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I have a crush and i dont know what to do


Question Posted Saturday July 8 2006, 11:56 pm

I have a secret crush and she dosent know it, or at least i dont think she does, she has a bf and she really likes him, i have had a crush on her for awhile even before her bf but i had a gf at that time, should i try to go for it or leave her alone?

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OoOhaileyOoO answered Sunday July 16 2006, 9:12 pm:
I think you should let her notice you. Talk to her some and always look her in the eye. Don't try to hard or to fast. Let her decide who she wants.
~~~~~~~~~hailey~~~~~~~~~

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LoveMeDo answered Sunday July 9 2006, 2:45 pm:
Leave her alone while she's with someone else, but be a good friend. He probaly won't be around forever.

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girdy_goo15 answered Sunday July 9 2006, 2:08 pm:
ok since she has a bf, just leave it alone for now, but be her friend now, then when she and he break up she will have a friend, then also after a while after they break up, start to get closer to her, ask her if she wanted to go out some time or something like that.

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xOViLLYxO answered Sunday July 9 2006, 11:50 am:
That`s cute..okay anyways there isn`t much you can do right now because she has a boyfriend so you can only wait.But try to hang out with her more & stuff like that.But when they do break up I think you should go for it.Don`t just leave her alone tho.. ♥

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GREENEYEDGiRL22 answered Sunday July 9 2006, 11:00 am:
dont tell her, cuz than itll be awkward between you two if she still has a boyfriend. all you can do is flirt like mad with her, and maybe she'll realize that she likes you

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Lola answered Sunday July 9 2006, 9:39 am:
Hey,
As i read through your problem ,i understood that you really like this girl and want her as a girlfriend. So i don't think that there is anyway that you can ask her out. But umm.. you can go and talk to her ,and get to know her,and get close to her, and be good friends with her, but don't act all romantic or anything. Then mabye later on, she'd like you. I think thats a good idea, because if you follow it, then you wouldn't have to go and ask her out and mabye you'd be humiliated if she turns you down and refuses, and at the same time, you can be with her, and you don't have to leave her alone.
so try to consider this, and if you need any other help, be free to contact me.

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ladym answered Sunday July 9 2006, 8:54 am:
The only thing you can do right now is wait.You don't want to be the reason why your crush and her bf broke up.Just leave her be for now.When the two of them are over,wait a little then tell her how you feel.

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naturally_sadie answered Sunday July 9 2006, 8:40 am:
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I think you should just let them be for now. Don't try breaking them up because it causes so much stress and drama, and if she finds out that YOU broke them up then she won't EVER go out with you. My friend made a big mistake by trying to break a couple up, and they found out (as they always do) and now they both have hated her since. They will eventually probably break up so either wait for them to break up, or just move on.

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Exquisitechick answered Sunday July 9 2006, 6:00 am:
I suggest you to just let her be for now. She has a boyfriend and she really likes him. Dont get in the middle of that, you are just asking for trouble. You dont want her boyfriend wanting to beat you up, and you dont want her to be mad at you. Just wait a little after they break up and express youre feelings to her. Dont do it straight after, because she will probably still be hurting.

Good luck!

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