Hey im Jessica im 14 and ive been through many experances in my life good and bad. I enjoy helping people espically relationships. I am very mature and like to help people out in anyway i can. So please feel free ask me anything that u need advice on. I cannot say i will give you the best advice but i will go with what i believe in! So ask away! :-)
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okay me n my boyfriend have been together since .. november 13 andhe went to this party tonight and the last party he went to he let a girl flash him and stuff so should i be worried if he sed he was sorry ?? (link)
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well flashing isnt really a big deal but if he did anything else then thats not good..but guys dont change and if they do it onece chances are they will do it again..i think u should go to this party with him, then u2 can hang out be together w/e .But if he dont want u at this party they there is somthing going on..btu ya just try to go with him to the parties if u feel that insecure. and if u do really feel like hes going to do stuff and u dont trust him then im srry 2 say but this isnt the right relationhsip bcause a good relationship is based on trust and if u dont have that it aint gunna work* hope i helped
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*JeSsIcA*
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I wrote the poem which is in one of the previous posts entitled "Everytime" . I was feeling rather depressed today , and so i wrote another poem . Tell me what you think about it ....
Bt\ , to all those who asked ,
i'm 13 going on 14 .
You
I thought that I was contented
I thought I knew you
But that was just an illusion
You took me for a fool
All this pain that I went through
Did I ever mean anything to you ?
All those times I cried
Why weren’t you by my side?
So many nights I spent ,
Sitting by the phone
Just hoping you would call
I was so alone
You told me that you loved me
But why couldn't you look me in the eye ?
I guess this was what made me see
That i was living a lie ..
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wow...i like this poem alot...i do the same thing whenever im feeling "low" i always like to write..and ya love is the best subject to write bout cuz ure just feeling all those experances with guys right now so this is the prime time 2 write!! and u r very talented!!! i think u should enter your stuff into contests!
oo ya and PS BE CAREFUL ABOUT PUTTING YOUR POEMS ONLINE CUZ PPL COULD STEAL THEM AND SAY THEY ARE THEIRS.....I WONT DO THAT I M JUST TELLING YOU FOR THE FUTURE.!~!~!~!
KEEP WRITING!!!!
((jE$SiCa))
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my parents don't let me do anything they treat me like a child altho im 13 and almost 14 how am I suppoed to let them let me do stuff???? (link)
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Hey im 14 and yea my parents were the same! I never thought they would stop being well...parents! They were a PAIN! But i learned that if you sit down with them tell them where your going what your doing and who you will be with you will have better chances of getting to go out! It is also always nice to check in. Like if you wanted to stay out longer dont call them from your friends house check in and talk to them for awile. Your parents just want you to not grow up they miss having you as there baby.Your parents want to stay in touch with you so try not to hide stuff just come out and say it , it will help you in the long run! But you have to have experances on your own and explain this to them in a respectful way. Well good luck!
((Je$sIcA))
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hi
im a 14 yr old female. ive got a boyfriend and hes recently aske me 2 give him a blowjob. im scared my parents will find out
wat shud i do???
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Hey i am 14 years old also. I think that you shouldent do this because you will get to attached to him you will think that it was somthing special you did to him (and it is but..) he wont think so all guy our age think about is sex. And if you do this i dont think your parents will find out not unless you tell alot of people. Reguardless of that you are not ready for it emotionally yet. Theres pleanty of time. Plus you need to keep a good rep.! Like say you did deciced to do this and then you two broke up and he told everyone , people would call u a whore wether everyone else is doing it or not. Other guys could also think you were easy or somthing like that also and you dont need that! Either way good luck!
((Je$SiCa))
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14/F
ive known this girl 'jill' for about 2 years. this year at the beginning of the year we got really really close. then i got a boyfriend so things were going great. she even hooked me up with him! what i didnt know is that she liked him and never told me. So after a few days of being together, me, 'jill', my boyfriend, and 'jill's boyfriend all went to 'jill's house then to the movies. my mom picked me up like 3 seconds after the movie ended, so i gave my man a kiss on the cheek and left. what i discovered a few days after that was that when we were at 'jill's house they (her and my current b.f) made out, she pulled him aside saying she needed to talk to him and made out with him (while i was in the room next to them) and they made out after i left the movies. now since we were really close i just let it go (but didnt forgive her... i still havent yet) and this year its been on and off me and her liking the same guy and she always got him. now we were both single for like a month and things were going great, i found a guy! after a month or so of liking this guy, i heard she liked him too. and my friend got a confession out of her that she did so i was a little mad. the other day she told me that she didnt like him, she just wanted to 'break him of his innocence' (hes a good boy lol)... now next week me her and him are going to a party with a bunch of other ppl, and im gonna tell him i like him this week... anyone have advice on what i should do with 'jill'??
thanks... and check out my advice column the name is tmc089 (link)
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Chicks always come before your guys! But what your friend did was pretty messed up. I think you should get rid of both of them because first of all if this girl jill was really your friend she would never have hooked up with your bf. But dont put all the blame on her because it takes two! Loose the guy if he really liked you he would of never cheated on you! Plus its not like its the end of the world i mean im sure you have other friends and theres plenty of boys left out there and your only 14 (so am i but ya) so you have alot of time before you should let guys mess things up! P.S GOOD LUCK hopefully you and your friend can forget about this guy and become friends again..if not then thats ok to.
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