i dont feel the same way about my bf anymore. plain and simple. but hes in love w/ me. so i dont know what to do. he deserves A LOT and i dont want to hurt him. but i just... well i dont deserve him and he was mr right at the time... but hes just not mr right now. so i dont wanna lead him on. how do u break up w/ a guy thats in love w/ u??
jus tell him hez not mr rite now.. he will apprechate the truth an tell him that yu really aprrechate him lovin yu an stuff i mean it mite hurt him @ 1st but the truth is soo much better [ xXpriti1NpinkXx's advice column | Ask xXpriti1NpinkXx A Question ]
aMbEr_RaEe_x3 answered Thursday August 19 2004, 8:13 am: oK. lOl -- thYs Is A iNtReStiiN qUestioN. .
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xbella_47 answered Thursday August 19 2004, 12:57 am: just tell him yOu dOn`t feel the same way anymOre .. well actually say everything yOu just said in yOur questiOn .. just *don`t wait any lOnger* that wOuld be a biiig mistake .. hOpe i helped! x3`xo maria [ xbella_47's advice column | Ask xbella_47 A Question ]
xxoBriannax answered Thursday August 19 2004, 12:40 am: I went through the same thing!! Just tell him that your not that interested in him anymore and you just want to be friends with him. I'm sure he'll understand!!
the_haha_boat answered Thursday August 19 2004, 12:04 am: tell him it will be better for the both of you. He will probably be mad for awhile but you just have to accept it and hope he can get over it and you can still be friends [ the_haha_boat's advice column | Ask the_haha_boat A Question ]
MummuM answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 10:42 pm: Just tell him you don't think things are working out. Tell him that you do still love him, your just not IN love with him anymore. Make sure that you tell him you'll always be there for him and that he deserves better. Ask to be friends. [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
iindEpEndEnt55giirL answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 9:53 pm: hey..... the most i can tell you to do is just tell him how you feel..... you can't be with someone that you have no feelings for.....you should tell him and tell him why you dont like him how you use to... - hope i helped - Nicicole [ iindEpEndEnt55giirL's advice column | Ask iindEpEndEnt55giirL A Question ]
WearAName answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 9:08 pm: Make sure he's looking at you at school, hold up a red paper heart, then rip it apart in two and procead with vicious paper-ripping. =) That should give him the picture. ^___^ [ WearAName's advice column | Ask WearAName A Question ]
texangirl01 answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 9:05 pm: well honey he really wasnt mister right....once a mister right always a mister right!!! just tell himhow you feel. and sya that you think it would be cool if yall just kind of took a break for a while. n say that you still want to be the bestest friends!!! [ texangirl01's advice column | Ask texangirl01 A Question ]
babygirl17 answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 9:04 pm: There is really no easy way to break up with anyone. but the best way is to tell him that you will always love him and you care about him but that you just arent in love with him anymore. That the connection you guys had has drifted apart.and that you dont want to lead him on anymore. Just tell him how you feel.. It will be the easiest way to go.No matter what way you tell him he is going to be hurt because hes in love with you.. I hope this helped..
BrOk3n_sMiiLe_x answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 9:02 pm: well yooh should set him down nd explain to him that yooh jus dont feel the same way anymore .. tell him yooh dont wana hurt himb ut yooh dont wana go out if its not real .. tell him yoho stilll wan be frinds but thats all .. explan to him that yooh dont wana keep goin out if its not a mutual feeling of loving .. well i hope i helped .. im me if yooh need to talk [ LyL qT X lOnLy ] *megan [ BrOk3n_sMiiLe_x's advice column | Ask BrOk3n_sMiiLe_x A Question ]
Luscious_Kisses15 answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 8:50 pm: that's always hard :-(. But typically when a guys in love with you, they'll still want to be around you no matter what. So just let him down easy, since he's in love with you, he should understand and at least let you talk about why you don't feel the same way anymore. Say you still want to be friends, and make him feel important. He'll be really upset, there's no way to get around that, but at least y'all will still be friends, and maybe even hang out a few times.
That's my advice...i know it's a hard thing to do but there's really no other way :shrug:
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