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My Boyfriend is really clingy sumtimes and my friends have told him to kinda back off a bit but he hasn't done it that much what do i tell him?
Thanx

Just be honest with him and tell him you think he is too clingy becuase if he doesn't hear it from you .. he will think everyone else is jokin around.♥

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ok.I have a nice funny bofriend.We have been dating 4 about 5 months and we just started staying away from each other more and more.That has been going on 4 a couple of months.(MEANWHILE)A boy we r going 2 call jacob started flirting with me and i flirt back.I have heard tons of people say he likes me and that we look cute together.My boyfriend gets mad if jacob hits me or something like that.The reason im scared 2 break up with my b-friend is all the drama it will bring.all his friends will be mad at me and they r kinda my friends 2.his mom will be mad at me and so will he and i would like 2 stay friends even if i do break up wit him.I just need some opinions and will love anyones help!!!

If you want to break up with him then I think you should do it & not listen to what his friends will say because if they were TRUE friends they would understand.But do it in a nice way & tell him you would still want to be friends.If he asks is it because you like someone else say no.Don't let him know you like Jacob right away.., wait a day or two. Good luck with everything.♥

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I cant seem to let my ex go. I have known him over 1/2 of my life. We were best friends but a terrible thing (rape) happened to me by his best friend and rumors that I cheated left us to break up. I was demanding and selfish and abusive towards him and it messed up a lot of our relationship. We both got locked up around the same time do to our behavior...Now I have gotten out and changed around my life. Im doing very well and I have matured and grown up some. He is still locked up and we have the same counselor...But i keep having dreams of him and I constantly think of him. I love him..and I know he cares about me, but at this time I just cant get him off of my mind. He gets out in a few months, and he is doing very well. I pray all the time for god to help me let him go if there isnt a reason for him to still be in my life but it just wont go away. I need some advice on what I can do. I mean I am already occupied, Im a cheerleader, I workout a lot, I keep myself busy, but anytime I have time to think...its mainly about regrets and what i couldve done to help our relationship not ruin it. Past is past and i know that but I cant seem to move on! Any advice?

Aw.. it means like your in love with this dude.It's always hard to let go of a ex. In your case I don't think you should come on because you still have strong feelings for him , and maybe there is a reason why they're there? And knowing him a long time does have alot to do with it.So I don't think you should move on.Don't ever regret anything in life because at one point it was exactly what you wanted to do/ happen.. ♥

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Ok, this past year i have had 2 boyfriends. The first one was really great and I liked him alot. We were really close and i thought he cared about me. Then at one of my bff's b-day party's he was invited and so was my other bff. Well, my other bff and him went to look for the girl that was having the party's softball they lost in the woods. A little later they came out and my friend took me to the side and said he had kissed her. I was REALLY hurt. Then in the same day he broke up with me. This was his excuse:" I got my 1st cousin pregnant." Then, later on I found out it was a lie.
The second boyfriend I had was really close to me too. Then, he stopped returning my calls and all my friends were saying he was cheating on me. My bff(the girl the 1st guy kissed) said he had been calling her all the time. She also said she would talk to him for hours at a time. So, it really hurt me that she was doing this to me and rubbing it in my face. I don't wanna lose her as a friend, but why can't i hold on to a guy.....?

I know you don't want to lose her as a friend but you really need to talk to her.She's taking your boyfriends away from you, which is rude.And the next boyfriend you have don't even introduce him and your best friend that way nothing can happen. ♥

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i have a friend and hes a boy iv known him for a while and hes one of my good friends.. ya i like him a lot not as a friend.. and i dont want to tell him that i like him because i dont want to stop bein friends and im scared that im might scare him off like its one of those things that you want to tell the person but you dont.. and the worse part is that we act like homies and im a tomboy and i have a lot of guy friends so ya.. what should i do?

Just be open with him and tell him I don't think it will scare him off.Because you never know he might like you too.Or ask a friend to ask him if he likes you then take it from there.Whatever you do don't hide the feelings you have for him. ♥

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its been about a month or so since my boyfriend broke up with me. and that was like the 4th time we've been together and now he has a girlfriend. i just found that out the other day and when i heard he had a girlfriend, it made me cry.everyone keeps telling that i need to get over him and move on but i've been trying to do that for like 3 weeks now and we didnt really talk alot but the other day i went to my friends house and me and him started to talk again. and that was a big mistake cuz i was almost over him and now im starting to like him again.

The best thing to do is IGNORE HIM & DON'T TALK TO HIM AGAIN. Yeah I know it's hard to get over someone but if you don't talk to him for awhile things will be better & you will be happier. If he even starts talking to you ignore him..it all just takes time.He might be trying to get you back by talking to you but don't fall for it. ♥

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i have a boyfriend and we've been on and off for the past 2 years.I found out he cheated on my 3 times.Stupidly i got back together with him 1 week ago and now he sais he didnt know we were dating and he got a different girlfriend.He also tried to kiss me afetr he told me this!What should i do?

He`s a player hes trying to get you and other girls, and don't fall for it.When he kisses you just get away from him.I hate guys like that.The only thing you can do and not get hurt is ignore him & let him go , don't even talk to him.

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((this is for my friend named chelsea)
well, theres this guy on my brothers baseball team, and hes really hott and sweet. the only problem is that he is 10-and i am 13. what do i do? is it okay if i still like him or is it too weird?

First off a guy is suposed to be older but not always, but also thats three years deff & he is too young for you.I`m sure there are other hot 13 year olds..it probly will be weird..♥

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I am a female and I am a virgin. If my boyfriend has cum or precum on his hand and fingers me, can I become pregnant? I really need to know this as soon as possible! Please help!

Yea you can .. but its rare. ♥

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is it wrong for a 16 year old to be fucin around w a 12 year old grl hahah answer it too dont ignore

Everyone has there own opinion but yeah that's wrong it's a teenager with a child. Desperate..maaybe? ♥

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my boyfreind showed everyone his private area and im really hurt.
should i break up with him?

Why would you be hurt ? He`s the one who decided to do it.There is nothing to feel bad about.No,I don`t think you should break up with him but it's your choice. ♥

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my boyfriend is wants to have sex, and, im cosidering it. im 15, am i old enuff? i know about being safe and all, and i dont need to be lecture about how its not right cause the bible says its rong, im not religiouse. i just dont know if im old enuff to be having sex.

There is no age really.If you think your ready then you are, no one but you will know.Do what you think is right. ♥

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i get jealous of all the girls my boyfriend talks to... how do i keep myself from feeling bad.

It's normal but be jealous, but after all your the one going out with him not them. ♥

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16f
my mom caught me mastubating and watching porn and now i'm crying and i'm mad and i don't know what to do.... i feel awful... i cant stop crying i think i'm gonna cut myself... dammit i dont know what else to do!!! please help me i'm not some emo kid but im considering killing myself...

Woah..relax just because your mom caught you masturbating &+ watching porn doesn`t mean you should cut yourself / kill yourself.That`s crazy.I don`t think you should freak out about this..just pretend like she never caught you.♥

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okay so i am known as the BIGGEST slut in my whole entire school . well thats waht i have heard. like theres a group of kids that are calling me a slut and saying i got fingered and gave a bunch of guys blowjobs . its really getting on my nerves because i havent done that . i have made out with only THREE guys . and most of them have lost their virginity . how can i prove that im not a lsut?

I hate people who start shit , you honestly don`t need to prove them anything.Don`t listen to them they have nothing better to do, just act like you don't care. ♥

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ohh my godd. I can not get over this damn boy. even tho we broke up like 3 or 4 weeks ago and he actually cheated on me and he's being really mean to me about it and i mean i kno hes not over me we went out for like 4 months longest we both have ever gone out with any one and we did a lot of stuff together and he said soo many nice things to me things i've never heard any boy tell me and he was talking to my friend yesterday and told hr that he didn't love me he liked me a lot and like i should go cry a river and he ment the stuff he said just he doesn't feel like that any more and omg i like sttarted crying i've tried everything i threw everything away but still to this fucking day i cry about it...what do i do?

There isn't much you can do .. he isn`t worth you time if told his friend he didn`t love you..find someone new and get your mind off him,hes a asshole like every other guy.Don`t cry about it your just wasting time crying when nothing will change.And if he ever does come back to you or try talking to you block him. Good luck with everything. ♥

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I have a secret crush and she dosent know it, or at least i dont think she does, she has a bf and she really likes him, i have had a crush on her for awhile even before her bf but i had a gf at that time, should i try to go for it or leave her alone?

That`s cute..okay anyways there isn`t much you can do right now because she has a boyfriend so you can only wait.But try to hang out with her more & stuff like that.But when they do break up I think you should go for it.Don`t just leave her alone tho.. ♥

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What is dry sex?

Dry sex is when you do the movements of sex just have clothes on.. ♥

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there is this guy i used to be best friends with years ago. he ignored me all of a sudden, and now its weird. i miss him so much, and i have finally have come clean and told him. we are friends now, but its not the same like it used to. we dont really hang out. my (girl) best friend now is bff with him just like him and me were. they are so so close and like each other and it makes me so sad and jealous. i am tired of beating myself up just because he liek sher and not me. =[ please help me i have no idea wat to do.

You need to talk to him again and tell him what you and him USED to have you want back.Also say that you feel that your (girl) best friend is taking your place..I know it`s hard and it happened to me before.But after you talk to him & things still don`t get better then just let him go he is missing out on someone who cares about him. ♥

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hi, i have a problem. i really miss my boy friend a lot. hes on vaccation and we barley get to talk and i miss him soooooooooooooooooooo muchhhh =( what could i do to take my mind of missing him so much ?

Aw I so know who this is, there isn`t much you can do just try & think he is coming back earlier and don`t think about it.Listen to music , play basketball, and go outside.If you need anything I`m here for you =] ♥

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