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the bruuunettte.. i am 18 years old. i have been through plenty for my age, so i know what pretty much everything is like. i don't care about ratings, i will answer your question completely honest, and if you don't like it && rate me a 1, i will laugh. it does not phase me. if you're not serious, please do not waste my time. if my advice is not something you like to hear, well too bad, you asked me and that's what i had to say. i am a really [[nice]] girl. i promise. i can give really good advice or really stupid advice if you give me a stupid question. but i guarantee i can help you. just ask! =]



likes: orange juice, otterpops, clothes, hollister, roses, laughing, friends, family, hugs, kisses, del taco, singing, cell phone, music, summer, fashion, movies, pictures, MAC, shopping, big sunglasses, polka dots, perfume, money, purses, coloring books, roller coasters, cartoons, LiFE





dislikes: mustard, sluts/whores, liars, cheaters, ex-girlfriends, ignorance, fake people, copiersss, shady/sketchy people, followers, being alone, cockyness, annoying people, periods, unorganization, people who are in love with themselves, perverts, disrespectful people

advice

ok i am a freshman in high school i have had sex once about 2 years ago its a long story so please dont call me a slut and no its not because i cant get any more ... so dont be rude about it please.

on anyways and soon after that i started my period and i have clear discharge every now and again and i was wondering if any one knows if thats from the sex maybe the guy had an std or from the period/tampon / w/e thing please help

~lexy~

well i think its n0rmal..but i have heard that if y0u have a l0t 0f discharge then thats klamidia.(std) but i d0nt think s0.i think its perfectly n0rmal!
♥aMb

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Well, recently, My best friend told me what happened at a party when i was 14,i am now 16. As it turns out, at that party, there was some extesy going around. Someone snuck it into my drink. I was lead away from the party,to the basement. When i woke up from the extisy, A guy was inside of me. I was sexually assaulted. I tried to get away, but he hit me again to knock me out. I had a mental block of this night, and when my friend told me of what might of happened at that party, it all came falling down. I have horrible flashbacks. She is the only one who knows. I am having some weird pains in my stomache that started at age 15, i thought it was nothing, but as it turns out, i went to the doctor. When i went to the doctor, he revealed that i had aids. What do i do? He video taped it. one of my guy friends was looking at a porno site, and said they saw someone who looked extremely like me on a video. I asked for the site, and went to it. It was the man. The tape is on a porno site. I do not want people thinking i am that way, a porno star. What do i do about this whole horrible weekend?

I thought at that party i was just going to have fun.

Please help me.


I am sorry this is long.

h0w sad. that guy c0uld get in seri0us tr0uble..g0 t0 the p0lice!! and aids... w0w that sucks! just tr t0 find a specialist t0 help y0u with that! s0rry t0 hear ab0ut this!
xox ambs xox

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im not really sure what is happening.. but lately like the last 3 or 4 times my boyfriend has fingered me it has stung so bad! im not sure why it is or anything.. i mean like when he does it just hurts so bad i want him to stop.. but then like if he does it again the same night it doesnt hurt like really really bad.. i think its the way im sitting or something im not sure.. its not easy talkin to him about things like this.. bc he wouldnt know what to say i know.. i mean we have been together for a long time but it jus wouldnt be easy.. but when i come home or w.e i check and see if anything looks any different and it doesnt it jus stings and it even does like two days afterward im not sure what to do can someone quickly give me some advice!

maybe y0u are t0o tight.. 0r it c0uld be the way y0u are sitting.. i kn0w when i sit the wr0ng way s0metimes it hurts then when i kinda lean back a lil m0re it d0esnt hurt at all! s0 just fix y0ur p0siti0n! and als0 make sure he washes his hands!!
xox ambs xox

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Ok well i came on a trip to my cuzins house and i met his friend Robie well Robie is very cute and now i am going out wit him.Well that is all good and all for while i am here but ten again i live in California and he lives in Oklahoma. I am afraid that this is not going to work out but i want it to sooooo bad because i hella like him but what should i do i am considering moving back here but idk if i can so please help me!!!

well.. d0nt m0ve.. because what if y0u guys drift apart? then y0u may be leaving y0ur 0ther friends.. just talk t0 him 0n ph0ne, internet, y0u kn0w things like that.. d0nt w0rry im sure it will all w0rk 0ut in the end!
xox ambs xox

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I have found myself snapping at people calling them complete morons and other such insults. I do it when I am frustrated or even slightly annoyed. I have no patience for anyone it seems. Later on I regret saying such things. I've said these things to friends and family, and even my boyfriend ,whom I adore. But when the moment hits me it seems I can't prevent the waspish comments from bursting out. How do I explain to these people why I say such things? I've hurt their feeling and it really upsets me. I don't mean to be mean. It seems i just can't help it.

well im n0t sure, but maybe y0u have tarets? n0t sure.. xox ambs xox

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i have alot of arm hair!!!! i hate it and its dark dark brown there is just no way to hide it especially in the summer and when it isnt summer i dont ususally like to wear long sleeves well anyways my hair on my arms tends to be messy and if i lotion it it looks wayyyy to perfect does anyone know a way to keep it looking sharp without lotioning it??????

just shave it all 0ff.
xox ambs xox

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I want to call the guy i like to hang out but we never talk on the phone or hang out. he cant go online eaither cuz his comps broken. He has a girlfriend but shes away and he might breakup with her. Were really good friends but i have no idea what to do!Sam/13/f

i think that y0u sh0uld wait until they`re c0mpletely br0ken up! i think it`s just wr0ng t0 d0 that. alth0uqh i have kind 0f been in that s0rt 0f situati0n and trust me its n0t pretty! well s0rry if i didn`t help.!!
xox ambs xox

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my best guy friend and i tried to start a bf and gf relationship but we feel uncomfortable being that. we just wanna be really close friends. i was wondering should i ask him to the prom and just say we can go as friends?! and when should i ask him?!

yes. that`s s0 ad0rable. it`s perfectly fine t0 ask him t0 g0 as friends. he will understand if y0u guys are that cl0se.
xox ambs xox

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i`ve never shaved 'down there'..i`m scared i`ll get razor burn, but it really bugs me and i want it all gone..without getting it waxed. Does using shaving cream keep it from no razor burn? what else could i use so i dont get it, because i`m in a swim class at my school..and i really dont want red bumps to be visible. i use a venus razor, if that counts for anything..

yes.. shavinq cream w0rks.. but if it d0esn`t w0rk f0r y0u then i suggest y0u d0 get it waxed.. n0 girl sh0uld have hair d0wn there! that`s disgustinq..but i mean use s0ap 0r s0methinq if y0u d0n`t want t0 wax..
x0x ambs x0x

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my boyfriend and i wanna have sex but im still a virgin and pretty tight down there... and im scared to do it cause i heard it hurts really really bad... i can take a lot of pain, but how much does it really hurt? :-/

thanks!

well i w0uldnt kn0w.. im still a virgin.. but i d0nt kn0w just try it ;)

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i want to go farther with my boyfriend but there are things that i dont like about my body and thats whats stopping me from doing anything with him cause i dont want him to think im a freak or anything and not talk to me or anythin... pease help!

if he really l0ves y0u then he w0n't care ab0ut what`s 0n y0ur b0dy.. he sh0uld l0ve y0u f0r y0u n0t f0r what y0u l0ok like.

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I'm a chick.. I always stay with my best friend when she is home alone.. latly she has been asking me to experiment with her.. we have made out/french kissed.. you know, nothing "down there".. but she asked me if I ever wanted to experiment "dowthere" so we did.. just fingering.. but now she wants to emo.. what the fuck do I do?!?!

well if you really want to.. i mean if you already did something with her then why not go ahead.. but in MY opinion..I wouldnt do that but hey whatever makes u happy :)

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I'm a 16 year old girl, and I don't shave my legs or armpits on any regular basis. I'll do them for special occassions or if I'm wearing a special outfit, but most of the time the hair just doesn't bother me so I don't bother removing it. I figure that it's my body, and my time and energy that I'm saving by not shaving, but sometimes I worry that guys won't be interested in me because of this and I've got to the age where I wish guys expressed more interest in me. Should I start shaving, or should I just wait for a guy who doesn't mind me being me?

yes! you should shave it! all girls should shave.. but i mean if you dont feel like you need to then dont..!! its up to u :)

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14/F
ive known this girl 'jill' for about 2 years. this year at the beginning of the year we got really really close. then i got a boyfriend so things were going great. she even hooked me up with him! what i didnt know is that she liked him and never told me. So after a few days of being together, me, 'jill', my boyfriend, and 'jill's boyfriend all went to 'jill's house then to the movies. my mom picked me up like 3 seconds after the movie ended, so i gave my man a kiss on the cheek and left. what i discovered a few days after that was that when we were at 'jill's house they (her and my current b.f) made out, she pulled him aside saying she needed to talk to him and made out with him (while i was in the room next to them) and they made out after i left the movies. now since we were really close i just let it go (but didnt forgive her... i still havent yet) and this year its been on and off me and her liking the same guy and she always got him. now we were both single for like a month and things were going great, i found a guy! after a month or so of liking this guy, i heard she liked him too. and my friend got a confession out of her that she did so i was a little mad. the other day she told me that she didnt like him, she just wanted to 'break him of his innocence' (hes a good boy lol)... now next week me her and him are going to a party with a bunch of other ppl, and im gonna tell him i like him this week... anyone have advice on what i should do with 'jill'??

thanks... and check out my advice column the name is tmc089

well u shouldnt forgive her...she is not a true friend...do whatever feels right..dont do something that will dissapoint ur self

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HOW DO YOU GIVE AHAND JOB? I KNOW U USE R HANDS BUT WUT ELSE? WUT ARE SOME GOOD IDEAS??

ummm...well there isnt really any ideas just use ur hands and umm go up and down...lol

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I'm in love with this kid..but he doesn't know who I am...and I'm really shy so it isn't helping...hoe can I get him to notice me?

well..nothing is going to happen if he doesnt know u..maybe u should start talking to him..hopefully u will get to know eachother!! or hang out in the same group that he hangs out at maybe u can start to talk..dont be shy!! ;-)

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my younger friend (she is in 5th Grade) keep's telling me about this boy who tells her things that are sick. And he won't leave her alone. Like, she'll go to the front of the bus and do it again. She's to afraid to tell her mom, so she asked me. I told her that she should tell the bus driver, her teacer, etc. But she's too afraid to do that. I asked her if she wnted me to talk to them and she didn't want that eather. She know's I'm a memeber of this site, so she asked me to post it. (she's not alowed on thease sights) Please help!

Maybe she should just ignore it..because if she tells her mom it could get into this huge thing and who knows what might happen to him..it all depends how old he is..??

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Hey Amber...
well okay i have this problem..i like this guy but he likes my best friend..and im not sure if i should move on...its really hard..have you ever felt like this??? please if you could help that would be great!! thanx your awesome!!!!!!!! xoxo

...well..i would move on..hes not worth ur time..if helikes ur best friend then just 4 get about ir..yes i have felt like that b for it sounds pretty familiar..just do whatever makes u happy!!!!!!!

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