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Hi Kellie! I am in 7th grade at your school.. Your are a very pretty girl and you seem to hold your head high. You have a lot of guy friends and i mean ALOT! But it seems you dont really get along with any of the girls. I am totally the opposite of you!! They guys are always being perverted!! I dont know how you stand it but I want to be able to talk to them and become friends any advice? (link)
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When I was in 7th grade all the guys I knew were jerks. But not to worry some of them grow out of the jerk phase. I wouldn't be friends with someone unless you like them as a person. There are non-perverted guys out there. Wait till you meet guys who seem like good people to you then start talking to them. Talking to knew people can be weird no matter what the gender. You can try striking up a conversation with someone you sit next to in class or at an after school activity.
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im a 14 yr old female. ive got a boyfriend and hes recently aske me 2 give him a blowjob. im scared my parents will find out
wat shud i do???
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Your parents finding out should not be the deciding factor in this. The question is, are you ready? If you feel really nervous and unsure you might not be ready yet. Be honest with your boyfriend about how you feel. If he is a good guy he will understand how you feel no matter what your answer is. You might want to suggest making out and such for a while until you are more comfortable with him, yourself, and sex in gereneral. Also, if you do decide that you are ready to do this ask him to go down on you first.
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How can i tell if my man has a yeast infection??? I had one a while back like say 6 months ago, and we tried to have sex well i had it without a condom he just slipped it in there but it hurt to much so he pulled out, could he have a yeast infection??? And he really wants me to give him oral sex but im scared becase of the yeast infec thing, could i get it in my mouth??? what does it look like if i get it in my mouth?? I dont wanna say to him "what if you have a yeast infection?" cause then that will jsut embarass him... also his penis always smells bad when i go to give him oral, it always smells really nasty, how do i tell him that i cant do it cauase it smells bad???? PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
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This was on http://www.fda.gov/fdac/features/396_yst.html:
"If one partner has a yeast infection, the other partner should also be treated for it. A man is less likely than a woman to be aware of having a yeast infection because he may not have any symptoms. When symptoms do occur, they may include a moist, white, scaling rash on the penis, and itchiness or redness under the foreskin. As with females, lowered immunity, rather than sexual transmission, is the most frequent cause of genital yeast infections in males."
This other site, said: "The 'infection' is an overgrowth of monilia (yeast) naturally found in the vagina." I have heard before that yeast infections are caused by something that is already in the vagina. It does not, as the person above said, float in off the air. While it is more likely to get a yeast infection due to other things, it IS possible for it to be sexually transmitted. It is also possible to catch it in your month from oral sex, although it is more likely that it would be caused by other things.
A yeast infection in your mouth is called Oral Thrush. The symptoms are:
"A sore mouth and throat, and as well as redness, it is characterized by white discharge on the surface."
I can see how a guy could be sensitive about his penis smelling bad. You might want to suggest taking a shower to together as forplay as soaping his penis in a sexual way. If that doesn't help I would suggest talking about it with him when you are NOT in the middle of sex. He might be more ok with hearing "I noticed your penis smelled a bit odd. I am worried you might have something. Maybe you should get it checked out." Be sure to say things like that he is good at sex and this isn't his fault. Guys (and girls also) can be sensitive about their sexual performance, so it is best to step lightly, but communicate openly. I hope you two work it out!
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When you work out and get sore muscles, what helps more, ice or heat? (link)
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Stretching is the best thing you can do (I think).
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If you're too shy to ask someone out in person is it creepy to write them a note? (link)
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If you are too shy to ask someone out in person maybe you shouldn't ask them out. If he says yes you are going to have to talk to him IN PERSON. Start out with a conversation. Once you get more comfortable around him/her ask him.
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Lately I developed a liking towards a guy friend in my dorm. Every time it was just the two of us together, or just the two of us and perhaps one other close friend, he would act very solicitous towards me--he would do small things such as put his arm around my shoulder, hold my books for me, etc. I have also had many wonderful conversations with him in his room and elsewhere. So I was hopeful until this week, when I found out that he has asked another girl to a date event and has feelings towards her. Now I wonder if he felt something towards me but was discouraged by my inaptitude in flirting--I have difficulty playing that whole game of hinting and whatnot. It's a foreign language to me. (link)
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It is possible that he thought you were not interested in a romantic relationship if you didn't give any hints. I know where you are coming from not knowing how to flirt. I am like that also. If he has already asked this other girl it might be too late to flirt with him.
I good way to start flirting is with compliments. Everyone likes hearing good things about themself.
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I realize I am a dumb male, but I am trying to do the best I can wth it. There is a girl I like, but due to several things, I can't ask her out or tell her how I feel for a while. That bugs me, but it's not what I'm writing about. We're getting to be pretty good close friends (which I feel is better for the long run anyway), and she's really cool. She's also big into feminism. I've always sort of considered myself a feminist, but never really thought about it too much. So now I'm wondering if I really am becoming more of a feminist due to her influence, or if I'm just sort of wearing it on my sleeve so she'll like me more. I don't like to do things half-heartedly, I feel it would be unfair to myself and to feminism in general. So am I really a feminist? (link)
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I am reminded of the movie Total Recall. What makes you who you are? Is it simply things you do or is it more intrinsic? I think that the things you do can make you who you are. First of all, do you want to be a feminist? If the answer is yes, then do the things that feminist do (treat weman as equal ect) and tell yourself that that is what you believe the right thing to do it. After time you will be that. I think it is OK that she is causing you to be a different person (if that is what is happening) as long as it is a good person that you want to be.
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there is this guy who just asked me to homecoming. i dont really like him so i said that i would think about it, and fortunately for me a guy i like asked me and i said yes, now i dont know how to tell him that i am going with someone else because he was really expecting to go with me. how should i tell him i am going with someone else?b (link)
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There is no good way to tell a guy that you don't like him. No matter how soft you make it, it is still rejection. If you want to be his friend be sure to say that. It will make it a bit softer. I would also tell him as soon as possible so that he can find someone else to go with. If you know him, you could mention to one of your friends that he is available for homecoming.
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Okay, so i REALLY like this guy. But I don't think he would like me back. I'm in 8th grade and i've never gone on a date or "gone out" with anyone before. If I asked out any guy in the school they'd probably rush me to the hospital or ask me if I was joking. I dunno, maybe i just have low self esteem. But the guy I like is pretty quiet and really smart. Please don't tell me to just go for it, cause if he said no, it would haunt me forever!! (i'm sort of a drama queen. shut up.) So I guess my question is: How can you tell if a guy likes you/would go out with you without actually asking him? (link)
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You should start out slow and build up. Talk to him more and get to know him as a really good friend. Then you can suggests that the two of you try dating. Maybe it can be suggested in a causal way. If he doesn't for some reason, you will have still gained a good friend. After you get to know a person you will probable be able to tell how he thinks/feels and will have a better idea of how he would feel about dating you. I think relationships are best developed instead of jumped into (that's just me). Plus you can have time to see if/how much you like him.
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In my A level Chemistry class there are only about 10 of us. One of those 10 is not happy with me for reasons I shall now describe.None of her friends will listen to my side.
At a 6th form party she majorly fell for this guy I know.In school the next day she was OBSESSING about him,disecting text messages and talking about him constantly.
I am friends with the guy's brother (and to a lesser degree the guy). She gave me strict instructions not to talk to the guy about her and so I didn't.I did however have a very short conversation with one of my friends and the brother.All we said was that she had been talking about him a lot and dissecting his text messages.
She found out about it and next day she and all of her friends are really pissed of with me,not the other girl who was also part of the conversation,just me.
It wouldn't be much of a problem except for the size of the chem class.
what should I do?
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It sounds like this will blow over if you give it time. You could say that you are sorry about talking about what she said.
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If you babysit four little kids by yourself for three hours, around how much should you be getting paid? (link)
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$5.oo per hour is good pay. I would be happy with 4 to 5 an hour.
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