At lunch today, I started talking to my friend ( a guy) about his "girlfriend" (nothing bad or anything), like in front of her. She's at the table. I forget what I said, but it was just about them too. And then half our table went to get lunch but his *girlfriend* and I didnt, so we were there alone. Then she told me she broke up with him last night, so I was like "oops" in my head. And when they all got back, my 2 friends (the ex gf and bf) were like so unhappy. He had his head down..and in the next class he looked like he was going to cry. He's a good friend of mine and I felt so bad that I brought it up..because I didn't know about it. I don't know exactly what I am asking for..it's just that he was so upset. so..i dunno?? :'(
Additional info, added Monday November 1 2004, 8:40 pm: its going to be awkward at lunch now, because we are not allowed to switch seats. he sits with all us girls..... Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? dorky1317 answered Monday November 1 2004, 10:06 pm: You feel bad becauseyou made a mistake it's natural in time he'll feel better but why not speed it up like giving him extra hugs and giving extra help on homework or if he forgets lunch money lend him some money basicly just be nice and don't bring it back up unless you think he wants an apollogy even if you didn't know [ dorky1317's advice column | Ask dorky1317 A Question ]
babiigurl076 answered Monday November 1 2004, 9:15 pm: Just talk to him& tell him you're really sorry you brought it up. It's really not your fault since you had no idea about it. Just be a good friend& be there for him like you would any other day..I'm sure he'll appreciate it! Goodluck:] -Amber [ babiigurl076's advice column | Ask babiigurl076 A Question ]
lOsT_sOulx3 answered Monday November 1 2004, 8:54 pm: he'll get over it it's not really a big deal that you talked about it if they are both sad at the same time chances are they will get but together. . .<33 [ lOsT_sOulx3's advice column | Ask lOsT_sOulx3 A Question ]
xO_Chelsea_Ox answered Monday November 1 2004, 8:53 pm: It's not you fault hun, you didn't know that they were broke up... your just feeling false guilt... I hoped i helped!! :)
sunkistsarah answered Monday November 1 2004, 8:49 pm: you just need to talk to him alone, and tell him your sorry and if he needs to talk to you about it then he can come to you but if i were you i wouldnt go on and go about, just talk for a few min. cuz if you talk about it a while it might get him upset again....just tell him your sorry and if he needs to talk then your there for him...hope this helps...!! [ sunkistsarah's advice column | Ask sunkistsarah A Question ]
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