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confused...


Question Posted Wednesday August 18 2004, 7:05 pm

i like 2 guys...nathan and michael. I think i would have a better chance asking michael out, but i barely see him at school, and i like nathan more. i eat lunch with nathan and whatever other guys we decide to go talk to. we always have so much fun and we're always laughing. i've liked him longer than michael...and every time i think about him i get all tingly inside. i thought about him alot in 3rd period today, and i did it so much that the tingling began to hurt :). but....anyway...should i ask out michael or nathan?


sorry that was so confusing.

if you need more info, let me know and i'll put it up.


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Additional info, added Wednesday August 18 2004, 7:26 pm:
yeah...i actually went out with a guy about a year ago, and i liked nathan at the time...and i just felt so bad that i was doing that to him..

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MeGaN7191 answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 8:22 pm:
I know what you are going through! Think about them.. are they a person you would look up to, good influencer, or who is a better person?

Do not be attached with an unbeliever about christ. He doesn't want unholyness, so make a good choise.

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superstar10 answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 8:19 pm:
ok well no one can tell you who to ask out or who to now ask out. cuz that is yuor own personal opinion. but there has to one that you like more. i no what it feels like to like two ppl at the same time but there is always and will always be one that you like more. you just have to think about it for a lil bit. good luck....i hope i helped....

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xForeverxForgottenx answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 8:03 pm:
well if you like nathan then you shoudlnt even be asking lol. you like him more and you see him more. plus it sounds like you've like him for a while and think about him often. i'd say go for nathan. hope i helped.

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jinx answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 7:59 pm:
hey!! okay if i were u.. which im not lol i wood choose nathan. he seems really kool. n if he says no, which i think he wont, i bet ya'll will still be friens n the end!! well i hope i helped
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KateStar1011 answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 7:43 pm:
Well...
If you have likes Nathan more, than pick Nathan. If a man can make you smile and laugh. That's the best thing. and he makes you tingly! you could be in love! *wink* Good luck sweetie! <3333 Have a great night!

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SeXyBLuEyEzGuRL answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 7:41 pm:
ok it's not that hard to think about. ask NATHAN out!! hello? if you like the guy so much then why would you ask another guy out instead? it just doesnt make any sense:-/

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babeliciousbooty9 answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 7:40 pm:
go out with michael for the time being, and start making nathan jealous, and then break up with michael and then a week after start dropping hints to nathan that you like him and then tell him you'd liek to hang out with him soemt time. And then you'll knwo who you connecvt with better and then you can pick and choose!
hope i helped!!!
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dotdotdot32 answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 7:38 pm:
well you should ask nathan out, you like him more. how horrible would michael feel if you were with him but never happy because you wanted to be with nathan. i say go ahead and ask nathan.

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Siren_Cytherea answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 7:25 pm:
Since you like Nathan more, I'd go for him. I mean, if you ask Michael out and he says yes, you'd probably still like Nathan, and it's just not cool to date someone while you have a crush on someone else.
I'd definitely say ask Nathan out. You two already have a strong friendship, and if he has feelings for you like you do for him, that can only be a good relationship.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =)

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Luscious_Kisses15 answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 7:24 pm:
Well, if you like nathan more you wouldn't just want to 'settle' for michael, i mean i'm sure michael is a great guy, but if you really like nathan more, then you're going to think about him more. And in the long run, you won't be happy because number one you'll always want to be with nathan while you're with michael. and number two, it's not really fair to michael for his girlfriend to be wishin for another guy.

So my advice is to go for nathan...and if you get rejected (which i doubt you will from the sounds of it) then just stay friends with him and you'll probably end up like michael more and eventually have a relationship with him.

So either way it should work out! and yes i've been through this before lol :-)

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the_haha_boat answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 7:21 pm:
You should deffinately go for Nathan. He is the one that you want more, and the one that you think about all the time. Dont ask out michael just because you can, ask out nathan because you like him and you cant stop thinking about him. Good luck, i hope he says yes!!

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xokristabelle answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 7:19 pm:
It sounds like you like Nathan more, ask him out. He sounds really nice and funny. Try asking him on a group date first if you're nervous. Good luck!

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kevin1986 answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 7:18 pm:
Ask out Nathan if you like him,don't ask out Michael if you're not that interested in him.

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