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the guy i like (alot) and my bestfriend
Okay.. so me and this guy have been hanging out pretty much all summer.. hes knows i like him n i know he likes me too.. everytime we hangout my bestfriend is right there with us.. kinda like the third wheel.. sometimes i feel like she likes him.. or that he likes her.. And i just dont know what to do.. If you can help in anyway.. let me know please! Thanks
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This is a confusing situation, and I bet it's fustrating. When you and your friend aren't hanging around that guy, talk to her about him. If she's your best-friend, joke about how you and him would make a cute couple.. see what she says, or if she doesn't say anything, judge on what her body language is saying that her words aren't. Then joke about how they would make a cute couple. You can usually tell if she likes him, if she acts kind of shy.. or smiles at the thought of the idea, then she prob likes him. If she doesn't like that idea of him and her.. you should be happy that you could go for him without feeling bad! But you also have to consider him, he might see you as a friend. But take the plunge if that's what your heart is telling you. I hope things work out in your favor! -Ce
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Hey, just talk to your friend about it and talk to him about it. Be open with them and see where things go from there. Or you could just not take her with you next time you go with him, but you should really talk to them about it!;)
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Make a day where it's just the two of you. Tell your best friend that you just want to hang out with him alone for one day. Also, if you think she likes him, then ask her if she does.
-xXoBrianna
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i think that you should talk to your best friend and find out if she does like him and if she does then you should talk to him to find out if he likes her
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i would try to just ignore her flirty attitude with your bf .. i have friends that are like that too and if yours is anything like some of mine then they are trying to make themselves feel good by bringing u down; the more irritated u get the more she will flirt with him ... try talking to her in a suddle manner and dont overreact or things might get worse
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while at your friend's house with him one night watching movies, say your gonna go make some popcorn and go into the kitchen and quickly dress into a red skanky party dress. Then yell from in the kitchen, "Hey, [insert guy's name here], can you help me find the butter?" and when he walks in grab him by the shoulders and quickly pull him into a closet, far away enough from listen-range from your friend. Then proceed with rapid hot steamy makout processions that may last as long until your friend walks in on you. Have fun! =D
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ok well just tell ur friend that you would rather her have fun than just be all alone watching you to flirt or what not. that or just plan stuff w/o her...idk...but good luck....i hope i helped....
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if you've hung out with him all summer, talk to him about it. You should know him well enough to have a serious conversation and just tell him something like "i know that we like eachother, and i'd really like to have some alone time with you, but my friend always seems to tag along...she's really important to me, but i just wish i had more time with you" and then see what he says. Eventually ask him how he feels about her.
I would also talk to your girlfriend, tell her that you and the guy like eachother and you value yours and her friendship enough to talk to her about it. Just talk it out with her, ask her how she feels about her and re-inerate how much you like the guy. Just tell her that you'd like to hang out with him alone
Hope i helped~ashley
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Just ask him to the movie; if youR fRiend asks to come.. just say no. Tell heR this is youR chance to be alone with him - plain and simple. That way she'll undeRstand that you WANT to be with him, and peRhaps she'll back off some. Goodluck!! I wish you the besat!!
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