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im a female and i live in pa
i have brown hair with blonde streaks and green eyes .. i think
my birthday is Feb. 23

i play basketball.

i luv giving advice. its something i enjoy and im helping people also. even tho im still young i have been through alot; especailly with my family and friends. i will answer your questions to the best of my ability.

if you need anything just drop one in my inbox..or you can im me...i am on alot.
i will answer any questions asap that are in my inbox. i never reject any questions.

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i have a friend that is very special to me. i have known her foreva nd i dont want to loose her becuz of things pplz say or who i hang out wit. My other friends dont like her but i do nd i want to be all of there friends nd they dont want to be her friend nd i dont kno wat to do. Tell me if u have ne advice.

if they were that good of friedns they wouldnt make you choose.

My boyfriend and I have been off and on for the whole summer. We don't get to see eachother as much as we'd like to but I'm worried he's cheating. He always tells me he loves me, I can trust him and he isn't like that anymore. He used to be a 'player' and cheat on his ex girlfriends. He told me he changed and it's different now with me. Can I trust someone like that? Is it true... once a cheater, always a cheater?

yea i would go with once a cheater always a cheater or once a player always a player...its not that all guys are like that. its just that most are. but there will be a guy for you...you just may have to wait awhile.

Ok so im going out with this guy... lets call him Aaron. And well idk i really like him but im not sure if he likes me at all. He always hangs out with this group of girls and they all r nice to me but 1. And thats fine with me cuz i dont like her either but anyways... im not sure if he likes me . but i hav another problem. His bestfriend um... lets say Bob. likes me he is my Ex. and so like everytime he sees me or talks to me online he is like "hey Sexy" and im mean is that bad. Him and my boyfriend are like bestfriends. and i kno "aaron" is gonna get mad.
but the thing is i kinda like "bob" too. idk wut to do im so confused. help
-I rate

blive me there is always one that you like more than the other and you gotta find out which one that is so you can be happy. ive been through something like this before antrust me there is always one that you like more than the other.

ok..my guy friend tells me he kinda likes me.. and i had secretley kinda been crushin on him too.. so i told him..then he started talkin bout how we have a lot of things in common..and i thought he was gunna ask me out..but he still hasnt..i noe hes shy but he also noes that i think the guy should ask the grl.. i still like him and i think he still likes me but he jus wont ask me out..and like i said i still think the guy should ask the grl...help!!

maybe he is just waiting for the right time?!?!?

if a girl that u like is mad at you what should you do

well you could try to find out why she is mad at you then try to fix it. but if its something big just keep at it. keep saying ur sry and that will never happen again or something...but it all depends on what you did.

Alrite my gf told me today that she kinda like my bestfriend.I do love her though but being with her and knowing she likes someone else it just wouldnt be the same.I want her to be with me but I can't force her to.What should i do or say to get this thing clear up?

ur doing the right thing to not force her to choose you. just tell her that she does need to make a decision. but give her like a time limit. be like "so whats ur decision. and if she says idk but like well then idk if i wanna be wit you. or something like that. cuz she needs to know that your not gonna wait forever and that...you really want to know. but once again dont get to the annoying part. i hope i helped...good luck..

Heyeveryone, i really need some help!! ok, well, i did something stupid about a month ago..i talked to some guy online and gave him my picture..and i have a boyfriend that i really love. I guess why i talked to that guy was because he asked me about my boyfriend. And my boyfriend is moving to oregon and so i kinda opened up and talked to that guy about my b/f. now, my b/f found that convo and was really scared about our relationship. He said he trusted me 100% but now, he says only like 50%. Im so0o upset i've told him i'll never do that again..but he dont believe me..he's in oregon and we are doing long dist. How can i make him trust me more?! I really love him with all my heart and I want to make it work out. Any advice on my situation?! PLEASE HELP!!! ~manda~

there is no way to get trust back easily. you must gain it back. and for some ppl that takes awhile and others it doesnt...god luck....i no you 2 will make it...:)

I find myself really attracted to gay guys. They are very cute and a lot of them are so sweet! And they're funny and fun to be around! Is this abnormal? Since they are feminine, does this make me not straight? Can someone please help me??!!?!

no its totally normal. belive me....me and my friends went through this whole thing last year beliveing that all the gay guys were cute. and it is kinda true. gay guys are cute. its just to bad that they are gay. but o well....its not like they would think anythign of us girls. i hope i helped.....rate me~~

Okay my little brother is sooo picky when it comes to eating. he doesnt eat meat what so ever. he lives off of chips and captain cruch cerial! Oh and I cant forget about candy! My point being is he eats all this junk and hes not chubby for his age and height. I know hes only 7 years old but still how can u NOT be chubby and eat junk food everyday. Its not like he runs around cuz hes always in the house playing video games haha. Here I am busting my butt off trying to lose weight because im 16 yrs old weigh 115 lbs and im 5'4". How is this? Should I be a vegitarrian like him?

well dont worry im the same way with my brother and all. its just that they dont gain weight until they get older. so just wait a lil while and then he will really be stacking up the pounds..haha....

Hi, I'm 17 years old/female and i failed 10 grade AGAIN..this will be my third time taking 10 grade...only b/c i missed soo many days of school. When im at school, i get straight A's and go on honor roll. But, the school years coming up and i'm yet again in 10th grade. I'm really nervous on meeting ppl ALL over again and i have NO idea who to sit with at lunch. I'm soo scared about all this. My friends tell me that ppl will come up to me and try and be friends with me, but they didnt last year !! And, i'm not the type AT ALL to just walk up to ppl and say "can i sit wit you at lunch?" or something lyk that. So, i really don't know what to do at all. Please help me. Thanx so much «3

well change can be good for some ppl. try to go up to someone and say that. im not the kind of person who would ever do that either. but if you dont it could be a loooong and boreing 10th grade. good luck...and i hope i helped...but if i didnt i no ull find something else to do...

ok, i have a boyfriend....lets call him..alex*. I really really like him and all... but my friend..(lets call her..mandy*)is mad at him. She said i don't spend enough time with her or anything because she is always with alex. She got mad about sumthin, and said i had to choose between her or alex. I don't know what to do. I'm really confused. I don't really wanna have to choose. Is there a way i can make them both happy or sumthin? I seem to find time to hang out with two of my friends and alex.. but for some reason i cant find time to talk to mandy a lot lately... please help!!!

ok well if they were that good of friends they wouldnt make you pick....talk to them...and tell them exaclty how you feel about it and straighten it all up....i hope i helped...good luck..

i've been extreamly scared about starting highschool. there is this guy that i work with as a camp counselor named jerry and he's going to be a senior next year. i asked him what it was like when he was a freshman and he started telling me the worst storries about how the seniors would like beat up the freshman if they got in their way and how the senior girls would beat up the freshman girls in the bathroom if they were smoking and you started caughing because of the smoke. now i'm about 5484341654687987631068405498765013515679876164168498316549879865132168798456 times more scared about starting!!!!! and jerry is a nice guy and everything and i even asked my best friend john about it (he's a junior) and he told me basically the same thing!! do you think it might be better this year?? what can i do do calm myself down!? i'm also really scared about missing classes because my highschool is HUGE!

well just dont think about it. focus on getting to your classes...dont worry about the older kids...just focus on ur things that you need to do. i hope i helped......good luck...

I have this boyfriend who is really tight with my best friend. My boyfriend also has a best friend who used to go out with my best friend. I know it's confusing, but all 4 of us used to be so tight and everything. Now it's only me and my boyfriend because my best friend & my boyfriends best friend broke up and everythings so messed up. I know they still have feelings for eachother. What can I do to get all 4 of us back together like old times?

this sounds a lil familiar. just have them say it to there faces. have them admit that they like eachtother.

my ex girlfriend is currently dating my best friend. I pretend i dont mind, but i really do because i still lik her and i know she still likes me, so wat should i do

well are you positive that she still likes you?!?! and if she does like you and you like her why arent you two the ones going out? talk to her about it. but if she doesnt choose you than ull have to accept that.

Okay.. so me and this guy have been hanging out pretty much all summer.. hes knows i like him n i know he likes me too.. everytime we hangout my bestfriend is right there with us.. kinda like the third wheel.. sometimes i feel like she likes him.. or that he likes her.. And i just dont know what to do.. If you can help in anyway.. let me know please! Thanks

ok well just tell ur friend that you would rather her have fun than just be all alone watching you to flirt or what not. that or just plan stuff w/o her...idk...but good luck....i hope i helped....

i like 2 guys...nathan and michael. I think i would have a better chance asking michael out, but i barely see him at school, and i like nathan more. i eat lunch with nathan and whatever other guys we decide to go talk to. we always have so much fun and we're always laughing. i've liked him longer than michael...and every time i think about him i get all tingly inside. i thought about him alot in 3rd period today, and i did it so much that the tingling began to hurt :). but....anyway...should i ask out michael or nathan?

sorry that was so confusing.

if you need more info, let me know and i'll put it up.

ok well no one can tell you who to ask out or who to now ask out. cuz that is yuor own personal opinion. but there has to one that you like more. i no what it feels like to like two ppl at the same time but there is always and will always be one that you like more. you just have to think about it for a lil bit. good luck....i hope i helped....

i am not really sure how to ask this question but ... i am really sick -i have leukemia- and i was wondering how to tell my friends??

there really isnt a good way to tell ur friends about that. but you should tell them soon. just get them all together and tell them all at once. that would be the easiest instead of telling all of them at a different time. i hope i helped...good luck...

ok well heres my situation . im in high school and ive known this guy since i was in 3rd. grade , weve always been friends , we talk a lot . and i think i like him more then just a friend . well i hav , since 5th grade . and i dono if i shuld tell him cuz like im not that close of a friend to him but like i mean i wana tell him but i dono how . he's so cute!! im afriad he'll say no . im really afraid to ask . and he's since school started ( 1 week ago) and like wen i walk into class he'll b like " hey ___ sit here" or lik in class he'll smile and i'll turn to see what he's doin and he'll look away and he'll bring up lil things and like hit my chair to get my attention. whats this mean , shuld i tell him??? help!

yes of course you should tell him. cuz if you dont you could regret it. and it does sounds like he likes you to. good luck

well i have some of my friends going to my advice column and asking questions, which is pretty cool, BUT.. some of the questions are involving me and idk how to answer them! help! idk what to do?!

the same thing is happening to me. just answer them like you dont know what they are talking about and that you dont even know that person. its the only way to continue to give them good advice. just pretend that it isnt them and it does involve you. it helped me. i hope i helped...good luck..

I'm a 15 year old girl and I think I might be an alcoholic. My family has no idea about this because I always sneak whatever I can get and my friends sometimes supply me with it. I don't know what to do anymore. I'm always anxious for anything alcoholic and it's driving my insane. I don't want to go to rehab or make my parents think I need serious help! What should I do?

well the only way i would say is to stpo drinking. try this. for the next week dont drink anything but like water and juice. you should stop b4 it gets out of control or ur parents find out. if ur friends supply u with the acohole than they arent that good of friends. but that is just my opinion. i hope i helped...good luck...

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