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boyfriend My Boyfriend is really clingy sumtimes and my friends have told him to kinda back off a bit but he hasn't done it that much what do i tell him?
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You could say,"I wanna go a little slower" or something. Hope I helped. ]
You tell him to back off and give you some space. Don't depend on his friends, do it yourself. And if he doesn't take the hint and you don't like the clingy-ness then back away and tell him you need time. ]
Tell him to back off. But be kind of nice about it. Or you can tell him to take a break. If I were you, I'd say to him, "Boyfriend, I think you're really great and I love spending time with you but your kind of clingy." Hope this helps! ]
Just be honest with him and tell him you think he is too clingy becuase if he doesn't hear it from you .. he will think everyone else is jokin around.♥ ]
Tell him what you told us. And make sure it's not just your friends that think he's clingy, because if you don't mind it, then there's no problem. And if you have to have your friends tell him for you, then your too immature to be in a relationship anyways. ]
Do you mind that he is clingy? do you like it? If you don't mind then don't tell him anything.
But if you do... tell him that you really care about him but you need to make time for him and for your friends.
Tell him that you care about him and you don't want to lose him but sometimes is good for him to hang with the guys as well.
Tell him your not going anywhere so it wont matter if you miss out on seeing him for a day, besides there's always a phone or texting for him to say hi, i miss you!
:) hope i helped! ]
I know how you feel, but he's coming from a good place it seems. I mean - he likes you! Youre lucky. So just consider that before you go dumping him only to find out that its hard to find nice guys like him. If he's really not getting the subtle hints youre dropping him - then its time to talk to him about giving you space. You have to ask if you want a guy to change something because they cant read your mind. And its not a good idea to get your friends involved. Its him & your relationship..not him and them. Plus, he might feel ganged up on. Tell him you love him but sometimes you need your space and that when you do you'll let him know. ]
my boy friend is the same way and i think im going 2 end it but not 4 that reason. I have others but we worked the clingy prob out.just tell him u need some space sumtimes.I hope u worke it out and it ends up good!!!:) ]
That happened to me. Everytime he would try to touch me i just kinda pushed him off a bit. It helped. Just dont be mean about it, just do it enough to get the message through. And tell him not right now, i dont want you to be that clingy. It really helped me.
Good luck ]
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