ther , when I got ther he started taking off me shirt & I got really nervous & pulled away after i had collected my thoughts he pulled out HIS DICK & STARTED JACKIN OFF & told me to give him a hand job I did & he told me 2 suck his dick I did when we was done he told me to put his cum in my mouth I did well my question is is it normal for me to really like it and have a stroner tension for sex??? thanks we r 14 (link)
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It might be normal to have a stronger urge for sex but it's not ok to act on those urges.
This guy you are somewhat involved with, seems extremely disrespectful. He kept telling you what to do, it seemed like this whole thing between you two was just to pleasure himself.
It was bad that once you got nervous and pulled away that he didn't stop, he kept wanting more, it's disrespectful to you.
I would stop doing this with him because it seems like trouble.
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13/f...well, I've told y'all about how my bf wanted me to have sex with him but i didn't want too, well...i wanted to..and we did. well, it wasn't really considered sex because, i was wearing a pencil skirt...with a thong and he had on khakis..with boxers (obviously) and i took off my pencil skirt and he took off his khakis we started grinding and stuff he kissed down my stomach but..we didn't really do "stuff"...is that considered losing my virginity? and am i considered a slut? (link)
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It wasn't sex, so you are a virgin.
And no, you're not considered a slut.
While I actually hate to say this, what you guys are doing is normal for young teenagers.
I don't agree with it at all but when young people start messing around, it normally leads to having sex.
While you said in the beginning that you didn't want to have sex, but then you did want to? Sex can't be a heat of the moment thing. It has to be planned and you have to be ready.
You've most likely already heard that you could suffer terrible consequences if you go through with it, and your body is definitely not ready for sex but I really don't want you to regret this.
Sex can take a huge turn on somebody's life, you've only been with this boy for 5 months, you don't want to regret it. I think you should wait to have sex. Because I really believe you aren't ready.
Anyways, you haven't lost your virginity and you're not a slut.
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My boyfriend and I went to go see Temptation. We were cuddling and holding hands during the movie. Then the part where the girl starts flirting with the guy that's not her husband comes up and now I see my boyfriend pull away. I put my head on his shoulder and he moves away. then I ask him why he its doing that and he says he had An itch??? during the rest of the movie he is giving me a bad vibe like I did something wrong. the movie end and I'm just sitting. he takes his jacket which I was using for a blanket. Puts it on and the hoodie. asks me if IM coming and then I say yeah let's wait for the people at the end because one of them has crutches. while.I sit I catch him starring up.ag.these girls. I look back towards the screen and then get up. Then I say, "you are smart". He starts walking.ten feet infront me so I take a different exit to the car. An argument follows.thereafter about how the movie reminded him of me.because I don't always answer the phone. And how I told him that I was losing attraction to him. And how he thinks that I have someone else. All is true accept the part about having someone else. I have never cheated on him. For some reason he thinks the worst of me because I don't always answer my phone. please help. What do I do in this situation? (link)
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It's not your fault that he is just assuming that you are cheating on him. You haven't done anything but not answer your phone, that does not mean you are cheating. The only thing is that you told him you are losing interest in him, but that doesn't mean you are cheating. He's obviously not doing anything to try and save your relationship. He's making it worse.
Well, he was in the wrong. He was being extremely rude, the whole entire time.
So I would end it and find someone who won't over react like this. I mean you're losing interest in him so I don't think this situation helped much to show what a loving boyfriend he is becoming.
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i went to a party and hooked up (made out) with a guy i was very drunk and he was sober. he was even helping me to walk and shit. i was aquintances with the ex but never like good friends. i did want to hook up with him. so i asked him if he and the girl were still together and he said no we broke up. so we hooked up and i dont feel bad about it at all. hes a senior and im a freshman. so his ex texted me the next morning saying back off hes mine and i just said i dont want him you can have him but before that i said sorry because we did used to talk. but they arent even together now or when we hooked up. if anyone she should be yelling at it should be him like did i do anything wrong? everyone keeps telling me i didnt because he was sober and still wanted to hook up. advice? thankss (link)
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He's not dating her so you weren't wrong the hook up with him. She's just being a jealous ex. Don't respond to her messages or anything because you really didn't do anything wrong.
So just leave it at that, when you hook up with someone, someone will always be mad. But it's not like they are dating, so you're fine.
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im 13 and live with my mother her boyfriend my aunt uncle and 2 cousins . thats to many ppl in 1 house. i have a sister who lives in nc with her friend and she like my sister too they say i should live with them because ive had some personal problems but how do i tell my hatian mother who says no to everything (link)
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I don't think you can until you are 18. You have to live with your legal guardian, which would be your mother. You can talk to her and see what she says but it makes everything more difficult if you do go.
My younger brother went to live with my older brother in another state because of problems here but he couldn't get into school because they need the parent to sign for everything. Your sister wouldn't be able to sign anything for the school.
It's best if you just try to tough it out till you graduate high school.
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I'm 21. Okay, first I been with my boyfriend Meechie for about two months, and he is already pressuring me to have sex with me. When I tell him "no", he gets mad and just stop talking around me, but he would talk to his friends, and act like I'm not there. We are never alone, the only time we are alone, is when he wanna have sex. His family and friends are ALWAYS there. A week around I was waiting on my bus to go home, and his brother asked him to go to the mall with him. Meechie did ask me did I want to go, but I told him no. So long story short he left me at his house to go to the mall with his brother and friends. He work a couple to blocks from my house, and he never came over my house not even once. I always gotta go to his house. He never take me out, when I do see him he just go to his friends with his friends, and half the time I'm with him he is high. That's all his friends wanna go is smoke weed. I don't smoke, and I hate the smell. There not allowed to smoke in the house. I think he is the worst boyfriend ever, and i'm going to break up with him. I am over reacting about him? (link)
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You're not over reacting. You don't want what he wants and I can't even see a guy like that being a good, stable boyfriend or to even have a future with.
You're doing the right thing by ending it. You deserve someone who respects your boundaries, doesn't push for sex, and will want to be around you.
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Ok so I'm only 15/F and I want to get pregnant. I have a job and I'm pretty sure I could take care of a baby. I have all As in school and I just think pregnant bellies are so cute and baby's are too..sometimes I pretend with my sisters baby dolls but my friend Korey who I want to get pregnant by is black and I'm white and that is just not acceptable in my family... (link)
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Yes, babies are cute. But you are really young and will be making a mistake.
First of all, you should be older and in love when you decide to get pregnant. Your child would deserve to have loving parents who love each other. You will be in pain from pregnancy, you will be throwing up, you will be up all night.
How much do you make from your job? I'm almost positive it won't be enough for a child. A lot of adults have to put money aside to have a baby even when they have a good job. You know 500 diapers will only cover the first month of the child. I mean only 90 diapers will probably only cover 9 days. Good luck with that..
You are still in school, are you planning on going to college? This will effect your finances and you can't expect your parents to help raise and take care of your child.
Either way, you will not be having a baby for the right reasons. A right reason to have a child is not because you think they are cute.
Just wait until you are older and you're married.
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Hey im 15 and have been texting this girl recently and we both like eachother and today i met up with her and went for a walk.the conversation was a bit awkward but not THAT bad and shes a bit shy (which i find cute).anyway we want to go on an another walk and i want to do more things with her now so i want to know how to keep a conversation interesting for both of us.its difficult to talk because i already know so much about her from texting her like just all the basic questions.any help appreciated (link)
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It will be awkward for awhile. Once you guys start hanging out more, she will open up more. Right now, she doesn't want to talk too much or say something she shouldn't because she isn't too comfortable and she is shy. So don't stress about it and try to find other things to do. It will make you guys more comfortable and will give you something to talk about.
Try going bowling, rollerskating, ice-skating, arcades, mini golf, or playing board games. Be creative and eventually you guys will be more comfortable with each other.
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Hey guys, so im gonna be 16 next month and my boyfriend is 17, anyway, we have been dating for 8 months now and today he just texted me telling me that his grandma bought him a new car its a really nice one too and he is so excited about it. Ok so im happy for him but to be honest i dont think he needs one, he doesnt even have his license yet! And he doesnt really go many places besides hangng out with me. The thing is, i just dont want him to start getting a big head about it and start being spoiled cuz he seems to be getting alot of things he wants right now:(see, ny ex boufriend when he got a new truck, thats ALL he talked about and cared about it was so annoying and frusterating that i finally dumped him because he was starting to act like a jerk. I dont want the same thing to happen now with my current boyfriend:( what should i do/sat without sounding like an attention-hog? (link)
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Until he starts ignoring you and not spending time with you anymore, don't worry about this.
You can't ever compare your current relationships to your old ones. The is the worst thing to do and it will end up ruining your relationship.
When boys get a new car, they will be happy and they will be very excited. Not all guys will ignore their girlfriend though.
Right now, you are over reacting because you are comparing him to your ex. Don't do that.
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Hey im 15 and have been texting this girl i like a lot recently.we flirt sometimes and her friend says she wants to kiss me if im out with her soon,so youd expect her to be quite outgoing in our conversations.sometimes she can be really flirty and reply instantly but a lot of the time she takes along time to reply,sometimes ignores messages and i have to start another conversation topic and she never texts me first i always start out chats.what is going on? Im clueless (link)
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Just because her friend said she wants to kiss you, doesn't mean it's true, just saying. Teenage girls are something..so don't just right away think that she does want to kiss you just because her friend said so. Wait till she says it.
Anyways, since she is a teenage girl, she could be playing hard to get. But she also could have a life and be busy doing something else.
A lot of girls always wait till the guy texts her first. She also might be the type of girl to like a guy but not be obsessed with always wanting to talk to him.
Anyways, if you like her, then ask her out and you'll know for sure if she's into you or not.
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Hi all I'm 17 and I'm a female. I have been seeing a guy that is 21 on and off for 11 months now. At the start it was only meant to be a friends with benefits relationship, but we started to grow feelings for each other. I know he has had this crush on a girl for 3 years now, but has never asked her out nor had a girlfriend, even though he is a good looking guy. Long story short he told me he wanted to be with me and loved me, but soon left me for the first girl (Kassie). I was left heartbroken because all along I knew it, but didn't leave. We didn't talk for a good month or so, and we started talking again and I forgave him and took him back. It seems like I'm always second option, it seems like he can never make time for me and when I bring the subject up it's almost as like it goes through one ear an out the other. I love him but he treats me like crap, and he kind of makes himself distant from me and I wonder what I do wrong. We stopped seeing each other for a while, and I met a guy that is 18 and had a baby. He lied to me about the baby, but I sooner found out the information ( I heard from Corey, 21 year old), about having a child was true. He's really sweet, and nice and makes me feel good about myself, but I am not attracted to him and it feels like he talks to lots of girls. I'm really confused on what to do, and whether to not talk to either of them. Corey tells me he loves me and doesn't want anyone but me, but still hasn't made it official, but John wants me and wants to be with me. I just don't feel like I can trust either of them, but deep down I love Corey for the person he used to be. (link)
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Well since the beginning of yours and Corey's relationship, it wasn't headed the right way.
It started off as a friends with benefits and then became more but he had a crush on another girl as well.
He lied when he said he wanted to be with you. If he did want to be with you, he would've chose you over her.
You don't ever want to be a second option. You don't even want to be an option. You want them to want you and only you.
My opinion? This doesn't sound like a healthy relationship.
Is John the boy with a child? Well, first of all, he shouldn't have lied about the baby but other than that, you have to realize that you will never be put first in his life. Like Zane said, he will always put the baby first, that's his job. The mother will probably be around too.
Besides that, you are 17 and have so much more time ahead and so many more guys to meet.
I wouldn't date either of them. You said you feel like you can't trust either of them so you shouldn't try to get with someone who you can't trust. I'd stop talking to both of them.
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we are young teens and in te next few days are gonna have sex and im scared after we do it he is going to leave me what should i do (link)
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Well, what you should do is hold off on having sex. If you're afraid he is going to leave you after you have sex with him then why should you have sex with him? You want sex to be special and enjoyable for both partners. If you think he is going to leave, you aren't going to enjoy it.
If he does leave, then why waste your time with a guy like that?
If you can't trust him, you can't trust him with your body. You shouldn't be used that way, it's wrong and you need to protect yourself.
Wait until you find a guy who won't leave you.
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I have been texting this boy since May of 8th grade. It is now April in our Freshman year. It's been an ongoing conversation for almost a year now.. its just about random stuff and its usually a few texts every other day (him not responding right away) and so the point is we NEVER talk in person.. real awkward. i want to be one of his good friends that he can just talk to and walk with in the halls. we have a class together and do track and i see him in the halls all the time.. we are in different friend groups too . i feel like hes losing interest and I'm just a girl at his disposal he can text when he feels like it. how can i be more outgoing and just have the confidence to just talk to him. i don't know what to say in person! the year is almost ending and i want to make a statement before summer comes! i really like him and want to be a good friend of his in person.. yeah its complicated.. (link)
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So you want to have the confidence to be able to start talking to him in person?
Well that means focusing on yourself. To be able to talk to him, you're going to have to work how you view yourself and know that it will be worth it.
Whenever I talk to someone about their self esteem or working with their confidence I normally tell them first is to not compare themselves to anyone else. You're you, and that's who you are always going to be. If you want to change, it's your job to do it. It's not good to have girls looking at other girls wishing they could be like them. It doesn't help at all.
Don't put yourself down either. There will always be other people who criticize you, so you don't have to do it to yourself. You have to love yourself.
Accept every compliment. Don't shrug it off.
Spend your time doing things you love and things that you are good at. This naturally increases our self confidence.
Lastly, you have to push through your anxiety and fear. So if you want to talk to him, the only thing that is stopping you is fear.
So make an effort every day. If you see him, smile and wave. Eventually build it up to where you're saying hi and then small talk like "how are you?" "how was class?" ect, and building it up to where you can start talking to him normally.
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I have this guy I've been seeing and he decided that he was in love with me the first time we talked on the phone. He was calling himself my boyfriend and telling me he missed me and loved me on our first date. Now he calls and texts all day, he leaves me voice mails crying when I don't answer my phone. He sends me texts accusing me of ignoring him if I don't answer right away. He's driving me crazy I don't know what to do. How do you break up with someone who is constantly accusing you of being the problem in the relationship??? I've only known him a month and he's talking about our wedding having nightmares of losing me waking up screaming. Does this sound unusual to anyone else or am I just relationship challenged? (link)
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Well yeah, this is really unusual.
I've dated a guy before who was kind of like that. He would freak out if I didn't answer the phone and then call back like 10 more times and leave voice messages about how I'm ignoring him.
You should first sit down and talk to him. You need to tell him that he is moving way too fast and it is making you really uncomfortable. Hopefully he won't get all dramatic and start blaming himself to try to make you feel worse. Anyways, give him boundaries and see how that goes.
If you plan on breaking up with him, then tell him straight up and don't beat around the bush. Don't let him beg or anything. Just be straight up but be very nice about it.
Lots of people have deep feelings for someone in the beginning of a relationship but they don't handle it correctly. They over express their feelings and scare the other person off.
So try and see if he can take boundaries but if you really aren't interested anymore, just be straight up and kind.
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Ok well on April 1 my best guy friend (he's like a brother to me) at school was being stupid and was dared to jump off of his swing-set backwards and he broke both of his arms and had compound fractures. I cried so bad when I found out, I cried more then anybody I'm so worried about him. His sister sent me a picture of him in the hospital and I cried SO BAD! I'm beginning to wonder if I know him as a brother or a boyfriend. What do you think? (link)
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You'll know when you start seeing him as more than just a friend.
It is possible that you could just see him as a brother and since you've been so close to him that him being hurt, hurts you.
Of course, sometimes when bad things happen and you realize that you could lose someone, it shows you that you could possibly see them as something more.
Either way, it's ok to see him as either. You'll figure out how you feel for him once he's feeling better.
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hi there am from Iraq!! i have a Question?
usually my period end in 6 or 7 days!! but this time it comes since wednesday 27/3 and it didn't finish till today which is 5/4 still i can see some blood,,and i am a virgin, i am a girl!! not a women! so please can i know why?? (link)
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Every person is different and sometimes girls periods are irregular. So sometimes they last longer than normal.
If this happens more than 3 times lasting longer than 7 days, then check with a doctor.
You didn't mention your age but I'm assuming you're in your somewhere in your early teens.
I've read that during your teenage years your cycle will be longer and heavier.
Anyways, if this becomes a problem, check with a doctor.
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Well I've Been Dating My Boyfriend For A Year && He's Only Brought Up The Subject Of Sex Twice && I Feel As If I Need To Lose My Virginity To Him Just To Make Him Happy But I'm Not Ready He's 18 && I'm 15 What Should I Say To Him To ? (link)
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You're not ready, you just said so.
You don't lose your virginity when you're not ready. It'll be more enjoyable for both of you if you wait till you are ready.
The other issue here, like the rest of the advice given to you, is why is an 18 year old dating a 15 year old? 3 years isn't a big age different but right now, but at 15 and 18 you both are in different stages in life. It's a bit weird honestly. I'm 18 and if one of my guy friends started dating a 15 year old, I'd find it wrong.
Anyways, not just my opinion but it is illegal. He could get in lots of trouble.
So don't have sex until you are ready. You are very young, so you don't want to end up pregnant. You don't want to deal with any emotional problems either. Your body is also still developing and it will hurt like crazy right now.
Just wait because you don't want to regret it.
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