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Is she interested or playing hard to get?
Hey im 15 and have been texting this girl i like a lot recently.we flirt sometimes and her friend says she wants to kiss me if im out with her soon,so youd expect her to be quite outgoing in our conversations.sometimes she can be really flirty and reply instantly but a lot of the time she takes along time to reply,sometimes ignores messages and i have to start another conversation topic and she never texts me first i always start out chats.what is going on? Im clueless
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Just because her friend said she wants to kiss you, doesn't mean it's true, just saying. Teenage girls are something..so don't just right away think that she does want to kiss you just because her friend said so. Wait till she says it.
Anyways, since she is a teenage girl, she could be playing hard to get. But she also could have a life and be busy doing something else.
A lot of girls always wait till the guy texts her first. She also might be the type of girl to like a guy but not be obsessed with always wanting to talk to him.
Anyways, if you like her, then ask her out and you'll know for sure if she's into you or not.
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1, Never listen to what other people have to say. People lie and spread rumors all the time. Unless it comes directly from that person, Never assume.
This girl may be either. I am also not the type to respond right away either. If you really want to know then ask her. However, I would not continuously send her text measages as that can get very annoying to some people.
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She's either shy or playing hard to get.
I'm shy and used to do this all the time! You see, if you're her first real love interest that she has feelings for she's bound to be a bit shy to initiate things with you!
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She might be playing hard to get.
She might also just be busy and not in the habit of always checking her phone. She's got classes, friends, family and maybe even hobbies. Sometimes people can't respond right away.
You know how you find out if she's into you, or just flirting casualy - you ask her out. You ask her to go out with you at a specific time or date (and maybe have a back up one in mind, in case she isn't able to make it at that time.)
Texting and emailing might be a good start to flirting, but it will always die out unless you take the next step.
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