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i want to go farther with my boyfriend but there are things that i dont like about my body and thats whats stopping me from doing anything with him cause i dont want him to think im a freak or anything and not talk to me or anythin... pease help!
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if he really l0ves y0u then he w0n't care ab0ut what`s 0n y0ur b0dy.. he sh0uld l0ve y0u f0r y0u n0t f0r what y0u l0ok like. <3
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Before doing anything like that you have to be comfortable with yourself. You'd be surprised about how little guys care about the things girls think they care about. My advice to you is to learn to love your body before allowing anybody else to. Look at yourself naked in the mirror and point out all the things you think are great about yourself, read women-positive books (The Beauty Myth by Naomi Wolf is a good read) and watch woman-positive movies (Real Women have Curves). Inspect every inch of your body so you are familiar to it. Love yourself.
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HE shouldnt care about that if he loves you, and if he does care about that stuff, then you shouldnt do stuff with him
ALWAYS REMEBER: YOU DONT HAVE TO DO STUFF TO STAY TOGETHER!!!!!!!!
ALWAYS THERE/.
*KELSA*
HOPE I HELPED
GOD BLESS YOU!
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I think that if you want to go futhur with your boyfriend and care about what he thinks, that you obviously care for him a lot. I'm assuming that he feels the same so i think that he won't care about whats on your body, or how it looks. And that he will charish it no matter what and if he doesn't than you don't need to go that far with him anyway.
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just be strait forward with him. he'll love u for who you are. and just tell him.
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wow i know exactly how you feel. but trust me it took me a while to get over my little fear and i realized that if this boy really likes you it wont matter what your body looks like. boys dont even think about apperance as much as we think they do. hope i helped ya grl
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dont worry about that hun, if he likes you enough to want to go farr with you he wont care about how your body is he will only care about how you feel and if your ready!
hope i helped tell me how it goes
xl h0ll0w li3s lx
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if he really likes you, he wont care. in fact some guys like a lil more meat... wow i cant belive i just said dat. anyways... yeah he should care if he really likes you.hope i helped!
~*ana*~
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OK, this is a very touchy subject for me because I do not believe in pre-marridle sex. But, I want to ask you how do you know he isnt using you just so he can get into your pants? Also, why do you want do something that can get you pregnant or give you a S.T.D.? If you two really love each other, ya'll can wait till marriage. If you have your mind on giving yourself up to him though, try showing him what you're embarrassed of before the lights go out. But please dont do anything you might regret!!!
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well he is your boyfriend and he must love you the way you are or he wouldnt be with you....dont tell him oh i dont like *watever you dont like*about my self! because that will just make him notice it even more and hell stare @ it trying to figure out why you dont like it...just come off as really confident and pretend you love EVERYTHING about your body and he wont even notice...or just do things in the dark if you dont want him to see...
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well if he really likes you, then he wont have any problems with the way you look. he likes you for you. i am sure that he ownt think your a freak or anything. and i really doubt that he wwont stop talking to you. you really shouldnt stress about it all that much. im sure he will be perfectly fine with the way you look.
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