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my brothers friend..and ME?!


Question Posted Sunday July 9 2006, 2:04 am

well im 16/f
and well you see my brother is 19 but has friends that are 17. well my best friend liked one of my brothers old friends and they are now going out but before it was two of my brothers friends and then me and my best friend. well my friend and one of my brothers friend (jeff) were together and watchin a movie and then it was me and my other brothers friend (aaron) well i didnt like aaron i barely knew him so it was awkward..we were spread out when watching the movie when my friend and jeff were cuddling. so then aaron left for a sec and i was bored by myself and i was sitting on his bed trying on his hats and stuff and then aaron comes back and we start flirting like he grabs me we start wrestling im laying in his arms and im thinking this is kinda weird...me and one of my brothers friends? well i think he tried to kiss me but i kinda ignored it because i didnt want to kiss him..i mean it was my brothers friend!!! i barely knew him. he was singing let it burn by usher to me too lol. when we got home that night he told my friend on the computer that he was starting to like me and asked what i thought about him. but one time i was at my grandmas and i came in and then he was swimming with my brother and cousin and he told my cousin..oh my wife is here! hahaa. and tonight we had some texas hold em party and then like..it was my brother aaron and then my cousin downstairs and then my other cousin and my best friend upstairs. well they call me downstairs and aaron is like i told you not to wear those pants! im like what i dont get it? and my brother is like he thinks your his wife..or thats what he calls you because you two are gonna get married when you get older like joking but i kinda think aaron still likes me? my aunt says that one night he was over he stared at me everytime i came in the room he was in. hes not that attractive but hes SOO NICE AND FUNNY. its unbelieveable and my parents love him since they see him all the time because of my brother. tonight he also was like hey ...have you ever had a boyfriend before? and sadly i was like nope...and hes like why not and i just walked out the door i was really embarassed because ive never been asked out before and didnt feel like talking about it!! do you think aaron likes me? or what..or just likes kidding around with me. im unsure about him because i always hear him talking about other girls and everything so i dont know if he just sees me and my brothers little sis or as someone he could have a relationship with. because he liked me before but now my cousin thinks he still likes me? what do you think. my brother doesnt mind either i guess??? since aaron said that to my friend when she was talkin to him that one night because i said it would be weird with my brother and all. my brother finds it funny somehow. i dont want to ask my brother either because then he will be like OooOh why you like aaron? im telling him. my brother..is just a brother you know how they are.

well thank you!


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samthebear answered Sunday July 9 2006, 7:59 am:
i think he really likes you, no guy would go to all that trouble for a girl for no reason. besides if he's your brother's friend he can't be all that bad can he? your brother doesn't seem to mind but if you still think he may be just playing with you go ask your brother and suss him out before you make up your mind about him. i mean really if he's going into the 'she's my wife' no matter how joking it seems at that time i don't really think any guy would say that unless he was really serious about a girl. relax, i really think he geuninely likes you but in the event that he hurts you emotionally or physically remember you have your brother. no one in their right minds would mess with their friend's younger sister unless they are asking for a death scentence. hope that helps and good luck!

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