okay. my bestfriend and her boyfriend have done like everything but had actual sex. including anal. well me and her were talking and she told me that she put her hand down his pants after they had been fooling around and he wasnt hard. and he like never gets hard easily anymore. she feels like its her fault. and he says its because they do the same thing. well the only thing left to do to have sex. and shes not ready for that and is terrified of the consequences. could there really be some other reason why hes not getting "excited".
orphans answered Monday June 23 2008, 1:55 pm: its not always the person that get the opposite partner as excited anymore. just because one may not get turned on as easy doesn't you make such as drastic thing to get back into it. basic sex can get old, yes very. but it's also about positions. excuse my language, but laying on your back all the time, isn't really interesting. tell your friend she should probably try like standing up, try him sitting on a chair. if she's flexible, there is a lot she can do, even while on her back. there is also strip teasing. get her to look up some kama sutra methods. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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