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Do I have the worst boyfriend ever?


Question Posted Saturday April 6 2013, 1:44 pm

I'm 21. Okay, first I been with my boyfriend Meechie for about two months, and he is already pressuring me to have sex with me. When I tell him "no", he gets mad and just stop talking around me, but he would talk to his friends, and act like I'm not there. We are never alone, the only time we are alone, is when he wanna have sex. His family and friends are ALWAYS there. A week around I was waiting on my bus to go home, and his brother asked him to go to the mall with him. Meechie did ask me did I want to go, but I told him no. So long story short he left me at his house to go to the mall with his brother and friends. He work a couple to blocks from my house, and he never came over my house not even once. I always gotta go to his house. He never take me out, when I do see him he just go to his friends with his friends, and half the time I'm with him he is high. That's all his friends wanna go is smoke weed. I don't smoke, and I hate the smell. There not allowed to smoke in the house. I think he is the worst boyfriend ever, and i'm going to break up with him. I am over reacting about him?

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lightoftruth answered Sunday April 7 2013, 5:51 pm:
You're not over reacting. You don't want what he wants and I can't even see a guy like that being a good, stable boyfriend or to even have a future with.
You're doing the right thing by ending it. You deserve someone who respects your boundaries, doesn't push for sex, and will want to be around you.

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Xui answered Sunday April 7 2013, 4:53 pm:
He is not a good match for you.

Honestly, He doesn't even sound like good boyfriend material. This guy wants sex, Not a relationship.

Find someone who is right for you and makes you a priority in their life.

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Razhie answered Sunday April 7 2013, 7:57 am:
It sounds like he's the worst possible boyfriend for you.

Some girls might want to have sex. Some girls might enjoy being in large groups of friends and families most of the time.

You don't. So end it. Not because he's a horrible human being, but because he's a horrible match for you.

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