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Parents=SEX?
I have this thing with my parents having sex when i am home its never happened but i am always it will. they havent done it for awhile i knwo this for a fact. but this all started when i went through my moms inbox & my dad her were sending txt messages that said " do me" "blow me" "lick me" i comfronted my mom about this & she said it was a joke but now i have grown father apart. i just dont know what to do i balled my eyes out i can tell you this. PLEASE HELP!! what do i do do i tell her it still upsets me?
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Hmm, well I understand being really grossed out by this as the though of old people doin' it is quite vomitous. But I don't understand crying over it. I will not critisize you for looking at your moms phone COMPLETELY, as I don't know that whole story, maybe you came across it by accident. But if that was the case then you shouldn't have kept reading.
But you shouldn't have confronted your mom about it. My advice is to just forget about it. It IS THEIR sex life, so. But don't let it upset you. Also confronting your parents about it will be very strange because no one I know cries about that stuff.
Besides, wouldn't you hate it if someone confronted you about your sex life? Then again, that's what prents always do, they think they're the only ones with a right to have sex. Damn middle-aged people from the baby-boomer generation. Anyway...
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I half agree with everyone elses responses.
Yes it was rude to go through your mothers phone, but you werent asking about your moms phone.
I think you should definitly discuss this with your mom. If it really bothers you, you should let her know.
Yes, its natural for them to do that, but maybe talk to your mom about having them do that while you arent home.
Hope I could help. Good Luck!!
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First off that was rude of you to look in your mothers phone, and then confront her about it.
Next, you should be HAPPY they are having sex. Sex can be a beautiful thing that shows peoples love. When parents stop having sex, it could mean they are not in love anymore, and are having great problems. A lot of my friends have parents who don't have sex anymore, and they are goin through tough times.
I dont even see why your parents having sex makes you cry. Thats really weird and your immature. They had sex to have you, so why would that even upset you. I can see you being grossed out by it, but crying? Grow up.
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I totally agree with Southern-Chickety's advice. It is none of your business what your parents get up to in private and you have no right to question her about it. You certainly had no business going through their personal things. Imagine if your Mum went through your personal things. I suggest that you apologise to her for invading her privacy.
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You are totally in the wrong for going through your parents inbox. It's none of your business - at all. Your mother should not have had to defend herself - she should have told you that you were being nosy.
You wouldn't go through your boyfriends, sisters, brothers, etc. inboxes and you most certainly should not read through the private messages of your parents.
I find it ironic how the thought of your parents having sex disgusts you so much because had it not been for their sex life, you wouldn't be here today asking this question.
What's the big deal if they have sex? People of ALL ages have sex. We're finding out more and more that 13 year old girls are having sex, and as long as I can remember, 80 year old men and women are getting their groove on in nursing homes.
Sex is a pleasurable act. It's also a great way for two people in love to connect. Why should it bother you?
Besides, you say that haven't had sex with you home - so why are you still complaining?
If they were to have sex with you in the house - THAT is when you go to them and tell them that it upsets you (or just plain grosses you out - I wouldn't want my parents doing that while I'm home, just like I wouldn't do that while they were home ;-p).
This inbox thing doesn't prove they're having sex in the house. It's just a little "phone sex" if you will. What's so wrong about that?
When you get older (especially if you have kids), maybe you'll realize that being in a long term relationship doesn't just mean living together. It includes the feelings and acting upon those feelings.
They aren't doing anything wrong.
Technically, having sex with you home isn't wrong either, but I can see where that bothers you - as it would bother most teens.
So, if they start having sex while you're home - feel free to explain how that bothers you. BUT, if they're doing this other stuff behind closed doors and you're just peeking - well, that's your own fault. Nobody told you to go through your moms inbox - you took that upon yourself.
Until they start having sex with you in the house - you need to just get over it.
Even if they do have sex with you in the house and you explain your opinion, it doesn't mean they're in the wrong if they don't stop.
It's all apart of a loving relationship.
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