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Well, recently, My best friend told me what happened at a party when i was 14,i am now 16. As it turns out, at that party, there was some extesy going around. Someone snuck it into my drink. I was lead away from the party,to the basement. When i woke up from the extisy, A guy was inside of me. I was sexually assaulted. I tried to get away, but he hit me again to knock me out. I had a mental block of this night, and when my friend told me of what might of happened at that party, it all came falling down. I have horrible flashbacks. She is the only one who knows. I am having some weird pains in my stomache that started at age 15, i thought it was nothing, but as it turns out, i went to the doctor. When i went to the doctor, he revealed that i had aids. What do i do? He video taped it. one of my guy friends was looking at a porno site, and said they saw someone who looked extremely like me on a video. I asked for the site, and went to it. It was the man. The tape is on a porno site. I do not want people thinking i am that way, a porno star. What do i do about this whole horrible weekend?
I thought at that party i was just going to have fun.
Please help me.
I am sorry this is long.
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wow hun im so sorry to hear about what happened to you. please make sure you go to the police...make sure you show then the site that you found the video on and make sure they know that you got AIDS from that man...if you havent had sexual contact with anybody else then that man can get in a ton of trouble especially because he had sex when he was HIV/AIDS positive. again im sorry to hear about what happened to you. AIDS will not kill you. it ruins your immunity system and then you are more likely to get other diseases and stuff...and because your immune system is down then those other diseases are the ones that will give you the most trouble... please tell your parents about what happened...good luck with everything and i hope that asshole gets locked up for what he did to you...~!~xoxo~!~nichole~!~xoxo
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HOLY SHIT! YOU TOTTALY GOT THE BAD TO THIS DEAL i duno wht even to say cus thats just horrible and iknowits going to be hard to talk about it too people..
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1)If you know who the person is, or know where he lives go tell the police about it. It might be late, but they still could get onto the man for doing this to you and having sex while he is infected with HIV or has full blown AIDs. Plus, X is a really illegal drug. There is jail time already for that. But of course you don't really have proof that he did drug you. But you do have proof of the assault. So That is why you let them see the tape before you get it removed from the site. So you have your proof.
2) Get in contact with the site and tell them to take it off. Underaged pornography is illegal. Plus, it is not by your consent. So they HAVE to.
3)You can't really do anything about the flashbacks but see help from like.. a doctor of some sort.
4)Tell your parents and don't have sex. If you have sex you can get in a lot of trouble. I'm sure you're already scared and don't have sex- but just in case.
I hope I could be some sort of help. I know saying sorry about AIDs won't do you any good. But as long as you stay healthy...yeah. AIDs does not kill you. The other virus's do, dear. =/
Good luck and best wishes. This guy should be killed.
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h0w sad. that guy c0uld get in seri0us tr0uble..g0 t0 the p0lice!! and aids... w0w that sucks! just tr t0 find a specialist t0 help y0u with that! s0rry t0 hear ab0ut this!
xox ambs xox
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Oh wow, I'm so sorry, that's absolutely terrible.
You need to contact the site with the video and tell them to remove it immediately. If they don't comply, get the law involved, that is child pornography, you can easily get them jailtime.
If you can, try to press charges on the man, if you know his name, or anything to identify him with.
I'm so so so sorry about the AIDS. Please tell me your parents are aware that you have it and all that... they have to be, right? If not... they need to know. They can help you get everything else all sorted out.
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If you actually have AIDS, you need to do a heck of a lot more than just have a doctor tell you that you are infected. You need to contact anyone you may have had sexual contact with. If you have been injured since then and someone has come into direct contact with your blood, you need to contact them.
AIDS is serious business. You have GOT to tell your parents what happened and find a specialist who can help you deal with this.
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damn thats harsh you should go to the police and try to find a way to get it off the web and aids is bad im sorry to hear about that one
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he could go to jail...you got raped and he slipped a drug in your drink.you have to really get help and tell the police since you are having flash backs.im sorry for what you had to go through
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theres not much you can do but you could go to the police with some information and then at least your doing something about it..
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dont hang out with kids like tht if they are goin to sexually asult you and put drugs in your drink
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I am so sorry to hear about this. I think there is a way you can get it off the web, because you didn't give him permission to tape it.
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im sorry but theres really nothing you can do just make sure that ur parents are aware of this and im sure they are. all you can do is just be strong and hope that the guy will get caught for wat he did. hang in there and im sure youll be fine.
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