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please help!
im not really sure what is happening.. but lately like the last 3 or 4 times my boyfriend has fingered me it has stung so bad! im not sure why it is or anything.. i mean like when he does it just hurts so bad i want him to stop.. but then like if he does it again the same night it doesnt hurt like really really bad.. i think its the way im sitting or something im not sure.. its not easy talkin to him about things like this.. bc he wouldnt know what to say i know.. i mean we have been together for a long time but it jus wouldnt be easy.. but when i come home or w.e i check and see if anything looks any different and it doesnt it jus stings and it even does like two days afterward im not sure what to do can someone quickly give me some advice!
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umm well i dont the answer to your question. BUT my grandma told me that it is bad luck to take your own pants off....have him do it..it makes him happyer..good luck call me
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Maybe he doesnt wash his hands before?? I'm serious, that could be why. And unless you tell him to stop or that it hurts, then it will just keep happening..and just keep hurting. So yeah, I'd tell him the truth if I were you. He shouldn't get hurt feelings or anything, I mean it's not his body.
`jessie
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maybe y0u are t0o tight.. 0r it c0uld be the way y0u are sitting.. i kn0w when i sit the wr0ng way s0metimes it hurts then when i kinda lean back a lil m0re it d0esnt hurt at all! s0 just fix y0ur p0siti0n! and als0 make sure he washes his hands!!
xox ambs xox
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Your boyfriend fingers you to pleasure you. You guys have been together for awhile, so just talk to him about it. Tell him your feeling sore and maybe next time to go easier, or maybe just rub your clitoris instead of fingering you all the way up there. He'll probably feel good that you feel close enough to talk to him about it. Your bf wants you to tell him if your hurting..trust me he wants to pleasure you, not hurt you.
A good thing to do is maybe have him perform oral sex on you beforehand, this way you will be more lubricated down there. Try that out..i hope it works.
-melissa-
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Well make sure he washes his hands...and it could do with you not getting wet enough cause sometimes it happens to me.. and cause you might be real tight.. but um i think the awkward feeling for two days is pretty normal.. cause alot of girls i know get that after getting fingered or having sex.. and you should maybe get him to do it easier or something..much luv dez x0x0
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You might have him use lotion or ky jelly.That will help. He might be rubbing to hard, don't be afraid to tell him because otherwise he won't know!
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Make sure he washes his hands (and RINSES!) before he fingers you. There might be stuff on his hands that is irritating you.
If that doesn't help, see a gyno.
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Any sort of new pain in your genital area needs to be invesitgated. Go to your gynecologist and get checked out, or at least go to a clinic of sometime and get an STD test. You could have an STD; some of them are very hard to spot in women. It's VERY IMPORTANT that you get tested and checked out; many STDs can cause permanent infertility and other problems, and some could kill you.
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Well, maybe why you are feeling this pain is because your body isn't ready for it. That part of your body is really sensitive (most sensitive part of the body) and it being rubbed the wrong way could hurt it. Maybe if he doesn't go directly on the spot, but around it, then it won't hurt. And you shouldn't be afraid to talk to your boyfriend about this. If you love him and are letting him do that to you, you are definetely ready to talk to him about it. He will understand, so go ahead and talk to him.
Best of luck!
Melissa :)
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