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Backstabbed
14/F
ive known this girl 'jill' for about 2 years. this year at the beginning of the year we got really really close. then i got a boyfriend so things were going great. she even hooked me up with him! what i didnt know is that she liked him and never told me. So after a few days of being together, me, 'jill', my boyfriend, and 'jill's boyfriend all went to 'jill's house then to the movies. my mom picked me up like 3 seconds after the movie ended, so i gave my man a kiss on the cheek and left. what i discovered a few days after that was that when we were at 'jill's house they (her and my current b.f) made out, she pulled him aside saying she needed to talk to him and made out with him (while i was in the room next to them) and they made out after i left the movies. now since we were really close i just let it go (but didnt forgive her... i still havent yet) and this year its been on and off me and her liking the same guy and she always got him. now we were both single for like a month and things were going great, i found a guy! after a month or so of liking this guy, i heard she liked him too. and my friend got a confession out of her that she did so i was a little mad. the other day she told me that she didnt like him, she just wanted to 'break him of his innocence' (hes a good boy lol)... now next week me her and him are going to a party with a bunch of other ppl, and im gonna tell him i like him this week... anyone have advice on what i should do with 'jill'??
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well u shouldnt forgive her...she is not a true friend...do whatever feels right..dont do something that will dissapoint ur self
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Chicks always come before your guys! But what your friend did was pretty messed up. I think you should get rid of both of them because first of all if this girl jill was really your friend she would never have hooked up with your bf. But dont put all the blame on her because it takes two! Loose the guy if he really liked you he would of never cheated on you! Plus its not like its the end of the world i mean im sure you have other friends and theres plenty of boys left out there and your only 14 (so am i but ya) so you have alot of time before you should let guys mess things up! P.S GOOD LUCK hopefully you and your friend can forget about this guy and become friends again..if not then thats ok to.
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you need to seriously tell her how you feel bcuz if you ask me shes being bogus to me it seems like she wants everything u have..i mean seriously every guy you like she starts to like..she just needs to be happy for you..and if u find a guy that u like and he likes u i mean really likes u..and she sees it if she was ur friend she wont get between u bcuz ur friends are b4 guys its like an unwritten rule!!..all im saying is that she is being kinda bogus by going after every guy you go after and she wasn to break him of his innocence you can do that she doesnt need to help..she stabbed u in the back big time thats not a very good friend u need to have a serious talk!
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First it seem like ur friend jill doesn't want u happy. i say she isn't a friend becuz she is tryin 2 ruin every relationship u have. so dis is where i believe u could put her to tha test find somone u kno she would never like and start likin him if she sayz she likes him to than she is really not ur friend. tha onli advice i can give besides that is find a new friend if dis one can't let u be happy wit out breakin u and ur man up. u should of neva been friendz wit her in tha first place if she took your man aside and made out wit him wit u in tha other room wat kinda friend does that. but wat eva u do look fa tha best way that won't get u hurt
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wow! this story sounds so firmilar with my friends! lol (old friends) just b like to ur friend..why do u want all the guys i like? thats not that fair..talk about it instead of fightin..ask ur friend why she did that to u..hook her up with sum guy! this way (hopefully) u dun have to worry about it..yea and ask that guy out..and have fun! xO
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