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what shoul i be feeling after we did...
me & this guy grab each other ALOT & we both REALLY like it so he asked me 2 grab him & we got alone IN SCHOOL 2 do it & he said go 2 thi place if u want me 2 F u& I whent, I walked intha room he told me 2 grab im asked me if I liked it whent 2 a dark corner & told me 2 come ther , when I got ther he started taking off me shirt & I got really nervous & pulled away after i had collected my thoughts he pulled out HIS DICK & STARTED JACKIN OFF & told me to give him a hand job I did & he told me 2 suck his dick I did when we was done he told me to put his cum in my mouth I did well my question is is it normal for me to really like it and have a stroner tension for sex??? thanks we r 14
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It might be normal to have a stronger urge for sex but it's not ok to act on those urges.
This guy you are somewhat involved with, seems extremely disrespectful. He kept telling you what to do, it seemed like this whole thing between you two was just to pleasure himself.
It was bad that once you got nervous and pulled away that he didn't stop, he kept wanting more, it's disrespectful to you.
I would stop doing this with him because it seems like trouble.
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Hi. There seems to be a lot of him 'telling you' what to do and even dropping it right in your lap and saying 'deal with it' in effect. Now getting aroused and giving your boyfriend a handjob when you're both 14 isn't at all unusual or abnormal by any means. The people who collect info from surveys and questionnaires etc will tell you the most frequent age they see as answer to 'First handjob with your boyfriend?' is 13 and a half. It will, in a way increase your urge to have full sex. But when it's all agreed between a young couple, it's more a way of satisfying each others urges for sex WITHOUT having full sex, if you see what I mean? He comes, and if he touches you intimately in a way you enjoy, it relieves your tension nicely too and affirms your relationship. If you hadn't said you 'really like it' I'd have said he was pushing you way too hard from the rest of your post. So if you're both enjoying it, yes...it's all perfectly 'normal'. Sounds a bit frantic...maybe that's just how it comes across written down? Thinking about those surveys, the most common answer to 'First full sex?' Well, the truth is it's a much older seventeen for girls. There's something much, much more emotionally significant for a girl in having sex first time than giving her boyfriend a hanjob, or oral sex. It might sound odd, but in virtually all cases it's correct. And of course it carries a risk of pregnancy if you don't both fully understand and agree on proper contraception You might want to think about that '17' answer...and WHY it's most common. And if he's trying to rush you into full sex before YOU'RE completely ready and happy about it, that's very definitely NOT ON mate, as you know!!! I know emotions can run high but full sex has to be a matter of full consent. So if it jumps out of his pants and he demands full sex instead of a handjob, and you're just not at all ready for sex yet, you should give him a firm, definite 'NO WAY'.
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This behavior is rather a bit compulsive and disrespectful.
Whether there is sexual tension, It is rude to come out and grab someone. Also, Very risky and inappropriate to be doing on school grounds. Technically, His actions are more of someone who would be sexually harrassing someone only you seem to feed into his lack of common sense.
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