ok me and this girl are pretty good friends i mean we've done sleepovers movies went to a bat mitzvah together and went trick or treatin together!! well shes jewish and im not well newayz she recently sent out her invatations.... but im not invited! i mean i thought we were friends after all of that but i guess not! i almost cried but i didnt because i found out at school! but newayz ya! and when i ask her about it she just acts like she doesnt hear me or anything! it makes me so mad bc she invited people she barely knows and then she doesnt invite me! what shud i do!
Erinn_the_bamf answered Saturday December 11 2004, 1:24 pm: You should have her come over or go to her house and calmly talk it out. Ask why she didn't invite you. If it's because she doesn't like you or wants "popular" people to come then she's not your real friend. If she didn't invite you bbecause your not jewish or something lke that then ask her why it matters about your religon. From there you'll know what to do. I hope I helped! [ Erinn_the_bamf's advice column | Ask Erinn_the_bamf A Question ]
mrs_radcliffe answered Saturday December 11 2004, 5:32 am: Thats so unfair try ringing her, if not make her see what shes missing have a big sleepover and
dont invite her then she will see how it feels to be left out of something your ment to do together as best friends,Thats totally unfair what she has done and she not a very good best friend if she didnt invite you hope ive helped if it doesnt work tell her to stuff your friendship if she didnt even invite you and that we did everything together
roxie xxx [ mrs_radcliffe's advice column | Ask mrs_radcliffe A Question ]
JSIMT answered Saturday December 11 2004, 2:03 am: Just be the mature one, dont get into a fight about it, dont make a big deal about it, if i were you, id get her a present anyways and give it to her and just say something like * I like to keep my part of the friendship strong...even though the other person might not* dont say it like your mad or gonna bite her head off, just say it maturley, like you still care for her but your dissapointed in what her actions were, also, tell her you thought you both had something going, a good friendship, ask her what happend...
itll be okay! dont worry about it babe, you hurt now, but youll look back on it, and realize you never realli needed her. OHHHH one more thing, make sure she just didnt forget to give you an Invite! :) byee
xobrianna answered Friday December 10 2004, 10:28 pm: Well, to me, it seems like your friend invited people that are maybe popular? So she wants to be popular? She's pretty gay for doing that to you. Show up at her house sometime, before the party, and actually talk to her. Tell her how you feel about it. [ xobrianna's advice column | Ask xobrianna A Question ]
MissEmmyBoo answered Friday December 10 2004, 10:10 pm: There are two possible reasons that I can think of that this is happening for:
A)She could be upset at you about something you did.
...OR...
B)She could not be a "true friend" and is just rude or whatever!
My suggestion is talk to her at school, call her or e-mail her or whatever but try to find out her reason for doing this. If there is none, then ditch her she's not a true friend!
*Hope I helped!*
((HaPpY HoLiDaYs!))
*Emmy Boo* [ MissEmmyBoo's advice column | Ask MissEmmyBoo A Question ]
jpepreppie answered Friday December 10 2004, 7:19 pm: hun--- i say this alot of times, if they pretend not to hear you and stuff like that they aren't good enough for you. That happens to me alot. Just wipe it off. Find a new "friend" they're plenty more who will understand you and not leave you.--
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XSugarPieX77 answered Friday December 10 2004, 6:16 pm: You should call her up on the phone and if she doesnt answer you or hangs up then forget her! Shes not worth it if shes like that. If you really need to find out wut her deal is send her a letter or try to get her face to face talking to you.
~Brina~ [ XSugarPieX77's advice column | Ask XSugarPieX77 A Question ]
Katiesays answered Friday December 10 2004, 5:56 pm: Then just forget about her because she certianly isn't a good friend. And if someone just ignores u like that then that is just plain emature! so0o just get over her and her lil stupid party and move on. If she acts like that u certainly don't need her as a friend!
hope i helped
**Katie* [ Katiesays's advice column | Ask Katiesays A Question ]
tyler666 answered Friday December 10 2004, 5:50 pm: ok well im jewish and what the firt thing you need to find out is if the other ppl are to
bc i dont think i would invite a nonjewish person to my batmitsfav it just doesnt work out so great any way if thats ot the case and she is just a bitch tell her that you are obviously not her friend and that you just dont like her anymore. that should get her attention. [ tyler666's advice column | Ask tyler666 A Question ]
Karen answered Friday December 10 2004, 5:49 pm: Man, that stinks! You gotta talk to her! Ask her why you didn't get invited! Maybe you did something to her that you didn't know and now she's mad at you? Just find out why you aren't invited and see if you can fix that! Why don't you call her? That will work and she will hear you then! Hope I helped :)
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
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