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Why do sum people always say G-d insted of God!?It's only bad wen u use His name as a swear word!So its ok to say God if ur not swearing!it's soo annoying!

Writing G-d is a Jewish custom. They believe that once written the name cannot ever be defaced or destroyed, so they avoid writing it casually to avoid any possible damage to it later. It isnt forbidden to write God, but they chose not to do it casually.

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Ok, I have the opportunity to go to this really good highschool, where you can have 2 years of college finished when you graduate and it looks better on your college application and everything.The problem is,I know some people that go there and they said that htey were straight A students, and when they got there they started making C's and D's, and that it was ALOT of stress and they never get to do anything anymore.Everybody keeps telling me to go, that I can handle it, but I don't really want to, and I'm scared to. At my school now, everything is going good, and there's a guy that I really like, and I would never get to see him again if I went to that other school. I just have no idea what to do. I don't want to give up a great opportunity, but I don't want to go either. I have alrady prayed about it, but I'm still confused. Please help! And please, no rude answers, I'm stressed enough as it is. Thanks! I'll rate!

P.S. Sorry so long!!

It’s definitely a tricky thing. If you are prepared to do the work and you know your work ethics pretty well then I'd say you should really strongly consider taking this opportunity. I wouldn’t pass it up for a guy (its high school after all, there will be plenty of those). If you are not 100% comfortable with going or you don’t think you are up for the challenge then stay at your school and continue to do really well. I know this doesn’t answer much, but good luck.

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i want to go farther with my boyfriend but there are things that i dont like about my body and thats whats stopping me from doing anything with him cause i dont want him to think im a freak or anything and not talk to me or anythin... pease help!

Before doing anything like that you have to be comfortable with yourself. You'd be surprised about how little guys care about the things girls think they care about. My advice to you is to learn to love your body before allowing anybody else to. Look at yourself naked in the mirror and point out all the things you think are great about yourself, read women-positive books (The Beauty Myth by Naomi Wolf is a good read) and watch woman-positive movies (Real Women have Curves). Inspect every inch of your body so you are familiar to it. Love yourself.

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I'm like 20 pounds overweight and I REALLY need to loose the 20lbs. Even my mom calls me fat! I really am going to go anorexic if I dont find an easy way to loose the weight! Please help me. I dont wanna go to desperate measures, but I just don't want my mom to call me fat, and I know I want to be the right wait. I'd be much happier!
DO you have any easy ways of loosing 20lbs.?

First, you do not need to lose weight for anybody other than yourself. Thin does not equal beautiful or healthy.

However, there is nothing wrong with wanting to be healthier and being anorexic is definitely not healthy. Anorexia nervosa is a serious disease and should not be taken lightly. Eat healthy meals (a good way to lose weight is to cut down on meat, but still get the nutrients in), and to drink water or natural juices instead of soda.

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I seriously love my boyfriend alot ive been with him for a long time and he doesnt feel like im atracted to him but i am i think hes the hottest thing in my eyes but he says i dont show him that he is very well but when i try to he always is like "yea right" and i know hes not the best looking in the world but i still think hes really hott and we fight alot (which i dont care bout ) when im mad i dont feel like touching him and stuff can anyone tell me what to do to make him feel better and something that he wont be like "yea right" to and just for reference i have done "stuff" with him....

Find little ways to tell him how attractive you find him. Also remember that communication is the key to any relationship. Talk to him and see how he feels, and reassure him.

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this is my first time to put a tampon in and i was just wondering if i can pee while having a tampon in. please help!

Yes. Your tampon goes in a different hole than the one you pee from. You insert the tampon inside your vaginal opening while you pee out of your urethra which is above your vaginal opening.

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