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i have a crush on this girl..Chrissy..... she knows i like her but i am too shy to talk to her and ask her out... does anyone have any advice for me to get over it and talk to her or give me something to say to her to start a convo.... please help me out ... thanks -
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Lifes too short to be shy. You gotta live for the moment. Whats the worst that could happen? You say she likes you, too? Then anything you say is gonna sound good to her. You should try the way I start conversations with my friends:
MmMmMmMmMmMmM...hey good lookin, what you got cookin? ok, im kidding, but just be smooth and go with the flow joe. Just a simple *Hey* would be good enough, or you could be daring and use *HeyHey* lol...good luck, hope i helped.
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ok. what you need to do is at first just start out by saying hi whenever you see her. once you get to know her better then you can talk to her about other things. and a tip... girls love comopliments and girls are usually more shy then guys when it comes to talking to their crush. so theres a high chance that she likes you. just talk to her and get to know her, even if she doesnt end up liking you in that way, you guys can still become really good friends
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Ask her to a dance at your school or something.If you don't want to ask her to the actuall dance,ask her to dance with you.(slow dance of course) It will take the pressure off.
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what does she like. Everybody love to TALK about things..they like. SO find out what she really digs..do a little research on it..and start a convo..hey have you ehard about...or ask about homework..yes all time used line but it is true...
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well you could practice in front of a mirrior or pick up a magazine with flirting ideas even if it's for girls you can probly get some good ideas or you could have a friend find out how much she likes you just be sure it's some one you can trust and she thinks she can at least halfway trust
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Even though some people consider this the wimpy way of asking a girl out, write her a note. If she likes you back..ask her out in a note if you are too shy to do it in person. Yea, it is a whole lot better in person, but if you absolutely CAN'T do that then do the second best thing..either a note or a friend. :]
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aww ... just be yourself, i know you hear it a lot but its the best thing to do. i mean you shouldnt change for someone. if she knows you like her then most likely she wont reject you. just go up to her be like hey whats up, i was wondering if you'd like to go out sometime, just you know play it casual =)! well good luck, no worries, tell me how it goes babe! if you have any more questions drop one in my inbox. xo -- angie
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Right before you ask her out, think about how happy you will be is she says yes! I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
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deff dont talk to her about school..girls hate when guys start talking about school when they cant think of anything else to say it makes em sound like nerds
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Just hang out with her and stuff. Make converstation..about like school or something. Ask her if she understood the homework..talk about your hobbies..anything! If you have any female close friends, ask her to find out if Chrissy likes you. I know it's tough getting the courage to ask people out, but you'll have to get over it sometime :) Don't be shy..because a lot of girls don't really like that. Be outgoing, but dont talk <i>too</i> much! Just act like you are around one of your close friends and dont be nervous! The most imporant thing to remember is to <b>be yourself</b>. It's so great when guys act like theirselves..because then you know who they <i>really</i> are. Be funny, and just have fun! Best of luck to you, and if you need anything else, feel free to ask me..
lAter :P
casey
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