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i just came back from my friends sleepover and so im really tired and was in the car with my mom and first shes like "your always so blah" and then shes like "why are you always so snoty to me" and im like im not and shes like "you dont act like this to mark (my stepdad)" and shes like "your only nice when you want something" (which she used to say to my older sister also) but im like "no" because that not true its just that she is always yelling at me and i am very sensative and it makes me cry. like whenever my parents fight my mom is all mean and so i stay with mark and watch tv with him and hes nice. or the other day i decided to hose off the deck to get the dirt off around 6ish when the sun was going down and i accidently got a chair cover wet inside and outside and my mom got all mad and i didnt mean to i was just trying to help. or when my omm decided to take a kickboxing class so i knew that it started before my firends birthdat party so i wasl ike can you still take me and the shes like "you girls always want me to take you places and i just wanna do one tihng for me.. blah blah" and thats not true, in fact its like only te second time iv asked her to take me anywhere ALL SUMMER (i usually ask mark, not that i even ask him that much but w/e) and then yesterday my mom was like "did you get acard" and i was like no b/c mark was supposedto take me and i figured he could stop on the way there and she was like well hes working outside rite now building our deck so i guess that means i have to take you (all nasty) and she was like you shouldve walked and gotten one and i was like ok i will now with keri (my older sis) and shesl ike no ill take you. and now im really upset because im not snoty so what do i do, by the way, the last thing i want to do is talk to her b/c if i tell her this shell just defend herself and yell at me and then ill cry and ill get yelled at again so please help (im 14/f)
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my mom is going thought she was going through menopause when i thought i was about to get my period for the first time and it was crazy in my house for about two months. she was just like you explained except she is way less active and sleeps ALL the time. i tell her that when she sleeps it makes her grouchy which it does. i don't really know what's wrong with mothers. they're just weird. i'd hang with Mark for a while and wait about a month before you ask your mom for anything.
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Yeah my moms exactly like you its hard and I cry alot too. She's totally out of control someetimes. UM...from what you've written I think your moms probably somewhere in her 40's to early 50's right? Yeah at that age women goes through mid-life crisis because they're menapausal...yeah they get pretty crazy but you'll get use to it. It won't go away for a while just ignore her or spend time away from her. It's gonna be hard real hard so be strng and feel free to right to me if your moms at it again ok?
...yea i was right see just try your best and be strong and always talk to someone about it.
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It sounds to me like you've got a complicated situation in your hands. Its hard to believe but sometimes parents get fed up with kids. Try to calmly (meaning no crying, and no running to your room) explain to your mom how you feel about this situation. Write her a letter explaining how you feel about your differences. Explain to her how you were just trying to help her out to put her in a better mood. Also find a common interest between the two of you like stamp collecting, or oragami. Suggest you and your mother spend time together doing this. tell her about things that are going on in your life. Let her know that you care about her opinion. trust me she will feel honored that you are concered about her imput on your life. hope this helps. good luck!
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Your mom views you as a waste of time. You're taking up her things she'd like to do. She's rude and obnoxiouse.
Why? Chances are, she only wants to spend time with herself. Do things for her. And only her. You're a problem to her, you cant let her do anything she wants to 24/7. Dont talk to her. Dont ask her for anything. Learn to not need her. Learn to not want her.
Let what she says about you become reality.
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u seem really close to mark, maybe you could try talking to him....explain things completly, and maybe he can explain EVERYTHING to her.
if she knows everything before she sees you then, maybe she wont be so defensive
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I think since your all buddy buddy with Mark and that you like him because he's nice. I'd talk to him about it and tell him if he could talk to your mom for you. Tell him that you don't enjoy crying almost everyday because of something I didn't do and that you are that sensitive and don't really want to tell your mom yourself because she will try to defend herself and yell at you and blame you for what she's doing and that will make you cry being all sensitive. I really need your help Mark so please just do this and help me out. Tell him you'd really appreciate it if he could do that for you and that if he does you'll repay him one day. Hope I helped. Sorry about your mom. Yeah I know I have a mom like that well one that bitches a lot and I'm very sensitive as well, I usually hold the tears til' when I'm alone or in my room with the door shut. Don't worry sensitivity is something we'll both get over ha, ha. Sorry if I didn't help it's just something I'd do.
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