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I work with this guy. But hes on a vacation break for about a month. Its his part time job becuase he is aslo military. I started this job in OCtober. He was the one that pretty much trained me on the job MOre then any others employees. Since i started there i have Had A crush on him.
Friday i drove on base to put my check in the bank and he was one of the security Guys checking the IDs. He saw me and smiled at me. And i drove away.
Also Theres a pretty big age gap. im 17f & hes 25m. And he has a girlfriend but hes not married.
My question is. Is there anything i can really do in this situation? And any advice that you would love to give to me.
Thank you;)
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Hi, the only way to find out that he feels the same way is to ask him out sometime and take it from there. Bare in mind that he just might say no simply because he's already taken or he doesn't feel the same way as you do. There is 8 years difference between you, so he might not be into the same stuff as you are if you know what I mean. But yeah go for it. At least then you will know how he feels. Daniel.
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If you really like him then go for it. The age difference isn't that bad. You only live once and if it was meant to happen he'll say yes. Make sure your casual about it. Good luck I hope I helped!!!
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Well, since he already has a girlfriend i would just leave him be for now. You dont want to get in the middle(believe me from experience) Getting in the middle, is bound to cause problems between you and his gf and you and him.Its just not worth it. But, if they ever do break up then go for it. But, in the meantime focus on other things. And the good thing outta this is that it is only a crush;]
Remember: Whatevers meant to happen, will always find a way.
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um... i would say just leave it be, the age gap isn't that much of anything really but it's the fact that he has a girlfriend already and you said that you've only had a crush on him so i think that'll pass. it's not the best thing for either parties (you, him or even his girlfriend) if you try and get in-between. so for now i'd just say let it be, if some where in the future he breaks off with his girlfriend, you still see him and you still have a thing for him go for it. see how it turns out. hope that helps =]
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