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about to cry
there is this guy i used to be best friends with years ago. he ignored me all of a sudden, and now its weird. i miss him so much, and i have finally have come clean and told him. we are friends now, but its not the same like it used to. we dont really hang out. my (girl) best friend now is bff with him just like him and me were. they are so so close and like each other and it makes me so sad and jealous. i am tired of beating myself up just because he liek sher and not me. =[ please help me i have no idea wat to do.
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I'm going though the same thing and I told him that I feel left out and I cry all the time he said why didn't you said that when you first felt it? i said you like her alot and I didn't want to make you guys feel bad or anthing. So how we are the best friends he said i'm glad you expressed your fellings when you did.
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i had a similair situation try to include both of them and bring in other ppl to help a more group atmosphere
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You need to talk to him again and tell him what you and him USED to have you want back.Also say that you feel that your (girl) best friend is taking your place..I know it`s hard and it happened to me before.But after you talk to him & things still don`t get better then just let him go he is missing out on someone who cares about him. ♥
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This must be really tough for you.Don't beat yourself up for something that really isn't your fault.Maybe he just wanted to break out to a new group of friends.Just tell him how you feel.He can't be friends with you like he used to be if he doesn't know how you really feel.Just talk to him.See what happens.
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hey,
I understand what your going through , and i know that its really tough and it hurts so much. it also happened to me and alot of other people before, thats why i'm gonna help you now.
From some of my past experiences, I've learnt something very important,and that is, that not all friends stay forever ,some of them just come and go, even if they are the closest and bestest of your friends. And those who go, are not really true freinds, but are just there for a while to enjoy a good joke, laugh a bit, talk, gossip, and mabye sometimes use you( but in your situation i don't think he was using you).
I know that its really hard to accept the fact that this friendship was just practically a temporary one, but as i said not all friends stay forever. I know it hurts, and i know that you love him, and i also know that you miss him crazy, but i also know that this friendship between you and him was not one of those actual friendships which go on for a life time. You see, your friend moved on and made a new best freind, and is totally enjoying himself, and in a year or two, he'll probably start ignoring this new best friend, and find another one. I know it sounds mean, but sometimes people find themselves moving on and changing their friends especially when they meet someone new and are so excited about it. So all you have to do is to stand up fo yourself, and if he wants to talk to you, then listen, and joke a bit and fool around, and if he wants to ignore you and not talk to you, then you don't want anything from him either, and you will not run after him.
So just let go and take a step back, and if he wants to get back, then he'll come around ,but if he doesn't then it'll be too obvious.And i am sure that you will cry and feel bad and stuff , but one day your gonna make a new friend, and this time he'll stick around and won't let go, and he'll be one of those freinds which stay forever. And i promise you will find that person, and do you know why? Because you deserve such a person.
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