Question Posted Wednesday August 18 2004, 12:06 pm
ok, i am so sure that my mom is convinced that i am having sex with guy. but i am not, adn she is conviced i am kissing all over him, but im not! and she gets annoyed and things and i know for sure that she thinks i am sleeping with him. but it took me like 2 years to get him to poen up enough to hold my hand and things like that, so uh, yeah, even if i did wanna have sex with him, it would take a long time before i could. but how can i convince my mom that we are not sleeping together?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? xlostangelx answered Friday August 20 2004, 9:11 am: I would get her to read this right now. Show her this question so that she knows for sure you are not. Also, maybe you should have your guy tell her and you two should sit down and explain all this to her, that it took forever to even have him hold your hand!! Parents worry, so that's normal, but i think you should either get her to read this right now(the question you wrote) or have you and your guy sit down and chat with her about it, and i recomment both!!
lemme know how it works out, and if you need any more help, feel free to ask, and send it to my inbox!!
xXpriti1NpinkXx answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 11:41 pm: sit down an maybe talk ta her.. tell her yu want her to trust her an tell her that if she wants to go get yu tested ( yu noe the tests that show who yuve sleeped wit) that she shoul jus so shell belive yu.. maybe if yu aproach her wit more of ur otha problems so she noes yu wanna talk ta her maybe things will get betta..
or maybe all 3 yu an her an ur boyfriend shoul like go out so she gets ta noe yu 2 more??
get bac ta me [ xXpriti1NpinkXx's advice column | Ask xXpriti1NpinkXx A Question ]
ScooteySkater90 answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 5:38 pm: get her to read your question, shell see that you are right and you have been telling the truth all along. Shell see that if you were lying you wouldnt have come to advicenators for advice [ ScooteySkater90's advice column | Ask ScooteySkater90 A Question ]
lostandconfused answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 3:39 pm: you should tell her again and again...and if she doesnt believe you then buy a pregnancy test and tell her that it was positive and that youre pregnant and scare her a bit. then say "HEY I WAS KIDDING!!!" maybe that would work? [ lostandconfused's advice column | Ask lostandconfused A Question ]
ballerina04 answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 3:02 pm: tell her that you are not having sex with anyone. say you don't want to do that yet, and she should believe you. invite your boyfriend over so everyone can just talk. drop one in my inbox if you need anything else! x3 [ ballerina04's advice column | Ask ballerina04 A Question ]
icey0990 answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 2:02 pm: Man..my mom always gets the wrong idea at the wrong times also..offer her to give you a lie detector test if its gettign this far. Tell her your upset she isnt trusting you. You can even get a doctor to verify that your cherry is still there..but thats going to the extreme.
Good luck
-melissa [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
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