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hi
im a 14 yr old female. ive got a boyfriend and hes recently aske me 2 give him a blowjob. im scared my parents will find out
wat shud i do???
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Think about your relationship with the guy first, whether you really love him, and whether you think you know him well enough to go farther with him.
Then think about yourself and how you'd feel if you gave him the blow job. Decide if you're ready.
If you WANT to give him the blow job, go ahead. I doubt your parents will find out.
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do what you want... your young.. you could get the name slut.. be careful hun just know what u r in for
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rite now it only matters what u wanna do...if u dont wanna do THEN DONT!!!! dont let him push u to do anything u dont wanna do...but i do think it would be pretty hard for ur parents 2 find out...
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give him 5 blowjobs your parents will never know
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Well first of all, make sure that you want to do it, never let a guy talk you into that stuff. after you deside that you want to... make sure that he is someone who you trust; you really don't want everyone at school to know (this is around the age where your reputation forms); as far as your parents finding out, the only way they could is if someone at school says something. good luck and i hope you make the right choice and don't get caught ;)
~Jessica~
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wow 14 is young to be doing that kind of stuff maybe ur just not ready for that kind of thing yet mentaly i mean tell him and see what happends
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well, there is no way ur parents will find out unless u tell alot ofppl that know ur parents...b/c a doctor can't tell if u do or not
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Don't let yourself be pressured into anything that you don't want to do. if you are that scared that your parents will find out, then dont do it.
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Hey i am 14 years old also. I think that you shouldent do this because you will get to attached to him you will think that it was somthing special you did to him (and it is but..) he wont think so all guy our age think about is sex. And if you do this i dont think your parents will find out not unless you tell alot of people. Reguardless of that you are not ready for it emotionally yet. Theres pleanty of time. Plus you need to keep a good rep.! Like say you did deciced to do this and then you two broke up and he told everyone , people would call u a whore wether everyone else is doing it or not. Other guys could also think you were easy or somthing like that also and you dont need that! Either way good luck!
((Je$SiCa))
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ok, you definitley shouldn't. he seems to be taking advantage of you and it seems like that's all he wants. have respect for yourself, don't do it. plus, that is disgusting..
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okay if ur scared and you dont feel right chances are your not ready..dont make him force you to do anything you dont wanna do...just bcuz hes ur boyfriend doesnt mean you have to do that stuff with him..if he cares about you and knows ur scared then he'll understand and wont make you!
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Do whatever you feel is right. If you feel uncomfortable, DONT DO IT! But if you feel fine with it, just go along with it. Now with your parents finding out, if you feel the need to just tell them before they hear it from someone else, deff tell them but if you reallyyyy dont wand them to know, dont tell them! Just do what you feel is right!... Good luck hun!
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well...i think u should do what u want to do..but be careful about this! yea and make sure ur parents dun find out bc they would probably get mad..if u dun want to do it and ur bf is just tellin u to do it bc all other grls are doing it then dun do it..u should do it bc u want to!
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Well your parents shouldn't find out unless you or him tell someone.. you should always keep your love life 100% private.. unless you just don't care what your parents say. I you really love this guy then I would.. but make sure he doesn't have any STD's.
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If your parents findout say its your life. But if you end up pregnat. Its accutally their problem. But. Do it somewhere that you wont get caught. just... dont do it in public do it while they are gone are while they are sleeping. or maybe at his house.
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Well i don't wanna sound like a parent, but at tha age of 14 u shouldn't be thinkin about that stuff. and if u truly think ur ready for it. tha best thing to do is tell ur parents the truth. you never want to hide sumthing from them becuz when they find out it will be a worse punishment. how u be safe at wat ur doing becuz alot of things are out there.
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Your parents finding out should not be the deciding factor in this. The question is, are you ready? If you feel really nervous and unsure you might not be ready yet. Be honest with your boyfriend about how you feel. If he is a good guy he will understand how you feel no matter what your answer is. You might want to suggest making out and such for a while until you are more comfortable with him, yourself, and sex in gereneral. Also, if you do decide that you are ready to do this ask him to go down on you first.
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did you give him one??? if not then GOOD. dont let him force you into things when your not ready. make that clear to him. if you did, then i think you should tell him that you arent doing anything else like that. dont tell your parents and they wont find out, just dont let him get you to do stuff with him that you dont want yet. :)
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At the g of 14 many people have began to become sexually active. This doesn't mean it's right though. It also doesnt mean its wrong it's just the riskds that are invovled. If yo want my personal opinion I would say this guy if he loves you will respect your descion if you decide to say no. If you want to actually o this then I can't give you a plan so your parents won't find out you'll have to do that for yourself but always remember the consiquinces. This guy may be just playing you and after you give him head and other things he might break up with you and if your parents find out then think of how hard life will be on you and also the guilt of doing something like that can be really bad too. Don't make yourself do something just b/c he ask. He'll live with out it until your ready. I hope thats helped! If you need more advice dont be shy!
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you should not do it in till you are ready
your friend,
skatingmonkey500
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If you're afraid then don't do it.
Don't let him force you into anything you don't want to do. And if you're worried about your parents finding out it may be because your too young to be alone somewhere with this guy long enough to be doing things like this.
It seems like you're more afraid of the task itself than your parents so that tells me your aren't ready. If you dont think your ready and your scared, then dont do it.
Also, this doesnt happen in every relationship. Dont feel like its something you HAVE to do.
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well do you want to give him a blowjob or not how would you parents find out unless they caught you but if your ready for it then i surgest you find some were quit to do it
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