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How do I tell my mother I want to move out?


Question Posted Saturday April 6 2013, 12:54 pm

im 13 and live with my mother her boyfriend my aunt uncle and 2 cousins . thats to many ppl in 1 house. i have a sister who lives in nc with her friend and she like my sister too they say i should live with them because ive had some personal problems but how do i tell my hatian mother who says no to everything

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adviceman49 answered Monday April 8 2013, 12:46 pm:
Unfortunately you have no say in the matter as you are under age. It is entirely up to your mother to decide if you can live with your sister or not. The biggest problem you could face is one of money.

If mom is receiving child support from your dad or SSI money for you; those funds would switch to your sister if you mom allowed you to live with her. If your mom relies on that money for her own purpose, which she shouldn't be, then this will be a tough problem to overcome.

The place to start though would be to ask your sister to talk to your mom. With summer just around the corner maybe your sister could ask your mom if you could spend all or part of the summer with her. Then she could tell mom how much better you like living with her and see if something more permanent can't be arranged.

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lightoftruth answered Sunday April 7 2013, 5:55 pm:
I don't think you can until you are 18. You have to live with your legal guardian, which would be your mother. You can talk to her and see what she says but it makes everything more difficult if you do go.
My younger brother went to live with my older brother in another state because of problems here but he couldn't get into school because they need the parent to sign for everything. Your sister wouldn't be able to sign anything for the school.
It's best if you just try to tough it out till you graduate high school.

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Xui answered Sunday April 7 2013, 4:42 am:
You are a minor and cannot move out. If you do or attempt to do so you will reported as a runaway and escorted home by the police.

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