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I'm Sarah, i'm 16. I'm a typical 16 year old girl. I'm a junior in high school. The thing thats gets on peoples nerves most about me is that i'm too sarcastic. But I can be serious...sometimes. I just got a car that I love but its already very messy...like me. I am not clean, or organized...sometimes I don't even know what the term means. I just got a job and was late on my 3rd day. I am late to almost everything. As you can see I am far from perfect, but I accecpt myself as me. I'm not perfect in school, actually I am going to summer school this summer, but to me, it's not that big of a deal. Things don't phase me like they do other people...
I am a little spoiled. My dad lets me keep his credit card and gives me money on it that he doesn't even have. My mom gives me her debit card way to often and usually is to ditzy to notice what I do on it. I love my parents. My grandmother is pretty rich and gives me money to come visit her...and sent me money to buy stuff for work...she sent me way more than I needed and I love her very much too! =)
I lost my grandpa 2 years ago and i miss him to this day. He was one of those people that you can't forget and no matter how much pain it causes you to think of them, you never even want to forget them, becuase you feel somewhat empty. He was one of the greatest people to me and I love him and miss him very much and cant wait until we meet up again.
When i'm am not working or not in school...i sleep as late as possible and stay in my pj's all day. I am not one of those people that gets dress to sit at home. I will go out in my pjs if i have to. To me, what people think about me is not as important as what I think about myself.
Some of my favorite things:
tv, movies, summer, not having school, beach, vacations anywhere, music (country and alternative rock), my mom (she is hilarious and i couldnt live without her...shes one of my best friends), my job (i love making money), my car, my fanily.
I am very typical but unique in my own way. I can sing very good, by myself in my car or in the shower...thats it! When i get bored I love to color...but i am really 16...not 10.
I have been through so much...my parents were divorced when i was 2 and i lived with my mom...she has had many boyfriends, and we have lived with a few...she has been engaged and married once before. That was really hard on me, harder than she or anyone thinks.
1. i had to leave all my friends and move an hour away to somewhere i had never lived before and move in with people I bearly knew.
2. i am an only child and the man she married had 2 kids. peroid.
Dont get me wrong, I loved his kids but when you are an only child for 15 years then get mixed with a 13 year old boy and a 9 year old girl that are used to getting everything they want and never doing anything....cant be good.
Me and his daughter got really close and as much as I dont like to admit it, it really hurt me when we couldn't be step sisters anymore. and her brother, he and I were alike in some ways and not in others, he was very carcastic like me which isnt always a good thing but sometimes is. We got along but i was shy and he was a little to. But we had just gotten used to each other when my mom told me they were getting a divorce...i wasn't suprised.
There are many other things about me that I am not going to bore you with because I want you to get to the end without falling asleep...if you have even gotten this far...
Now if you have read this far already which i really dont think you have...then you can ask me a question. I like giving advice...it makes me feel wise, and people tell me i am not to bad at it...so go ahead...its its stupid...you will feel the warth of my sarcasim....but its serious...then i will be as serious as my sarcasim permits....so just find out.
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where can u get share beauty (livestrong) bracelets? thanx
TARGET (im pretty sure they have them) and im sure you can find them on the internet
At lunch today, I started talking to my friend ( a guy) about his "girlfriend" (nothing bad or anything), like in front of her. She's at the table. I forget what I said, but it was just about them too. And then half our table went to get lunch but his *girlfriend* and I didnt, so we were there alone. Then she told me she broke up with him last night, so I was like "oops" in my head. And when they all got back, my 2 friends (the ex gf and bf) were like so unhappy. He had his head down..and in the next class he looked like he was going to cry. He's a good friend of mine and I felt so bad that I brought it up..because I didn't know about it. I don't know exactly what I am asking for..it's just that he was so upset. so..i dunno?? :'(
you just need to talk to him alone, and tell him your sorry and if he needs to talk to you about it then he can come to you but if i were you i wouldnt go on and go about, just talk for a few min. cuz if you talk about it a while it might get him upset again....just tell him your sorry and if he needs to talk then your there for him...hope this helps...!!
I dont have my drivers license yet so what do I do to get one?
You need to have a permit, if you already have one then make an appointment to get your lincense(make sure it has been a year since you got your permit) and take the test, you will need to drive with the instructor so make sure you know that...hope this helps!!
what's a good brand for a hair straightener, and what's a good product to put on before you straighten it (that thermal care stuff, not the shampoo kind... bah, i wish i knew the name!)
I have a Chi and it works really good, and i usually dont put any products in my hair before i straighten it and i have thick hair and it works good, my friend uses Hot Tools and they work good to...i know my Chi was about $150 and i dont really know how much her Hot Tools was....hope this helps!!!
OK...telling this story is getting really annoying, and I'd appreciate it if I didn't get snide comments about it, I already feel like a whore.
Well, to start it out, I had just gotten this new account on vampirefreaks. My friend had some crazy-cool people posting on hers so I went to check it out. One of the guys was so awesome. His profile was freakin' long and crazy, and he seemed really sweet. I left a message on his site and toddled off. Then he left a message on mine and so on. Well, anyways, we started talking on IM. The first time, I thought I had thoroughly annoyed him, so when we spoke next I apologized. Well, during our second conversation, we started making out. We pretty far, but not quite THAT far. Before I'd really talked to him, I thought he was really great, and when I did talk to him, I began to develop a crush on him.
A few days passed, othing happened. But then, his birthday came around. We had talked a little bit...and then we started doing a few things. It was mostly me doing, well, everything, so it was sort of weird. but that time, we did everything... In the end, I thought it had meant othing to him, but it didn't really bother me. but then after we did all of that, I felt sort of guilty, dirty...
Later that same night, after talking to 2 of my very close friends (one online, one not), i still felt bad. Then I was IMed by another guy from vampirefreaks, that I had become friends with a few days earlier. (NOTE: i had been at school, trying to sign in to vampirefreaks, and I wandered aimlessly onto this one page and it said the name Eryk. I looked at the pics and thought he was pretty, decided to look later. I looked him up later, and it wasn't him, but this other guy. There weren't any pictures of him so I read his profile. I left a comment, then he looked at my profile and IMed me. Thats how I met him.)
I Started talking with him, and he seemed sweet and he was always really nice and funny. I did like him, yeah, but I didn't really know how much. So, on the same day as the incident with Dion, I also did stuff with the other guy (his name is Dan). After all of that Dani and I talked... and he said that he'd liked me. I did like him to, so we just talked. Then after a few days we're like in love... My mum finds out about the cyber because I had printed it *dolt* 'cause I needed to talk to my friends about it. Mum banned me from IM. I snuck on to talk to them both, last night. Turns out it did mean something to Dion, and now he won't tell me how he feels about me. Dan and I are currently split up because he needs to think about some things, but he says that once he's done, we can go back to that. So, everything with Dan is ok, I think. But what do I do about Dion? And what about mum?
so let me get this straight...this is on-line and you feel like a slut cuz you "made out" with someone on-line and "did other things" on-line...Hello its on-line...u have never met these pple and probably never will...it doesnt mean anything and i wouldnt blame ur mom for banning from iming pple....
Do you ever feel like breaking down.. DO you ever feel out out place.. ANd somehow you just don't fit in and no one understands me... I've been kiked... hurt.. well I'm just like him.. and the rest of the song.. and sometimes i just wanna curl up and give up! the kids at my school are so mean to me. And a lot of my friends think they're to "cool" to hang out with me. I've been pushed down and kids kicked me and I've been in 5 fights with a bunch of kids and always get beet up picked on. And i don't belong.. I think i should just run away. no one would miss me. I'm just a loser in the way! I just wish i was a little cooler and people would be nicer to me. like the other day i was over my "friends" house and him and his neighbors made fun of me and 1 kid punched me so i fell and then they threw things at me. I've broken down.. ok and I'm young and hopeless and going no where fast is what they say.And the girls... forget about it... i mean the only reason most them don't like me is becuse the cool kids don't like me. I mean I'm not ugly..but you get my point. And some kids just pretend to be friends with me and then stab me in the beack like it's a game. And my gf just played me. Well you kinda get my idea of my life. that's not the details though. It's a lot worse. Well is there anything i can do? Or should i run away becuase no one would miss me!
Signed,
A loser!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WOW ok u sound just like i do, i almost always feel like that, well not almost always, just always...trust me i know how you feel, i just moved and have lik no friends and a sucky life and cry like everyday...but you know what i think about, my mom and dad i love then so much and i think if i left them they would be so sad and in the long run, so would i...i know how you feel, my so-called best friend was my friend for like 4 yrs and the only reason sh was friends with me is cuz i always took her on my vacations and my parents considered her like a 2nd daughter so they always got her so much stuff anf when they stopped, sh stopped being my friend...i have never had a real friend...people always use me for stuff, or arent even nice to me at all so i do know how it feels...
if u ever wanna chat my SN is: SuNkIsTsArAh1427
i do really know how it feels and i know its hard not to think that there isnt anyone out there for u but people do love you and need you around...hope this helps and if ur feeling down or anything...u can IM me...becuz i am feeling the exact same way, i dont know why im still here....
hey,
does any one know a place where i can get those livestong things? i know they come in purple, yellow and pink, do u know any others???? ( i rate high)
if ur talking about regular yellow livestrong bracelets then you can get them at www.wearyellow.com , thats where i got mine, and they dont have very many in stores becuz they r all back ordered....hope this helped!!
--sarah--
OK.. I shave "downstairs" (if u know what i mean) I only do it cause most guys HATE pubic hair.. I use a schic (sp?) intuition razor.. and then i still use moisturizing shaving cream too..(sometimes) and either way.. it hurts to shave.
Is it supposed to hurt when u shave down there.. or what can i do to make it hurt less.. preferably not at all .. I've tried using a brand new blade.. an older duller blade.. and even a brand new razor..
Could someone please help me!!
#1 those shavers SUCK!!!!!! u need a good one like get a mans gillete (sp?) cuz they have sharper blades (so u have 2 be careful) but it works so much better and dont shave a against the grain shave with it...u might have 2 go over it a few times but it hurts much less...good luck!!lol
Well my friends and I all decided to be "goth" for halloween this year, and well I'm not really sure what to buy for clothes (other than things that are black) and I'm not to sure what to do with the makeup either, got any ideas or website to give me some idea?
Thanks
Much Love,
Britt
[[BTW, I Rate 5 For EVERYONE!!!]]
well i dont really care about the rating but i wanted 2 answer this question...ok...if u have some money 2 spend then get some really chunky black shoes with some metal clasps and get like white and black long striped socks and some big black baggie shorts...and maybe a really bright red or another bright shirt or u could always go with black... then get some really pale makeup and use a lot with black lipstick and use black eyeliner and eye shawdow and
Hey I wanna be a barbie or a posessed barbie for Halloween; can anyone give me tips on what clothes 2 where; make-up; hair; im 5 feet, brunette w/ blonde highlights, skinny, hazel eyes.
thanx:)
well u can wear like pink clothes and get a big blonde wig and mess it up...and get really light makeup and use a lot of black eyeliner....hope this helps!!
me and friends are being moulon Rouge for halloween. we got skirts that are really short and a tangtop and it all goes rlly well but do u think its tooo slutty.
well if u knew what the moulon rouge girls were then u wouldn't be asking this question cuz if ur dressing up like them then u knew it was gunna be slutty before u bought the clothes but who cares...it halloween ...its not like its ur everday clothes or anything...go for it and have funn!!!
I HATE MY DAD! hes such an idiot... hes not in my life at all. hes a co dependant jerk. when i was little he didnt make me lunch and he makes me do everything for him... he can b OK sometimes but yeah its not enough i still hate him... hes not in my life at all but he'll pick random times to step in and ruin it. like something that my moms been letting me do for 7 months all of the sudden i cant do bcuz of him. I HATE HIM SOOOOO MUCH. my mom wont even stick up for me or what she knows is right... what should i do?
thnx
im sorry but we r not the ones being little immature brats....ur the one that is complaining so much...we r just stating the facts...im sure u have been through a lot of emotional abuse but whining that he wont let u do some things isnt the answer...u need 2 talk 2 him CLAMLY and tell him u care about him and u wish u 2 cud get close and stuff like that...it will take time....but im sure the stuff hes doing....its for a reason...if hes not in ur life very much then maybe hes been through a lot of things that u dont know about....and maybe u shud talk 2 ur mom...now if ur saying like ur mom lets u like go out every night and he said u cant for one night then thats just being a spoiled brat but if u really believe its about something she shud stick up for u for then talk 2 her about it....maybe yall cud go see a family conselor...but complaining about it on here is not gunna fix anything....hope this helps...
does anyone know where i can get a good track jacket? like with a collar and everything. either Adidas or Puma, (not a cheap brand) without ordering it over the internet? i want one for my birthday and my parents need to know where to get it. thanks
u can try an outlet store for the brand u want...
I sometimes get pimples around my mouth. Just little ones but they annoy the hell out of me and are ugly. Do you know of any good products that would help?
yeh i get those sometimes...i use proactive all the time but when i get thos i also put this stuff called clean and clear advantage acne spot treatment and they go down after one day and go away after 2 days....hope this helped!!
alrighty then my best friend that i've been bests friends w/ for like 4 yrs won't speak to me. and i had no idea why until yesterday --- i'm going out w/ chris and i just found out that she had feelings for him and i told her that i'd break up w/ him just so she could try to have him and she wont say a word and i try to talk to her but she just ignores me so i dont know if i should break up w/ chris...i mean i really really like him and he treats me right.....doesnt try to have sex w/ me, he just holds my hand and kisses me, and is always there when i need him most...i just dont know wat to do...help please i need it
~*lashes*~
no...dont dump ur boyfriend...ur friend is probably just a little jealous...just give her some time and when she does come around tell her u didnt know how she felt but that u really like this guy and he treats u really good..and if she is a real friend she will be happy for u...just give her a little time...hope this helps!!!
I pay close attention to recurring themes in my dreams, as I believe that it can be my subconcious self trying to relay important information that I am missing in my day to day conscious life. For the past several months, I have had a recurring dream... well the dream itself is always different, but in the dream for a period of time my vision is terribly blurry. I can't read information, or I have a really hard time making out what is right in front of me no matter how hard I try to focus or squint my eyes. I know this is a bizarre question, but I can ususally figure out these things on my own and the answer to this one is just not coming to me. Any serious responses are appreciated greatly. Thanks!
wow i have the exact same dream like more then once...and sumtimes i have s dream that there is an emergency and im like trying 2 dial a phone # and i can never punch the right # in....im no expert but i kinda think that the one where u cant see and wverything is blurry is like u trying 2 see sumthing u cant...i have always thought that was about like i was cudnt do sumthing that i wanted or like things were happeneing that i shud know about and i cudnt figure it out...idn...hope this helps!!!:]
It wont let me veiw my column! it just goes to a blank page like it hasnt loaded yet but it never loads! I want to see my feeback and everything. DOes anyone know why its doing this? Am i doing something wrong?
does your name have a space in it? if so, that is a reason u need 2 put a %20 in the spaces...if there is no space...then i have no clue...lol...sry...hope this helps??!!??:]
Hey! Okay, well I am 14 female.. about 5'7 235lbs! I know... FATTY! but still... So, i wanted to go to this weightloss school but it was almost 6,000$ and across the U.S. for me so my mom was like NO WAY! but first I wanted to get homeschooled. and then again No! so I was like Private school.. Too much money she said.. I have 4 sisters n she is seperated from my dad!! So yeah, I have to go to a public school (freshman) n alot of ppl make fun of me.. I cant run fat or anything.. n i wanna start losing weight now, pick up my speed, and then just be a whole new me next yr.. i used to play softball, and i was well good at it.. but got too old to play slow pitch!! I mean im not saying i have no friends or anything.. but my thighs, but, stomach, arms, n etc... I know.. drink water n blah blah! but nothing works for me.. im probably gonna get Slim in 6 (www.beachbody.com) but I dunno if it will work or not.. im thinking i wanna lose 100lbs or so n sorta fat but like not too fast! i just wanna be left alone n not singled out everytime i go somewhere with a bunch "skinny" ppl, and this sumemr i was gonna change everything but stayed n side n was lazy!! n now 2days b4 school starts i wanna chnage everything!! i know its gonna take time but i wanna try sommin n see if it works.. i need lots of ideas, help, motivation, and support!! I seriously want a whole new me. i mean the "stretch marks" are ugly n never gonna go away so ill always remember being fat, i just want it to stop!! i wanna be the one not scared to speak up, and express what i think, i wanna be the one telling the person not to be making fun of someone, not the one being made fun of!! I want to change me!! have a high self esteem n just have fun!! so yeah u think u can help??? I'd rlly appreciate it!!! Any advice will help me .. i mean have any of u ever been n the same position or anything?? I was thinking baout even killing myself once, and i wanna "throw up" wut i eat but i dunno if thats smart, its like i cant stick to anything.. all i know is i wanna look good ... fast... not for boys... but for me.. n for all the teasing to stop!! I ask u all hoping for help!! Thanks alot, xOxOxO
hey!! wow u sound exactly like me...not kidding and I do know how you feel!!!! I am overweight and I have been exercising like every other day (and on the other days i swim in my pool and play volley ball.) and i have been eating less carbs and making my protions a little bit smaller...i eat eat like 5 small meals not 2 big ones becuz that can make your metabolism faster!!!...no it is NOT smart 2 make urself throw up and i really wanna know how this goes for you....and when ever u need a little motavation please please tell me how ur feeling becuz when i first started doing this i wished i cud have gotten a little motavation from sumone...if u need any more advice or anyother questions at all...let me know...!!!!GOOD LUCK AND U CAN DO THIS JUST SET UR MIND TO IT!!! :]
Okay this may sound a bit weird. . buh im 14 yrs old and i dont have like a real nipple yet.. when im cold or sumthing liek that.. yaah it looks like it but then it goes away.. please help!
what you could have are inverted nipplles...just like you have innie and outie belly buttons...the same can be true for nipples...as far as what ur saying they sound totally normal but if your worried about them or want to make sure that they really are inverted nipples (its not as common as the belly button think but pple do have them) then you could ask your doctor...you dont even have so show him/her...just ask about it...hope this helps...and yes its normal!!!:]
Hey, Well there is this guy I USED to like..(Well..I actually still do) but I found out from my best friend who is friends' with the guy I like said that he was talkin' crap about me ... Well I got some1 thats spose to beat him up but he actually beat up 1 of his friends..Well I got news from this 1 guy that talked to they guy I like and he told me that (the boi i like said this)... "Did crystal* say that she was gonna get a gun and shoot me? Well tell her this, Tell her I said that I will get a gun , load it for her then give it to her and see what she'll do with it.." I never said anything bout a gun or shooting anybody!Can you plz help me!
Another thing, I'm really confused alot of my friends says that he likes me .. .but I dunno now I'm not so sure.. I found out he was talking bout me 2 weeks after school started... and well I dont talk to him that much... Alot of times he wanted to talk to me but I chickened out -n- went home... Can u plz help me?
This really scares me!
hey..ok you need to calmly talk to him...by yourself with none of your friends around...just him and tell him everything you said and didnt say...tell him you never said anything about a gun or shooting him or anything...tell him how you feel about him and that you dont want any trouble between you two and even if you cant go out or anything you can still be friends...but make sure he knows know that you never said anything like that and tell him even if yall cant be friends (for whatever reason) tell him that you dont talk about him so if he hears that someone says your talking about him he will know its not true and ask him not to talk about you....hope this helps!!! :]