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Q: how can i make sure that my girlfriend that lives 300 miles awya will never wanna leave me?
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Just tell her how you feel about it her and be completely sweet. Sweet talk works for me. I think thats how it always goes for pretty much any girl. Send her 12 roses. And a fake one. So 11 and do the ol line that you'll love her to the last one dies. Just tell her. HoPe i HeLPeD ((RaTe Me PLZ) TRiX
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Q: OK, so my dad has cancer, my mom needs 2 hav surgery, my sista is a diebetic, my other sis just had a baby, and we hav alot of other things like that going on in my family. I really need an additude ajustment. When ever some1 else says somethin negitive, i become negitive, and every1 gets mad at me. How do i change this?
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I can relate to this. Both my grandma's have cancer. My uncle is living in ICU because he needs a heart transplant and his mechanical heart didnt work out. My other Uncle needs a kidney. My aunt has really extreme bladder problems. My cousin got married.. so she isnt around. Good thing i am answering. I told my mom that i need counsoling. Youth works.. if you have that by you go. Its $5-$10 a night.. doesnt matter the amount of hours. And you dont have to pay if you cant. They help you out and you just have someone there to help you through anything. HoPe i HeLPeD ((RaTe Me PLZ) TRiX
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Q: i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and i love him so much but just recently, i have been getting close with my sisters boyfriends couin, who is 23 years old and i am 17. we ended up getting closer and closer over the past few weeks and talked every day on the phone and he came over to see me everyday and hang out. then, 2 nights ago, we ended up having sex and we stayed up talking for hours and he told me how he liked me and i told him about how i felt the same way. he knows about my boyfriend and he respects the fact that i have a boyfriend but i don't know what to do because last night he came over to hang out with my sisters boyfriend and he didnt talk to me once. usually he wont talk to me in front of them that much because they would suspect something if we did. but, even when my sisters boyfriend was in the bathroom and what not, he still didn't talk to me. i don't know what to think. what are your thoughts on all this? should i tell him i really care about him? this is the first time ive cared for someone like this besides my boyfriend in a while. but, theres something about this boy. please tell me your thoughts.
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Well if he isnt talking back to your or at you I would go up to him and ask him. of course when you two are alone otherwise he would be like.. uhh what are you talking about. Maybe he didnt talk to you when your sisters boyfriend was in the bathroom was because maybe he didnt want your sister to think something was up.
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Q: I have this friend who used to be my best friend ever. We still talk alot and she is still a good friend but we have been spreading apart. We always talk about how we dont hang out enough but every time I try to hang out with her she is out with other friends or wont call me back or just doesnt pick up. Its making me really frustrated because she is awesome but I am to the point where I just want to stop trying because she never trys to hang out with me Im always trying to hang out with her. Should I just give up? And is she just trying to tell me she dosent care anymore?
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Well you know you sound like a good friend and like you care about this. I would just leave her a message or something and tell her you have put alot of effort and she doesnt show any so until she does you guys are taking a break or something and i see that you are splitting apart. I split with my 2 best friends .. Krista my first one then Kaleigh my 2nd. I didnt really know what to do about Krista but I found Kaleigh adn she helped me through it. Then i relized Kaleigh was just doing things behind my back so i moved on and perty much met my twin Hanno Banno (hannasch) but What im saying is that you probably most likely wont have the same best friend for your whole life. After all we arent living boy meets world.. which would be cool but we arent. So there for we just sometimes got to let go and move on. Hope I helped **trix** ((please rate))
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Q: i'm 13/f and i skateboard but like no other s in my school do... besides like this 6th grader, but thats it. and i wear "punk" cloths i guess, like skateboarding shoes and element shirts and hoodies and dickies skateboarding pants, but idk if thats like a turn off for guys that skateboard cuse thats kinda how they dress... i'm not like a tom-boy, god no, but i feel kind of weird around guys that are wearing the same stuff as me, if u know what i mean. help please!! thanks so much
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Well I know some guy friends of mine who'd prefer a skater girl rather then a girly girl which is what I am.. and i dont take it offensivly cuz i've dated some of the guys that said they'd prefer a skater girl they just like doing that so you 2 would always have something to do and to teach eachother. So i am doubting that its a turn off for guys. Maybe some but not all. I mean maybe you dont always have to dress like that. If you go to Pac sun or Almost famous they have some cute punk girl stuff. I really like Pac sun for that sort of stuff and i am sure you would too! Hope I helped **trix** ((please rate))
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Q: OK here it goes. I go out with this girl and we used to spend time with each other all the time until i moved. So right now we r having a long distance relationship. Now everytime I talk to a certain girl she thinks I am cheating on her even when I tell her time to time again that I love her and I would never ever do nothing like that. She writes things about my friends that i don't like and that really gets on my nerves. Basically she doesnt trust me at all. Should I dump her or should I just talk to her. 13/m
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Well first off. Talk to her.. dont just plain out dump her everybody needs to be talked to before anybody gets dumped. Thats at least how i feel. You just gotta think what you would want her to do but if she doesnt give you any good reasons then dump her. Or if she says she'll stop and continues to do it.. then dump her. Friends come first
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Q: Well, I have two best friends, and i feel like the third wheel. Although they say im not, I feel like it and my parents see it too. I dont know if I should split off from them, or hang on? And, theyre always sort of depressing, and i dont like that...but every1 else in my school has best friends...i feel like i have none
help?
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I would just talk to them see how they really feel. Maybe you 3 should all have a sleepover together at your house and hang out and catch up on good times and just talk. I mean it helps alot weather you know it or not.
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Q: i dumped my boyfriend because he lied to me about doing drugs. Everyone told me he was bad news and all my guy friends who were his friends too told me i deserved way better then him. I still wanted proff and i got it on the night b4 homecomming.i dumped him after i saw him smoking weed with some other guy. its been over a month since that night i caught him and broke up, but just the other day he randomly asked me y i broke up with him, i tried to explain telling him how he lied, but he didnt see that as a good enough reason. did i do the right thing?
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Of course! I mean if he went behind your back.. why trust?
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Q: ok theres this guy i dont like him but hes going out with this girl.This guy does not like this girl.And this girl doesnt like this guy. I guess they are just provin they can get some. But anyways they think im jealous and our conversastions lead to more. I even thought about suicide. Im a normal american girl. Im a cheerleader and very smart. I have NEVER even considered suicide. Im so scared i dont know whats happening!! PLEASE HELP!
Signed,
Not Suicidal
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Well I mean a guy isnt worth your tears if he makes you cry. Pssh i know i just pointed out the obvious.. but whatever. :) but you shouldnt be thinking about suicide you got plenty other guys to go out with and have a good time with. Dont sweat over some guy just because he's dumb and is missing wahts in front of him. Its his own fault not yours.
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Q: Im a 16/f and my best friend iss a 18/m. Well, my best friend had a gf for 2-3 years and they were in love. he was madley in love with her and her back. Someting happened and now they broke up. that was 3 months ago. ONE month ago, my friend moved to Texas. He met this girl and they started dating, yesterday was theyre 1 month anniversary and they already had sex. I got mad at him because he met her a MONTH ago and already had SEX! I mean, I expected SO MUCH MORE from him. and He tells me its none of my buisiness, and yeah its not, but im his best friend also, and I just dont get it I tol dhim its rebound and he told me its not because he rebounded on me for a week . So he liked me for a week . and stopped. got a gf, and had sex with her. He tells me he has strong feelings for her and they applied to the same colleges So why the heck am I so pissed at him for having sex a MONTH into a relationship...? am i wrong for being pissed? and i cant figure out weather im jealous or not... i dont think i am. but just THINKING about him having sex with some girl he just met makes me upset. help :(
He moved to Texas and I live in AZ.
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You shouldnt be mean towards him i mean you do have the right to be mad because you care about him. You just probably care about him and want whats best for him. He may later regret what he did tonight but thats his doing and you just remember and learn from his mistakes. Just talk to him. I actually can relate. I mean I got pretty torn up about my best friend when she had sex and i was like wow.. so just talk to him .good luck. trix
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Q: please help!!! fast!!! i am a 14 year old black girl and i am losing my hair. i don't think it's because of my health, but you i had permed my hair for a long time now. my hair has been growing ever since, but now it is all falling out.
i need help fast!!! does any one have any suggestions or what kind of a product to use to help. i am freaking out!!!!!!!!!
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i dont think you hair is going to be all gone. Just make sure you use healthy shampoo and conditioner. You are hair probably just thinning itsself
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Q: everyone in my class says this guy and i should go out! my friend talked to him and he said he liked me! i told him i liked him and now i'm waiting for him to make a move! what now?
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He may be to shy now. He may be waiting for you to make the move!
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Q: I was wondering if it's possible to get pregnant from swallowing...my boyfriend and I have been messing around so this question came up. Thanks.
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Q: how do u get tested fo a sti?im worried
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Q: one of my boobs is smaller thab the other one about a cup size smaller..im 16 will i have to have plastic sergery?or will it cach up?pleese help swn
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No dont haev plastic surgery. It just like one of your hands or arms or feet. One is always going to be bigger then other and thats how everything is because not everything is exactly perfect
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Q: How mych money do u get paid for babysitting a couple of littel kids for about 3-5 hours?
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Q: hey um this is kind of awkward, but i'm 14 going on 15 in a couple of months, and i belive i have met "the one" i've know him sience i was 2 1/2 and he wants to um finger me, and i am totally comfortable with it, but my parents arn't. should i do it behing my parents back, or listen to my parents and not do it at all, but my mom is the one whos conserned my dad doesn't care. i've haven't talked to them about it they kinda listen in my phone conversations with one of my good friends, have you ever got fingered or done it to someone? if not then how old were you when you did it, please.... im so CONFUSED! i'll rate!
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14. Well you are going to have to grow up you know.. and like i dont think you will be telling your parents that you had sex for the first time or whatever. At least you know the guy well i mean unlike alot of girls just do it.. Just to do it. I wouldnt have even talked to my parents about that. SOrri
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Q: does getting your tongue pierced hurt? How much worse is it than an ear piercing? Thanks in advance for the help.
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I dont think it hurts a whole lot worse then ear. I heared it hurts alot but my other friend said she didnt feel athing
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Q: i was a moderator, but now all the sudden im not. i wasn't on advicenators for over a week because i was grounded, could that be why? my average rating is 4...
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It because you were gone for so long so they thought maybe you had stopped giving advice or whatever just try to get a high rating and go from there
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Q: i've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months. he comes over almost every day, considering he lives in the neighborhood next to me. every time he comes over, he thinks we always have to do stuff sexually. and the last time i saw him, i asked him if everything has to be about sex and he said yes. should i dump him, talk to him, not see him as much? help! thank u! i rate high =)
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Yeah you should dump your boyfriend beause if everything has to be based like that then thats messed up. You should have a boyfriend that respects you for who you are and what you want. It doesnt sound to me like he is doing that. I would just let him know how you feel and if he doesnt seem to understand then break up with him!
♥Trix♥
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bio
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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.
I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.
I've been there done that im sure
ex. (with the number of expierences)
-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)
Like I said "been there done that"
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Info
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Gender: Female Age: 17 Member Since: June 3, 2004 Answers: 3661 Last Update: December 20, 2009 Visitors: 222296
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