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it doesn't feel good when i have sex with my boyfriend or when he fingers me. it can't be because i'm uncomfortable... because i'm 100% comfortable with him. any ideas?
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It doesn't feel good in a physical way? Or it just doesn't feel right like your feel awkward? If it's physical pain then it may be because your too tight but that will go away after having sex with your boyfriend over 10 times he may be really wide or your cherry isn't fully popped. If it's that your just awkward I'd just say I think your not ready to do those sorts of things. Hope I helped.
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ShanN*
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I have this friend who likes me but I like another girl. I want her to know that without her felling bad so can you help?
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Yes I can. Tell the friend that likes you that you don't yet feel that way about her that you appreciate her liking you and all but you would rather just stick being friends until you get more feelings for her in that sort of way, and that you would rather have friendship with her than nothing and that you wouldn't want to ruin that for the world and that she's really sweet (just tell her sweet things about her). And talk to the girl that you do like in that way about the feelings you have for her and that you would like it if you guys started talking and getting to really know each other. Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't :(.
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ShanN*
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okay well I start high school in about a week and I’m turning 16 pretty soon I don’t have my permit and I don’t have a job and I don’t have a cell phone which is the problem I really want one but my mom says I don’t need one I haven’t talked to my mom in 2 whole days I hate her for it I don’t want a job but if that’s what it takes for me to get a cell phone I’m getting one so does any one know any places that would hire a 15 year old girl because I really want a cell and that’s the only way I can get one but I don’t mean like babysitting I mean a real job please help and also do u think I’m being stupid about this like is having a cell phone that big of a deal? so please list thanks alot!!
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McDonalds, Burger King, WalMart (cart pusher) ha, ha but it does pay good my boyfriend does it, Fashion Bug, Grocier Stores (Giant, Food Lion) I think when you turn 16 you can work there, K-Mart, Pets Mart. Hopefully, that's enough. Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't.
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ShanN*
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ok this is gonna be kinda long
In the middle of last year my BFF got a boyfriend and i was soo happy for her. But then she stopped hanging out with me. She ate lunch with him,all she talked about was her boyfriend. But then she got new friends and didnt even notice me. At dance she didnt want to talk to me either. So i told her how i felt and she said thats not true!! So then i said i dont want to be friends if u arent going to be a friend. so then her boyfriend said F*** YOU to me online:(
I told my friends and they informed my ex-bff. So she dumped him and her were friends again. The 2days lata she went back out with him. And she started doing the same thing that she did before. On the last day of school she dumped him. We are friends now but all she ever talks about is her ex-bf and she still doesnt talk to me at dance. Ok so here is my question: Should i still be her friend or forget about her?
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Well I would say to talk to her about how you feel, but you already informed everybody that you did and she told you that it's not true. I think you shouldn't be her friend because just think that was one boyfriend when she finds somebody else it's going to happen again, and again, and again. And that's not even the end of it. So not to be rude to her and all but yeah I'd just say screw it and find some other friend there's many out there ha, ha. So true.. Hope I helped.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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i think i just made one of the biggest mistakes of my life. me and my best guy friend have always had a friends-with-benifits relationship. he was fingering me today and ended up sticking his penis in me. we were going for a little, but we had to stop because he had to leave. he didn't get to cum and we did full out have sex. but knowing that his penis was in me... is that enough to count for losing my virginity? (link)
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Yes, why is that a big mistake? Did you want to lose it with your first love or your only love.
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wat is an orgasam?
can girls get them?
and if girls can, is it normal to have wet stuff in your undies afterwards? (link)
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First things first,
1. The peak of sexual excitement, characterized by strong feelings of pleasure and by a series of involuntary contractions of the muscles of the genitals, usually accompanied by the ejaculation of semen by the male. Also called climax.
Second things second,
Yes, girls can get them guys can get them and yeah.
Third things third,
Yes, it is normal for chicks to get wet stuff in their undies.
Hope I helped.
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ShanN*
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ok now i have a boyfriend. hes nice, funny. and god hes gorgeous. But hes extremely sensitive and everything hurts his feelings. Hes jealous all the time and it drives me insane. He always has to be calling me or texting me when hes not with me, and im not the type of girl to expect him to do that. Hes got a life i know what hes doing, so its cool i dont stress over it. we've been together going on 7 months and as soon as i met him i fell for him. i've know him for like 8 months. Sounds like i need to break it off huh? If it were someone else thats what i would say. but honestly i cant. and i dont know why? like in a way i want to, but when it comes down to doing it i just cant. i forget about it. whats that mean?
i rate good if you take the time to help me out. thank you. (link)
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In my honest opinion I wouldn't break it off with him. One reason is because in the future you'll most likely regret doing it because other men, guys, boys are so much worse I can't believe you have a boyfriend like that he sounds very sweet I would kill to have one like that. (I do but I don't it's kinda confusing) Just don't do anything that you will regret in the future because you will have a hard as hell time trying to find a guy like that and trust me when your older you'd probably want one just like him. I think you should stick with him I mean you guys have been going out for 7 months that's a long time. If you felt this feeling you had before I think you should have broken it off before it got real serious, ya know? Because now if you break up with him it's going to hurt like hell to him. I think the reason why you keep forgetting to do it is because deep down you don't want to do it or you just forget because when you hang out with him you forget about everything (that's a good thing). I mean if you saying he's gorgeous, sooooo sweet, who cares about sensitive that's how you know he won't cheat on you in the future.
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i just had sex for the first time last night, and now i have a clear, odorless, jelly-like discharge comming out. is this normal? (link)
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Yes, it is normal. When I first had sex it happened to me then the second time and I think it stopped after that. Don't ask me what the use of this clear jelly-like discharge is caused from because I honestly don't know. Unless it's cum but I doubt it. Hope I helped.
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ShanN*
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Is it safe to wear a tampon to sleep in? I'll probably sleep around 9 hours tonight .. I'm just not sure if that's safe (TSS). If I wear a pad, it usually leaks and gets on my shorts im wearing to bed. What should I do? (link)
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Personally, I've heard stories that are true that because they wore a tampon to sleep got stuck in there and gave them TSS, they had to have like surgery my sister almost got that as well. I would put like paper towels down of where your sleeping enough to cover that area. or put on a bigger pad the largest you can find if you don't want to ruin anymore pants or shorts. But please don't wear tampons while sleeping it's dangerous. Hope I helped.
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ShanN*
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im 19 yrs old, college sophomore, i met my ex "james" when i was a senior in high school. strangley enough my friend "pat" put my pic up on hot or not and "james" saw it and clicked meet me. come to find out he went to my high school and graduated a few years ahead of me. his brother was also one of my high school friends.
he was in the army when i met him, (this was in december of my high school year) he had been over seas for 2 years. we talked online and on the phone to eachother every chance we got and he came down on leave for his brothes grad party which i was invited to because his brother and i were friends.
we started hanging out and eventually dating. i broke up with him before i left for college because i didnt want to worry about having a bf and his school and mine were 2 hours apart. he told me he loved me but i broke up with him reguardless
he now has a gf "kerry". he started dating her 2 months after we broke up. apparently he used to date her before he left for iraq. they have been dating ever since.
well the reason i am writing is because after him and i broke it off we still continuted to talk and even hang out on occasion. he has been cheating on "kerry" with me for the past month and 1/2.
"james" tells me that he is probably going back overseas to fight in october. he told me that i should get over him because he isnt sure when or if he is going to come back. and i deserve a guy who is going to be there for me(he is sched for 2 years over there. i dont know what i should do. i dont know if he is still with "kerry" because he loves her or if its not the right time to break up with her or if he is going to break it off when he goes, if he loves me still i just dont know what to think. i need someone to look at the situation from another stand point and give me some advice, i am at a total loss. (link)
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(Wow, I was thinking of anwering this question before but I didn't think you'd even care ha, ha.) In my honest opinion. I think that he did really love you when you broke up with him before because by him saying that he loved you he was just trying to get you to change your mind about breaking up with him, and he was really hurt about it. So a couple of months later "Kerry" was sweet talking him and it made him feel important (most likely) and so they started to date. I think he still has strong feelings for you if he is willing to risk his relationship with "Kerry" for you, he sounds like a confused guy with a confused situation I think he needs some answers too. If he says you deserve a guy to be there for you and that you should get over him, I suppose you should do so because as he said to you he doesn't know when he may come back he was serious. If you can't get over him after those 2 years, I think you should wait til' he returns if he returns or try to find some way to contact him and say you love him and that you want to be with him and that you tried so hard getting over him but nothing will work. And I do think he will break it off with this "kerry" chick like when he leaves because he's going to be gone for 2 years not even knowing when he's really coming back so yeah I don't think you have to worry about her, but if he does stay with her then I think you could do better. I doubt it because if he cheated on her with you then I would say he doesn't think to -highly- of her. Hope I helped. Good luck and I hope you get what you want... Sorry if I didn't help but to be honest this is one of the most difficult questions I've gotten yet. I'm pretty sure I did help on some factors but hey it only leaves you to decide.
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ShanN*
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Okay, well I dated this boy back in February. Our relationship only lasted a week because he kissed someone else, and so did I. We got back together a couple days later, and that only lasted about 2 weeks. A month or so after, he got a new girlfriend and was with her for a month. After he broke it off with her, he started 'talking' to me again. However, it was then that he had to leave all summer on vacation, and I didn't get to talk to him for over a month. Now he's back and wants to get back together. The problem is, he is the boy in school that every girl wants, and every guy wants to be. I have major jealousy issues, and it kills me having to deal with every girl being in love with him. I don't feel like I'm good enough. He's leaving again today for another two weeks, and wants to date once he returns, he wants to get back together. I love this boy... I just don't feel like getting my heart broken by him for the third time. What should I do?
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I think when he returns you need to talk to him majorly about what you just told me. Tell him that you are the jealous type and if he wants to date you then he's going to have to understand that you want all his attention towards you tell him not every second of every day just that you want it most of the time. (I'm the jealous type as well). Tell him that it bothers you being the man candy in the school who every girl loves and every guy wants to be, but you understand that he can't do anything about that. And tell him if he really likes you he'd understand where you are coming from, and that if he can't handle what you are asking (more attention towards you during school hours) then there's no reason why we should be going out. Tell him you don't want a relationship having to worry all the time what he is doing when you aren't around him. Hope I helped. (Remember it's my opinion on what I'd do. Mean you probably already know this but I'm going to tell you anyways that you don't have to use my advice.)
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ShanN*
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Okay well I have asked a question about jailbate before but I have another problem... See my luvr has a speech inpediment. And I don't notice about that any more but when he talks to my friends or someone who dunno him ppl juss give him a smile or ask him to repeat i feel awful about it but i wish i could love him up more to get rid of the pain and all the teasing. He doesnt deserve that. Is there anyway i can stand up or be more lovely?
Thanx your advice would rlly help me out =) ~steph (link)
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I think you need to tell anybody that does that to him "to go to hell and stick it where the sun don't shine" The people that mostly do that to him can understand what he's saying but just have to be dicks or bitches about it and be a smartass. I think if they had that problem they wouldn't want the remarks they give toward people with that disability. If you want to be more lovely towards him tell him you love him almost every hour and care about him so much and just be there for him. Sorry to be harsh but I think those kinds of people are just looking for something to do in their poor pathetic lives. I would know I was one of those people. Hope I helped.. (Sorry if I'm talking about something totally different, but I have a friend that has that same disability called "speech inpediment" same thing that you are telling me he has. So I don't know if it's different or not.)
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ShanN*
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is it normal for teenage girls to masturbate? (link)
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If it isn't, then I think I should stop. Ha, ha yeah I think it's very normal. Ew and it's fun to get "the talk" from your mother because my mom told me that teenagers my age like to experiment meaning using other objects around the house to masturbate and use it as a dildo, or a vibrator. I'm like ohk good for them so yeah. I'm not saying I use object's around the house I think if people use candle sticks, and an electric tooth brush they are just calling out for a yeast infection. But whatever ha, ha. Hope I helped.
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ShanN*
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i just got done watching the end of the latest Laguna Beach (the one that was on last ngiht) and LC and stephen were like all cozy and cuddly with each other. i have missed basically all the episodes except the first one...are they going out??? (link)
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I have been watching all the episodes I would just say they are what we call "Friends with benefits". Hope I helped.
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ShanN*
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I was wondering how you a burn a CD i dont believe i got any sort of program but can you burn it if yuo got windows mdeia player? (link)
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Yes, you can all you need is a blank CD to copy off of and when you go into the "Window's Media Player" At the top where is say's like "Now Playing", "Library" and all that (hopefully you know what I'm talking about) it should say Burn on one of the slots after you put the blank CD in. I just did this a couple of day's ago so it's good that your asking now. Ha, ha hope I helepd. Sorry if I didn't.
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ShanN*
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hey so i have this problem with two boys coby and kalvin. i really like coby and like kalvin. coby is going to a different highschool than me and kalvin is going to my same highschool but i am in love with coby. i dont know what to do. i cant tell kalvin the truth because coby is one of his good friends. kalvin and me are close as friends and me and coby are close all around. what do i do? please help i rate 5's all the way (link)
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I think you need to sit down and think, think of both of them and who you like more and who has always been there, listened to you, made you laugh and smile, never wanted to make you cry, and said they never want to hurt you and just find out which one you would think would never do so. If you love Coby but he's not going to the same school and Kalvin is it shouldn't really matter I'm going out with a guy that lives 45 minutes away we have been going out for a year now. But if you like those kinds of relationships like seeing your boyfriend everday talking to him every second of every day just being there when you need him I still think you should go with Coby but Kalvin will always be there in your school. All I'm saying is find out which one you like or *love* more and I honestly think you should go with which ever one you chose. Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't...
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ShanN*
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i have these dark circles under my eyes, their not to dark just dark enough to be noticeable up close does anyone know how to get rid of them without concelor or cover-up i can never find any to match my skin color. Im going out with a guy this weekend and i want to know if theres anyway to make them go away before then.Thanks! (link)
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Get two spoons and put them up against the dark circles under your eyes and hold them there for about 5 minutes. If that doesn't work usually getting more sleep like going to bed at 9PM and waking up around 7, 8, 9, or even 10AM the next morning would usually do that too. Or a quick and easy way of doing that is by using make up. Hope I helped.
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ShanN*
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i just came back from my friends sleepover and so im really tired and was in the car with my mom and first shes like "your always so blah" and then shes like "why are you always so snoty to me" and im like im not and shes like "you dont act like this to mark (my stepdad)" and shes like "your only nice when you want something" (which she used to say to my older sister also) but im like "no" because that not true its just that she is always yelling at me and i am very sensative and it makes me cry. like whenever my parents fight my mom is all mean and so i stay with mark and watch tv with him and hes nice. or the other day i decided to hose off the deck to get the dirt off around 6ish when the sun was going down and i accidently got a chair cover wet inside and outside and my mom got all mad and i didnt mean to i was just trying to help. or when my omm decided to take a kickboxing class so i knew that it started before my firends birthdat party so i wasl ike can you still take me and the shes like "you girls always want me to take you places and i just wanna do one tihng for me.. blah blah" and thats not true, in fact its like only te second time iv asked her to take me anywhere ALL SUMMER (i usually ask mark, not that i even ask him that much but w/e) and then yesterday my mom was like "did you get acard" and i was like no b/c mark was supposedto take me and i figured he could stop on the way there and she was like well hes working outside rite now building our deck so i guess that means i have to take you (all nasty) and she was like you shouldve walked and gotten one and i was like ok i will now with keri (my older sis) and shesl ike no ill take you. and now im really upset because im not snoty so what do i do, by the way, the last thing i want to do is talk to her b/c if i tell her this shell just defend herself and yell at me and then ill cry and ill get yelled at again so please help (im 14/f) (link)
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I think since your all buddy buddy with Mark and that you like him because he's nice. I'd talk to him about it and tell him if he could talk to your mom for you. Tell him that you don't enjoy crying almost everyday because of something I didn't do and that you are that sensitive and don't really want to tell your mom yourself because she will try to defend herself and yell at you and blame you for what she's doing and that will make you cry being all sensitive. I really need your help Mark so please just do this and help me out. Tell him you'd really appreciate it if he could do that for you and that if he does you'll repay him one day. Hope I helped. Sorry about your mom. Yeah I know I have a mom like that well one that bitches a lot and I'm very sensitive as well, I usually hold the tears til' when I'm alone or in my room with the door shut. Don't worry sensitivity is something we'll both get over ha, ha. Sorry if I didn't help it's just something I'd do.
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ShanN*
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i am 5'3" and weigh 104 lbs( i am a girl)
i just got back form camp and now my mom is telling me that i look too skinny, but i think i need to loose 5 pounds. how can i make her see things my way so she doesnt get mad at me when i diet. (link)
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Oh my gosh, hunnie I'm 121 and 5'3 going on 5'4 and if you see my picture in my advice column hopefully it don't look like I'm fat I'm not even overweight and I weight that much. Most people say it's the way my body structure is meaning big boobs, cheerleader legs, muscled stomache, some muscle in the arm and blah blah blah. Babe you don't need to lose any weight you need to gain it. Ha, ha my mom tells me if I didn't have the boobs I have I would need to lose 5 pounds but hell since I have them then nevermind. Try to gain weight if you don't see it that way then I think you need to go to the doctors. Go to my site and call me fat I don't care I just know that I'm healthy. Please don't lose weight I would know I lost 20 pounds from being anerexic and if I wouldn't have had someone tell me I need to eat then I would be in the hospital by now. Hope I helped.
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ShanN*
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i m 13 & i have a crush on a 15 year old guy and i THINK he likes me too so my b-day is coming up this saturday and i was wondering what i could do to get him horny or @ least make him show that he likes me p.s. I WILL have a pool so any sexy things i could do in there w/out people noticing that much PLEASE HELP!!! :( (link)
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Rub his dick but don't just start to do it ha, ha. Start to talk to him and ask him if you can give him pleasure and if he says yes then just rub his dick don't go in his boxers or trunks just on top of his boxers or swimming trunks. But if he says no then just keep talking to him. Hope I helped. Have fun at the swimming pool party.
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ShanN*
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