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This is kind of funny but is there a website where you can go to find out who has products cheaper than other stores? For example a certain type of shampoo from stores like target wal mart dollar general...etc? Thanks (link)
in britain, we have thousands of them. but obviousely in the states, they aren't going to do the job you want. maybe google "compare **shampoo name** prices"

?? im sure something will pop up. if not, you are going to have to comapre yourself.


Do you have to be a certain age, such as 18, to purchase diet pills? (link)
i doubt it but im not sure. But, dont waste your money on them, they rarely work. you need excercise and a good diet to lose weight. not magic pills. if anything, try green tea tablets. they are scientifically proven to AID (not make you lose weight, but help) weight loss. And, they are natural so you aren't pumping chemicals into your body, and its more helpul (there is a lot of proof it does. but if it does work, its going to be more helpful then normal "magic" pills). Also, they are cheaper and there is no age you have to be to buy them :)


Apparently waxing will not make you get red-bumpy things, i think they are 'ingrown' hairs. I've been waxing my vagina twice in total, and i always get 'ingrown' hair (red-bumps) or something?? is this dangerous?? and how do i avoid it?? i don't want to shave, i just want to wax, i think its cleaner. and these bumps are sore and my vagina is jst really itchy... what's going on?! lol.
oh and by the way, how do you remove the hair at the sensitive part. like the inbetween your legs area, where it is close to your vagina? i have ben waxing my mound only, is that right??

Thanks :) (link)
Red bumps and ingrowns are NOT the same thinggg:
Red bumps normally are irritation, from shaving. They rarely come from waxing, but could come if your skin has an irritation or reaction with the hot wax. Ingrown hairs occur when you wax, and like it just doesnt grow back the right way. I only got ingrowns once, so I just waxed them tweezered them off and they came back normal again.
Neither is dangerous, they can both just cause discomfort. Okayyy so I'm assuming you have the red bumps? I'm not sure which one (of if you have both). Anywaaays what you have to do is put on a lotion (non-colored/perfumed -- that causes further irritation... I use Olay Body Quench i love it) and put it on like 3 times a day AT LEAST. It might sting at first but then it gives immediate relief. And prevents itchiness.
You can wax that part too, I do it. It hurts a bit more, but eventually after doing it enough it doesnt hurt. Like for me, I've been doin brazilian waxes for like 3 years now and I dont feel the pain. I'm a hugeee expert on waxing andd skin, because I want to be a dermatologist. So if I didn't answer any of your questions here or youd like further advice just askkk :)


i am completelyyy in love with my boyfriend. i know this for a fact and am not afraid to say it ! so i have a few questions i hope i can get solid honest answers to. i admit to being very unexperienced, but hey, you have to start somewhere.

1) we are both virgins, does this mean we can't get an STD?
2) when giving him head, do i HAVE to swallow?
3) also when giving him head, would a condom be useful?
4) i hate asking this but it has to be asked: wtf do i do with the pubic hair on both me and him?

haha thanks (link)
1) its very likely neitehr of you has one, but you always could. for example, you can be born with aids if your parents had it. i'm sure they would've told him by now if they had had it, so your probably safe. but, if you gonna have sex and your not on the pill, you should use a condom so you dont get pregnant annddd avoid the little chance of gettin an std.
2) you don't have to. if it turns him on you could, but if your not comfortable doin it, talk to him about other ways/places he could bust (like not to be graphic of course but on your tits or somethin)
3) the only reasons to use a condom while giving head are: to avoid stds of course, not to swallow him cum, or a personal preference (like if givin head disgusts you you know?)
4) thats up to you. if you want to shave, then shave, or you can ask what he prefers for it. but if your not tryna shave, dont do it JUST because he wants it, it should be more about you then him


Where do i get them.I dont want my parents to know i take them though cause then they'll ask me about sex..which is why i want to ge themjust in case??? (link)
If your under 18 you can get them at clinics suuch as Planned Parenthood for free. If your over 18, they charge you for them (or you can just get them otehr places).
I'm assuming your uner 18, so just go to one and say you've had a boyfriend for over a year and are planning on having sex soon and you want to be careful. And that your parents dont know about it, because where I live, if you tell them they do, then they charge.
Good luck :)


My mom told me to use a q-tip and rubbing alcohol and clean my new piercing but i've been reading piercing&tattoo's websites and their aftercare tips and they say to use dial soap and warm water. Should I listen to my mom or them? (link)
my advice would be to follow what the shop that you got it done said. they've been doing them for a long time (assuming) and they know their stuff. They know exacly what to do, so ask them. they may even sell there own branded product.


I have this thing with my parents having sex when i am home its never happened but i am always it will. they havent done it for awhile i knwo this for a fact. but this all started when i went through my moms inbox & my dad her were sending txt messages that said " do me" "blow me" "lick me" i comfronted my mom about this & she said it was a joke but now i have grown father apart. i just dont know what to do i balled my eyes out i can tell you this. PLEASE HELP!! what do i do do i tell her it still upsets me? (link)
First off that was rude of you to look in your mothers phone, and then confront her about it.
Next, you should be HAPPY they are having sex. Sex can be a beautiful thing that shows peoples love. When parents stop having sex, it could mean they are not in love anymore, and are having great problems. A lot of my friends have parents who don't have sex anymore, and they are goin through tough times.
I dont even see why your parents having sex makes you cry. Thats really weird and your immature. They had sex to have you, so why would that even upset you. I can see you being grossed out by it, but crying? Grow up.


hello.
I basiclly have no plans for the next 2 weeks of summer. I do'nt know what to do. help. thanks. (link)
well when I've got nothing to do, I go work out. I can work up for up to 3-4 hours a day. It's good to get your thoughts organzied because I have a lot goin on with my friends at night, and I always go out and party and such. So this is a good way to think about what you did the night before, while staying in great shape. Plus I play field hockey in the fall for the school, so I gotta get in shape. I'm not sure if you have a school sport, so if you do, then get prepped for it! And fi you dont, maybe you should try out. Sports are my life and I love being atheltic.
Otherwise, find a job. Its always great to work and then bring in a lot of money. :)


how do guys masturbate? i want specifics, please don't just be like "they touch themselves" i wanna know everything. don't think i'm a perv i'm just curious. (link)
they jack themselves off, which is to say they give themselves a hand job. and if you dont know what that is, its when you grip the dick and move your hand up and down it until they skeeet.
haha i hope thats good enough, without being too specific?
if you still have questions askkkk


What is the criteria for getting into NYU? What grades do you need to have, classes to take, etc. (link)
http://collegesearch.collegeboard.com/search/CollegeDetail.jsp?collegeId=3186&profileId=10


34% had h.s. GPA of 3.75 and higher
36% had h.s. GPA between 3.5 and 3.74
17% had h.s. GPA between 3.25 and 3.49
11% had h.s. GPA between 3.0 and 3.24
2% had h.s. GPA between 2.5 and 2.99


im in love with my x still and its so hard to move on..
but i realy wanna move on.someone please give me some advice on what i should do.. (link)
http://dating-advice.suite101.com/article.cfm/how_to_move_on_from_a_breakup


http://www.ehow.com/how_2111466_get-over-someone.html


http://www.2knowmyself.com/relationships_breakups/Falling_in_Love_with_Someone_You_Cant_Have/How_To_Get_Over_Someone


http://wiki.answers.com/Q/How_do_you_get_completely_over_someone_you_love_when_they_do_not_feel_the_same_way


http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts1141508.aspx


http://www.monsterguide.net/how-to-get-over-someone.shtml


good luck girll :)


What is a Minx (link)
Slangwise, a minx is like a seductive, flirty kinda girl. Like sneaky and mysterious.


http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=minx


Otherwise its a kinda cat, the Minx Cat


okay do guys think your easy when you makeout with them on like the first time ya'll meet up to hang out...like what if they try to kiss you but you dont want to seem stuck up nor easy (link)
I dont think if you made out with them the first time you hung out makes you easy, I've done it before maanyy times.
You could always say I dont kiss the first time I hang out in a flirtyish way, and that shows that you aren't easy, while your implying you will the next time, so it's saying he should ask you to hang out agian.
I personally would just kiss him, bnecause its fun!


Whats a good way to get your tummy flat? Im a girl so I don't like want a six pack I just want a flat toned stomach!
Also, I don't really like situps, so is there an alternate for it? (link)
What I have done and learned is that cardio is the best way to lose extra tummy fat. To tone it, you might need to do different excercizes to keep it toned and flat.
This is ther website that I used to get started. I hope Iv'e helped.!

http://www.ezone.ie/content/view/86/43/


-Olivia


A few months ago, i wrote on here about my mixed family.( I married my high school sweetheart after we both had previous relationships and children from them. Her kids were absolutly wild, never punished for anything in their life, just completely wreckless) Now my worst fears have come to reality and i am now facing a teen pregnancy with the youngest of my step daughters. Of course she is hysterical about the situation and wants to get an abortion. I am entirely against that and would never let my sons think that this is a way out of this kind of situation. her mom (my wife) is saying that she can do whatever she needs to do. Do i allow her to have the abortion or make her own up too her mistake? (link)
Depending on her age, abortion may be what to do. I'd say if she is about 15 or possibly 16 and younger, she would need an aobrtion just because of health risks that could go along with her being pregnant and being so young. Yet, if she is around 16 or 17 and higher, let her have the baby, it would be killing a baby in my opinion. I am against abortion unless it is totally neccesary. I would ask the doctor about it too. If the doctor says she can have it, let her have the baby. If she doesn't want it, she could always put it up for adoption. That is just my opinion and advice.
I hope Iv'e helped.

-Olivia


does anyone have one?
if you do, how do you like it?

im thinking of getting the instinct by sprint. its pretty new so not many people have it.

ps. sorry if this is in the wrong category. i had no idea which one to put it in. (link)
i have one and i absolutely love it. it's the tilt by at&t and i always touch other people's screen and am like why isn't this working? haha, but yeah they break kind of easily so if you get one take care of it!


i really wanna get my belly button pierced but im afraid it will hurt really bad and when they're doing it i will want them to stop. so my questions are, is it a quick process? does it hurt? will it get in the way if i play sports? and how long do i have to keep it in before i change it? (link)
i have both belly button and cartiledge pierced and out of the two, the cartiledge was worse but not by much. when you get your navel pierced it's a quick process they tell you to take a deep breath in and when you let out they pierce it and it's done! your cartiledge keeps hurting for days and days but my belly button only hurt for about a half hour. i'm not sure about it getting in the way of sports, because some teams have no jewelry of any type rules. and you should keep it in for about 3 months before changing it. hope i helped!


okay. my bestfriend and her boyfriend have done like everything but had actual sex. including anal. well me and her were talking and she told me that she put her hand down his pants after they had been fooling around and he wasnt hard. and he like never gets hard easily anymore. she feels like its her fault. and he says its because they do the same thing. well the only thing left to do to have sex. and shes not ready for that and is terrified of the consequences. could there really be some other reason why hes not getting "excited". (link)
its not always the person that get the opposite partner as excited anymore. just because one may not get turned on as easy doesn't you make such as drastic thing to get back into it. basic sex can get old, yes very. but it's also about positions. excuse my language, but laying on your back all the time, isn't really interesting. tell your friend she should probably try like standing up, try him sitting on a chair. if she's flexible, there is a lot she can do, even while on her back. there is also strip teasing. get her to look up some kama sutra methods.


sorry this is a wierd question, but what does it mean to pop someones cherry?? thanks! (link)
It means take their virginity
by breaking their hymen


my sister likes masturbating to girls kissing but shes not a lesbian.
what does this mean? (link)
It just turns her on.
Guys love to jack off to lesbians, but it doesnt mean they are lesbians.




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