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Hey! Ok: so I have hundreds of pictures in my a box in my room. I take a roll at every other week. My question is: How can I display them in my room (without frames) I have some along my mirror. But what is a cool way of hahging them up? Thanks so much!

There are these things that have ribon like things on it and you can put the pictures in between the ribbons and boards. I have one in my room and in my kitchen. I hope I helped!

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Well ok, today both of my pointer fingers were really red at the tip and hurt really bad. I walk to school in the morning and I do wear gloves, but for some reason today my two pointer fingers were really red and warm. Any ideas of what it may be??

You may have dry skin. Try putting hand cream on it. If it's not dry skin maybe wear thicker gloeves. I hope I helped!

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hello! i was wondering how do you get rid of stretch(growing) marks on your breasts or hip/thighs area?any reconmendations? thank you :)

Try some types of lotions. It will definatly take away the pain and will also probably help with the marks. I hope I helped!

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okay so ive been goin out with brian for 4 months and i really really really likehim alot i think that i may even b falling in love but im not quite shua cuz i dunno wut love is like buti knoe i luv to spend time with him and i luv to look at him and i luv to talk to him but im scared cuz like i always find my self flirting with everyone! and i hate it! i mean i feel un loyal or w/e wut am i gonna do??! how can i make it stop?

First of some things I have no idea what you said but I'll try anyway. You probably are younger so it's OK your not supposed to know what love is. It's OK to flirt a little but not to much if your going steady. Tell him that if it starts to bother him to tell you so you can try to do it a little less. I hope I helped!

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ok. There's a girl in my school named Shay. I don't hate anyone, but she's as close as it gets. I mean it. I can't stand her. she sits next to me in one of my classes, and i can't beilieve i've gone this long without yelling at her, much less punching her! I'm normally very calm about things, but she makes me so mad, i can't concentrate on ANYTHING. She always makes really embarassing comments about... i don't really want to say it. Today I finally told her she's a pain in the butt and it's amazing that she thinks she has friends. She cussed me out. then she made another embarrassing comment! I'm so sick of this. I can't think about anything but how much i dislike her. please help me!! thanks!

You should try asking your teacher to move your seat.Explain to her your problem. If Shay keeps bothering you try going to your school guidence consuler. I hope I helped!

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Does anyone know some type of food that would give me more calcium? I heard that the age i am (15) is one of the most important to get more of it. I HATE milk, and dont really like yogurt or cheese. I am afraid I might get osteoporosis when i get older. HELP!!

You can buy orange juice with calcuim in it. I buy that and I like it better thsn most calcium sources. I hope I helped!

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I hate my life and myself. My parents love me and all, but all we do is fight. My friends and I are fighting, I'm not good enough for any boyz, and I'm always finding myself getting mad. I don't think i'm that ugly, and boys tell me I am. THey like the popular girlz. Please help me. What do I do with myself?

You may want to go to thearpy. All this stress is probably overwelleming (or however you spell it) you. My uncle is one so if you live in CA leave one in my inbox and I'll give you some info. I hope I helped!

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do you think ryan and jess broke up?????

prob....i think jess didn't like the way he treated her....i didn't like the way he treated her either

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Well, about four years ago, my father divorced my mother. It took a little over three years for the divorce to go through. During that time, my father treated me like crap. He was constantly yelling at me, picking on me, and just making me completely miserable. On time, he told his family that I should go to fat camp, and they all laughed at me. He's called me "fat, ugly, stupid, and a piece of sh**." I tried running away, but he caught me, and dragged me back. He also dropped me off on the side of a highway in the middle of winter, and drove off. He lead me to become so depressed, I would hurt myself.

Their divorce was finaliazed, but we had to move our of our house and move in with my grandma. I still visit him on Fridays and Sundays. He's been making us look at houses for him, which makes me really upset. He won't support us at all because he claims he has no money, but he owns his own business, and I've done some detective work, and found out how much he makes. I hate going with him because all we do is look at houses, and it bothers me because we had to move out of our house. My 16th birthday was in September and not one person from his side of the family realized how old I was. My father didn't even have a cake for me. This was one of the most important birthdays for a girl, and he totally ignored it. He just left yesterday to go with his girlfriend to Florida, and didn't even invite us, and also waited until the night before to tell us he was going. He doesn't plan on seeing us when he moves to Florida in a couple of years. Should I just stop goign with him? I'm 16-years-old, and I would rather spend my Friday nights with my friends. I want to have a father, but not one that makes me feel so crappy. What should I do? Should I continue to visit him for the sake of having a father, or should I just forget about him? Thank you so much for helping!

You need to bring this up with your mom. You can't contiune to let him treat you like this. He's not a real dad. You probably still want a dad but your mom can do much better. He left you out on the side of a highway?!?!?!?! He may have some mental disabilities (or however you spell it). If stuff like cursing you off and leaving you on the side of the road keeps up you need to call the childcare hotline. If I can find it I'll edit this answer and put it on here. I hop I helped!

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i think i might have breast cancer. there is a lump in my breast and i don't know how to tell my parents or my boyfriend. i dont want to go to the doctor until i am for sure that i might have it. I don't know what to do! please help me!!!

You can never be sure. You just have to go to the doctor. I've been through someone telling me they have cancer many times so what you should do is sit them down calmly and tell them. If I was you I would go to the doctor first. You don't want to get them worked up over nothing. I hope I helped. God blesses you through this time.
P.S. If your family needs to talk to anyone who has lost someone very close to cancer leave one in my inbox (thet will either be able to talk to my mom, grandama, or one of my cousins) (mom lost sister) (grandma lost daughter) (cousins lost mother).

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Hey I recently dyed my hair black and I was wondering if it will look good with red highlights. I have brown skin. if you have anyother colors that might look good please tell me. not blonde everyone has blonde i wand something different.

Get carmel highlights! It's sort of a brown. The red highlights would look good to. I hope I helped!

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are you spossed to shave..'down there'? i dont know what to do, because i dont want to feel stupid when i do stuff with a guy(i havent yet) and im shaved or unshaved..when im not spossed to be or whatever, do most girls shave all of it? or just the bikini area?((thats all i do, but im not sure))..help! lol

and i shave a little..of corse but where i shave it, i get little bumps and they dont itch or anything but how do i get rid of them!!!

It depends on if a guy likes it or not. I don't know how to get rid of the bumps. Maybe acne cream? Don't hate me if I'm wrong. This has nothing to do with your question but I wouldn't really "do stuff" untill I was married. Anyway if your worried about how it looks in the summer try a bikkini wax. I don't really know. I hope I helped anyway!

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Whenever I eat something in front of my boyfriend, I get all embaressed. I guess its because Im afraid I'll get food on my lips or face or something like that, so I only take a bite when he's looking away. Its so weird - I dont even notice Im doing it until he says something to me. I feel stupid eating when he's staring right at me tho. Does anyone have any suggrestions for what I can do to fix this ? Thanks a million.

I'm shy eating in front of people too. It's natural. Maybe if you eat at the same time with your boyfriend it would be easier. Or if you're afarid that you may look like a pig eat slowly. Take a bite, count to five while chewing, swallow, then take another bite. When I was younger my parents thought I ate too fast so they told me to do that and it makes me less tense. I hope I helped!

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13/f. I have this friend. We've been friends for two years already. Well, he's nice a lot. We make jokes and all. But other times he makes me upset. He talks badly about my friends. He also always comments on my profile on AIM. He tells me somehow how I'm wrong in what I put, or how it's dumb. He promises time and time again to keep my crushes a secret, but tells them anyway. Half of our grade finds out and soon enough I'm a laughing stock. I no longer tell him but sometimes when he's nice I do it anyway. In person he's got a really great personality. We used to date in 6th grade and he was the sweetest guy. When we broke up he talked about all the things I didn't do perfectly when we were going out. He makes me upset basically just online. So what do I do?

If he makes you feel uncomfortable then forget about him. Even if he's nice in person it's easier in person to put on a lie. If he does this to you then he really doesn't deserve your friendship. I hope I helped!

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One of my best friends we'll call her Nicole did something totally uncalled for last night. We all went to this dance and she knows I have a major crush on this this kid. I'll call him Ryan she slow dances with him right in front of me. Next time I'll see her is Mon. and I don't know how to react to the situation. I have another crush but he was with his ex- girlfriend (who is also my friend). Help me please.

First off this has nothing to do with your question but with the names you used it seems like you go to my school (theres always drama with them)! Anyway you should aske Nicole why she danced with Ryan. You can't blame any of this on your crush and his ex. Maybe call her if your not going to see her until Monday. If she does it again she's not your friend. I hope I helped!

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what do the different color jelly bracelstes mean?

If you mean cancer here they are:
Pink...Breast Cancer
Teal...Ovarian Cancer
Clear...Lung Cancer
Light Blue...Prostate Cancer
Black...Melanoma
Purple...Pancreatic Cancer
Orange...Leukemia
Grey...Brain Cancer
Dark Blue...Colon Cancer
Burgundy...Multiple Myeloma
Gold...Childhood Cancer
Lavender...General Cancer Awareness
Lime...Lymphoma
Teal/White...Cervical Cancer
Peach...Uterine Cancer
Kelly Green...Kidney Cancer
Burgundy and Ivory...Head and Neck Cancer
Yellow...Sarcoma/Bone Cancer.
You can find them here to: http://www.choosehope.com/product/2/?PHPSESSID=6d60533463d77822b2ae83607eb11d9d
I hope I helped!

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What do you do when your best friend is kind of blowing you off and when you aren't hanging out anymore. I miss her and don't want to let go.

Talk to her about why you two don't hang out that much anymore. Tell her how it's making you feel. If she keeps blowing you off talk again but if she always blows you off after howw ever many times you talk to her she's not your real friend. Most likely if she's your best friend she'll stop. I hope I helped!

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ok me and this girl are pretty good friends i mean we've done sleepovers movies went to a bat mitzvah together and went trick or treatin together!! well shes jewish and im not well newayz she recently sent out her invatations.... but im not invited! i mean i thought we were friends after all of that but i guess not! i almost cried but i didnt because i found out at school! but newayz ya! and when i ask her about it she just acts like she doesnt hear me or anything! it makes me so mad bc she invited people she barely knows and then she doesnt invite me! what shud i do!

You should have her come over or go to her house and calmly talk it out. Ask why she didn't invite you. If it's because she doesn't like you or wants "popular" people to come then she's not your real friend. If she didn't invite you bbecause your not jewish or something lke that then ask her why it matters about your religon. From there you'll know what to do. I hope I helped!

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okay..hi erinn! i want to decorate my room for christmas because we have a big christmas eve party every year, how should i decorate?lylas!!

hEy NiCoLe!!!! anyway wrap your door in wrapping paper!!! it's so fun. + then like put a mini christmas tree in your room. + maybe if u have extra tree ordaments u can hang them around your room. i hope i helped!!!! lyas!!!!
~come 2 MMS we have cookies monkeys AND cows~ (lol)

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alrighty..well i have a big group of friends over alot...but its starting to get boring because we just do the same thing over and over and over again...we either come to one of our houses and watch movies, or go to the movies...i want to do something new! and fun! what should we do?...btw..something guys and girls would have fun doing...but we are all just friends, so nothing gross..if ya know what i mean lol

There are so many other things you guys can do!!! Walk around the mall, go to like an amustment park, go bowling, some type of skating (roller or ice), cook, rock climbing, skatboarding, babysitting (making money is always fun), and so many other things! I hope I helped!

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