Hey everyone, my name is Kristin, there's a picture of me on my advice column.. I'm a senior in high school and im 18 years olds.. I know I'm pretty young, but I've been through more than anyone would imagine and I've been through things most teenage girls haven't experienced yet in life. Here's a few things about myself, I've gone through a very serious one year relationship that ended a long long time ago, my parents have been divored for about 6 years, I cheerlead for my high school, I do ballet and have been playing the piano since I was seven, I work at a nearby UPS Store, and I am a dedicated Greek-Orthodox Christian. I hope to get accepted into Cal Poly San Louis Obispo and major in Nutrition..I love to hear about other peoples issues and problems so I could help them deal with it by relating them to my own experiences. So if you wanna talk, I'm here =]
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E-mail: princesskristin01@yahoo.com
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Location: I live in California, I'm half arab half italian
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Age: 18
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I think I like one of my closest friends and I think she just might like me back. But it's tough because I don't really want to say anything me being a girl myself... Should I tell her how I feel and risk our friendship or just ignore it? (link)
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thats a toughy.. ppl these days are pretty execpting, but others are ignorant and wont except that..if i were u, id like hint being a lesbian...not physically..but maybe when ur walkin point out a girl and be like shes sooo pretty huh?? and see whut she says..ya know stuff like that..and if u feel like shes like that, then id tell her..but if she isnt, unfortunatly iwouldnt tell her cause she would prolly be scared off...
love kristin
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i know this boy and we dated for 8 months 2 years ago then we didnt talk for 2 years and then we started talking and we botrh started liking each other and like i moved to vegas from ga and im goioing bak in about 10 montha and we decieded to have sex then we got in a huge fighta nd he still thinks i will have sex with him whne i come bak what sohuld i do i really do love him im not sure if he loves me (link)
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D-O-N-T do it!!! i promise u if u do it, he will loose sooo much respect from u!!! u dont want to have sex with a guy thats expecting to have sex with u..even if u do love him..u wanna wait until u find a guy that doesnt expect that kinda stuff from u, and doesnt even care bout that..if i were u, i wouldnt do it........
lOvEkRiStiN
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ok....theres this kid that is going out w/ the girl i love...and he knows that i still love her...(she's my ex)....and he makes fun of me b cuz he's going out w/ her and im not....he makes up all these lies saying that she said them...but she didnt just to piss me off. i want to kick his ass...but then she'll hate me forever....every one else says to forget what she thinks about it and just do it....but i dont know what to do.....HELP ME!! (link)
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IGNORE IT!!!! look how much attention ur giving this girl...shes going out with another guy, and her ex bf still wants her and even wants to beat this other guys ass...if i were u, i wouldnt do nething about it....if he gets in ur face about it, literally, then kick his ass, only cause he disrepected YOU. only beat his ass if he disrespected you, dont worry about the girl...
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OK, I met this guy at the mall and we got to know eachother. He calls me almost everyday and we flirt ALL the time. The thing is, he already has a girlfriend. I think he likes me and all but i don't want him to break up with her for me but i REALLY like him. What should i do?!?! PLease help me!!! (link)
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if he can do that to his own gf, like meeting another girl at the mall, ask for her number, call her everyday, and FLIRT with her.....then he can do the SAMEEE thing to you!!!! i know u prolly thing, no its different, or no hes different...but trust me, it happens to every one of us..plus thats kinda bad karma, if i were u id try stop talking to him..its not worth it in the end..
love kristin
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Um, I like having sex, I'm not going to lie. But the last time I did, the guy I did it with kind of... made me have anal sex with him. And I tried to say it hurt but he didn't stop. I said it loud but when I told him afterwards, he said he didn't hear me. I cried afterwards b/c it hurt so bad. Is it my fault? I didn't want to do it... I feel gross. What do you think?
xoxo Alyssa* (link)
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its not totally ur fault..but next time something hurts, and if the guy doesnt respect what u want, especally if u called out, OUCH STOP IT HURTS...he BETTER stop, or thats considered rape..u should be mad at this guy...ofcourse he heard u..he just said he didnt as an excuse......try not to ever have sex with this guy again..that was messed up how he didnt stop when u wanted him to...next time, if he really didnt hear u...push him off of u...
luv kristin
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ok, well i just told this guy that i don't want to date him for a while cuz i want to be alone, and he kinda took it the wrong way and i don't know what to do about it, cuz he acts like he doesn't even want to be my friend anymore, and then the guy who i really want to be with, well i dunno if he likes me or not, it really sucks how i feel!! what should i do? please help me! (link)
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the guy u kinda laid off is acting that way cause he got rejected!!!!!!! hes prolly hurting and hes covering it up by acting like he doesnt care and doesnt wanna be ur friend nemore..thats okay, he'll get over it...but if u dont like him in that way u gotta tell him that the next time he tries to get back with u..as for the guy you like...flirt with him, but not tooo much where it scares him off.......dont tell him u like him until he starts flirting with u back!!! love kristin
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Hey..I'm only 14, and a girl. Lol. Well, I have a lot going on in mii life, I have had three boyfriends, and I am pretty good in school, but when it comes to makeup, I need help. I know that I look fine and everything, but when I do make up, I hate the results..does anyone have any good tips? I mean mii make-up doesn't look horrible, I just want to look better, but I don't seem to be any more pretty. Thanks! ;-) Katie (link)
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ya know what helped me? i asked a good friend of mine who does her make up really good to do mine...after she puts it on u acouple times, ull eventually start copying tha way she does it, and then itll look really good afterawhile of practicing!! good luck, kristin
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I really like this guy,
but he likes my friend... i told him like 100 times i liked him but he dont care.. he just keeps on focusing on my friend you see..
he wont even spend time with me like hang out and get 2 know each other more.. than how he started liking my friend in the first place.. what do i do! i like him so much! i cant stop liking him or thinking about him (link)
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thats really hard...u cant make some1 like u, im sure u know that..maybe u should try and forget about him...i know thats really hard to do..but always u gotta be a good friend and kinda stay outta their way, cause im guessing she likes him too, even if she doesnt admit it to u...but when a guy likes a gurl usually the gurl likes him back..so try and stay clear from that!!! love kristin
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I've been going out with my boyfriend for a couple months and I very much enjoy kissing him. The problem is, he always makes the first move. Out of all of my boyfriends, I've never made any first moves or anything. I want to just try something new and make my boyfriend realize I'm spontaneous, sexy and not shy. Any kissing techniques I could use on him? I really don't want to come off like I'm trying too hard, but I need help to get over this shy thing I have with my own boyfriend! (link)
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ive told this to manii other ppl who have asked kinda the same question...nibbling on his ear really works...dont bite it or nething like that..hardly use ur teeth, just gently suck on his ear lobe..he will love that..and itll make him see ur sexi side..love kristin
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I'm going to be a freshman this year, and last year i fell in love with a guy who isn't going to my highschool, but i won't go into details about that. anyway, i don't want a bf this year at all like ever ever ever, but like i don't want guys to think i'm mean or anything, and i don't want to hurt anyones feelings. can i just say no with out guys getting all pi$$ed off? (link)
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ofcourse u can say no =]...as long as your totally nice and kool about it, and not seem stuck up and better than every guy that asks u out...if a guy asks u out just be like, "to be honest...im really not looking to be in a relationship right now...=]" and be really nice and sweet about it...good luck, kristin
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hey im going to the movies with this guy i really like and he likes me too...we hold hands, make out n kiss n stuff like that all the time but we dont go out because we dont see eachother enough to be bf/gf...so we are kinda friends with benefits but we act like we go out...heres the problem...its so boring just kissing and holding hands all the time..i like him sososos much but i wanna do this to turn him on..im scared to kiss his neck bc hes taller then me and i dont wanna mess up n slober on him! ew!..so in the movies i want to do something with him but not handjobs or nothing because i dont wanna seem slutty or easy...wat can i do to get him horny and turn him on n posibly give him a boner? (link)
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while u 2 are sitting down, nibble on his ear alittle bit, DONTTTT bite it tho..lol like hardly use your teeth..suck on it lightly, and he will really really really really like that...
love kristin
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Ive had the same boyfriend for about a year and 6 months and lately there hasnt been much time for us to spend together. He left for a week to go to some soccer camp, then he went to an afternoon camp that ran for a week from 4:30 till 8. And now hes started varsity soccer which is gonna cut into the time we spend together. He practices 4 hours a day and his mom invites his friends over all the time which leaves me with about a day a week to see him. I dont think this is fair. And for a week i was sick with mono which he gave to me...and he didnt bother to call or send me flowers like my other friends did. I dont know what to do with him any more...any suggestions? (link)
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honestly, I think you should break up with him..."EASIER SAID THAT DONE.."...I know...but you got MONO, from him, and he did absolutly nothing to suppOrt yOu or make you fEel happy like a bOyfriEnd shOulD dOo to his giRl..im sure youve heard all this kinda stuff be4, like ur bf should pamper u, wanna spend time with you, eTc...soo as hard as it sounds id break up with him..and i could guEsS that he'll run baCck tO yOu and rEalize whut he lOst..gOoOoDluCcCK
loVe kRIstin
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ok, ive had the samw bf for a year and things are kinda gettin old. We make out alot and i blow him and such...he does return the favor, luckly. But i wanna know how to spice things up..u no so its not so borring...i rate well so plz answer! (link)
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maybe you should try like adding in other "things" while giving him head n stuff. like maybe pour some chocolate syrup on it and suck it like that..when he fingers u, spice it up by letting him stiCk other "things" in you...u can figure out those "things" lol..i dunno maybe those would make it lEsS bOring?
hOpE thiS hELpZz..lOvE kRiStIn
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Hello! I was wondering if any of you know any good home remedies to get rid of pimples, besides toothpaste. Thanks! (link)
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this is gunna sound SO FUCKING WEIRD...lol..BUT a way to get rid of pimples, is putting a small amount of ur piss on it..like pee alittle bit on a ball of tolet paper and put it on ur pimples..not alot at all..i know that sounds fucking NASTY!!!! but it might work.
kRiSTiN
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my friends are super skinny and i feel left out cause all the guys are like in love with them and they dont pay atteintion to me at all :( do you think i need to lose weight or just ignore them like ive been doing forever im 5'4" 135 lbs :(
and im 14 yrs old please help any advice is good advice (link)
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i know how u feel totally!!! all my friends are like these tiny lil thingz..listen, i think that maybe, for YOURSELF ONLY..u should try getting down to 130 or maybe even alil less...ONLY because at ur age and ur height, thats the weight u should be...but that SO doesnt mean ur fat at all!!! dont get down about that typa stuff.. i know soooo manii guyz that go for "thick" girlz...ya know who have "ass" n stuff..if ur gunna loose weight, do it for urself and no1 else. okay? if u need more help leave one in my inbox!!!
love kristin =]
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Well, I'm new here...actually, I only signed up so that I could ask you this question. I am a singer and I need to know if you know how to make your voice stronger and sound better on high notes because all my high notes start cracking up. Thank you! (link)
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I think that maybe you should take the classical approach by training with a teacher that has you sing opera. This is because opera is the center of singing, just like piano is the center of instruments..Opera will teach you how to support, how to stand, and hit those high notes clearly and beautifully. find one asap!!!
hope i helped,
love kristin
p.s. this will also help your pop and belt voice stronger..
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i have a boyfriend who means the world to me. but some people are telling him that i flirt with this other boy.. but i dont!! he is like me best friend and i have never thought of him as being anything more than a friend to me. some of my friends say he likes me but i def dont like him at all. my boyfriend thinks i do .. but i dont know how to prove it to him that i dont! (link)
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hm..maybe since alota ppl are telling u that u flirt with that guy, etc, that u really are flirting with him but u dont see it ya know? like i know when i was with my [ex] bf and when he had a REALLY close friend as a girl i would always see them flirting and it hurt me alot almost to the point where id break up with him cause i thought he liked her..u and ur bf are prolly closer than that and he wouldnt wanna break up with u, but it prolli hurts him ya know? sometimes we flirt but we dont see it..maybe just act more distant with him..not too much, but just enough so it doesnt seem like u flirt with him..hope this helpz..=]
kristin
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im 14 and my boy friend of 11 month, who is 15 wants me 2 give him a blow job, im scared b.c ive neva dun it b4 and im scared that he will laff and tell his m8s. we realli luv each otha and i dont no wat 2 do. plze help!! (link)
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I wouldnt give him a blow job if i were you. wait untIL YOURE ready...ESPECIALLY if ur scared hes gunna laugh and run and tell his lil stupid ass friendz. thats not love
~kristin
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Hi, MFS here again...
This is not really a question, but a request...
Can we please stop it with the "I rate" and "Rate me!" crap? Are getting ratings THAT important to you? Does it somehow make your life complete? This site isn't a game, people... ratings are not for keeping score. There is no competition - just advice. The ratings are supposed to be for keeping the bad advice off the site, much like we have the moderators in place to help keep the really bad questions off the site.
I mean, when I see a question that says "I rate!" in the body or even subjet of it, it just screams "OMG! PLEASE PAY ATTENTION TO ME!!!!!!" It is getting kind of pathetic, as we're seeing it ALL THE TIME!
Let's give it a rest. (link)
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ill rate u really well if u answer this next question pleaseee im desperate!!!
ahhaha jkjk..i totally agree with u it gets old seeing that on every persons question/answer
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I'm 15 years old and I'm pregnant. I don't know what to do and who to turn to. I've only had sex once with my boyfriend and I took a couple pregnancy tests, which all came out positive. No one knows about it and I'm so scared. My parents will be so disappointed in me, it'll kill me and they'll probably make me get an abortion. I'm also scared my boyfriend is going to leave me because of it. What should I do? I really need help. (link)
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go straight to planned parenthood..i wouldnt tell ur bf just yet if ur 2 scared that he'll leave u...its going to be alright. but im telling you, goto planned parenthood..they have the nicest ppl there u will ever meet and they will do everything to help you..its going to be okay tho. ill pray for you..if u need more help come to me im here..
love kristin
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