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In December my dad lost his job. But about a month later became self employed. By then my mom had been suspecting that hes cheating on her... now my mom has confroted him about it((about 3 months ago)) and he has admitted to having a "friendship" whith the lady.He tells my mom that hes nothin with her JUST friends. So my mom asked him to please tell her to stop callin and to just loose all contact.Thing is my mom tells me everything and my dad has always been a role model to me... well mom and i went to his work when he wasnt there and set up a caller id well we found out that shes still callin at like 1am and 2am when hes sopposly painting a car. Sometimes dad doesnt come home till 3 or so. I see how this effects my mom who literally does EVERYTHING in the house and it makes me ANGRY! She crys constantly only shes like me and shell hide before she crys. Well ive been catching her and it hurts me soo much soo then i get really mad at my dad and sometimes all i want to do is Scream in his face and kick him out of the house! I want to tell him to please leave the lady hes having an affair with but i dont know how i dont want him gettin mad at me. Thats when my whole "indenil" stage pops up! i start to think that hes not and when she brings it up i get fusturated and ignore her or justr say some rude comment. Which makes her cry more! I just wanna know what to do without making my dad mad and my mom cry... should i write him a letter telling him how i feel???? ALSO my mom says she doesnt want me talkin to him about it but its effect my relationship with him... WHAT THE HECK DO I DO?
Ps. i have a boifriend and hes really supportive about this he gives me a shoulder to cry on and a ear to listen to me with but i feel like i cant be happy with my mom goin through her problems cause i feel like im rubbing it in her face HELP ME.....
Backed up in a corner (link)
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well.. wow.
i think yu shoul sit them both down an talk to them both an maybe yu suggest them goin 2 a counciler or maybe yu shoul tell yur dad that hez hurtin yur mom an that yu don wan him ta do that so he shoul jus leave.. keep wit yur boyfriend bc he will help yu.. if stuff gets to bad jus go take a walk or jus get outta the house. but be there for yur mom when she is readi ta talk
hope it gets better.. if yu need anything e mail me .. xxpriti1npinkxx@aol.com
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heyy im 13 and i was wondering how can i start a good converstation with my boyfriend on the phone (link)
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lol.. well yu can jus talk but stuff yu like.. stuff like music or TV.. jus live life don worri bout it... hez prolly wonderin the same thing
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i dont feel the same way about my bf anymore. plain and simple. but hes in love w/ me. so i dont know what to do. he deserves A LOT and i dont want to hurt him. but i just... well i dont deserve him and he was mr right at the time... but hes just not mr right now. so i dont wanna lead him on. how do u break up w/ a guy thats in love w/ u?? (link)
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well.. yu do deserve any 1 yu want.. yu are deffinly good enough for any guy
jus tell him hez not mr rite now.. he will apprechate the truth an tell him that yu really aprrechate him lovin yu an stuff i mean it mite hurt him @ 1st but the truth is soo much better
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So, my brother's just found out that his girlfriend of 2 years, has been cheating on him for the last 4 months of their relationship. He's really down and I want to help him smile and be happy again. He's always there for me and helping me smile when I'm really down. I want to be there for him but I don't know what to do or say. Help? (link)
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tell him he is sooo much betta an that there are soo many girls out there who wouln do that.. tell him that he shoul jus hold his head up an drop that girl
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ok, i am so sure that my mom is convinced that i am having sex with guy. but i am not, adn she is conviced i am kissing all over him, but im not! and she gets annoyed and things and i know for sure that she thinks i am sleeping with him. but it took me like 2 years to get him to poen up enough to hold my hand and things like that, so uh, yeah, even if i did wanna have sex with him, it would take a long time before i could. but how can i convince my mom that we are not sleeping together? (link)
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sit down an maybe talk ta her.. tell her yu want her to trust her an tell her that if she wants to go get yu tested ( yu noe the tests that show who yuve sleeped wit) that she shoul jus so shell belive yu.. maybe if yu aproach her wit more of ur otha problems so she noes yu wanna talk ta her maybe things will get betta..
or maybe all 3 yu an her an ur boyfriend shoul like go out so she gets ta noe yu 2 more??
get bac ta me
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I'm trying to write a final paper but I'm having a helluva time concentrating. Anyone have tips on keeping focused (besides not looking at websites instead of working)? (link)
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well.. i have the same problem an what works 4 me is to be all alone an ta maybe have like a back ground tv or radio on an then i do so much at a tyme an then give my self a break.. like i tell my self once yur done wit this chapter.. yu can go watch a movie or sumthin.. hope it works 4 yu
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I've known this kid for about.. well a long time. We've been friends for longer than my crush on him. We usually talk a lot online, but this summer we haven't talked.. once.. at the beginning of the school year (nov-03) I told a close friend of mine that I liked him. She promised not to tell him, but she asked him out for me. He said no and I denied the whole thing ever happened. Now I'm messed up since the LAST song of the LAST dance he asked me to dance (I said yes, duh) Now I don't know what to do.. I would ask my other verrry close guy friend, but that would be akward. I haven't talked to him, so I don't know what's been going on with him.. (my crush) Wow.. this isn't breif.. >:) -Confuzzled
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well.. either he was realli realli shy an doesn wanna call yu or he jus felt akward since yu guyz were so good friends.. yu shoul jus live yur life there are plenti of guyz an yu will deffinly find more so jus let life flow an if he comes up an talks 2 yu jus act normal like yu guyz are jus freinds
tell me how it goes.. get back to me
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