i have a boyfriend who means the world to me. but some people are telling him that i flirt with this other boy.. but i dont!! he is like me best friend and i have never thought of him as being anything more than a friend to me. some of my friends say he likes me but i def dont like him at all. my boyfriend thinks i do .. but i dont know how to prove it to him that i dont!
dancergal1024 answered Friday August 6 2004, 5:23 pm: you should tell him that your friend is only a friend and that you would never do anything to hurt him(your boyfriend) and that you would never do anything with your friend [ dancergal1024's advice column | Ask dancergal1024 A Question ]
BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Friday August 6 2004, 5:10 pm: Sit him down and be all serious. Just tell him the truth and be like "You're my boyfriend and you mean the world to me, you really do, and I know people are telling you that I'm flirting with another guy, but I'm not, I don't know what you want me to say for you to believe me, but I'm not flirting with another guy, you're my boyfriend and I wouldn't do that to you. And I knew once I got into a relationship, people were going to pass around rumors, and thats what they're doing, but they're not true, and pretty soon I'm sure I'm going to hear rumors about you too, but I'll just go to you to see if they're true, and if you hear anymore rumors about me, I want you to come to me and ask me if its true or not." Just say something like that. If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox. Good luck and hope this helps!!
Lena answered Friday August 6 2004, 3:56 pm: tell him what you just told me! lol and prove to him by makin out wit him ;) that will get his mojo goin =) [ Lena's advice column | Ask Lena A Question ]
PuReLuVeR143 answered Friday August 6 2004, 3:34 pm: hm..maybe since alota ppl are telling u that u flirt with that guy, etc, that u really are flirting with him but u dont see it ya know? like i know when i was with my [ex] bf and when he had a REALLY close friend as a girl i would always see them flirting and it hurt me alot almost to the point where id break up with him cause i thought he liked her..u and ur bf are prolly closer than that and he wouldnt wanna break up with u, but it prolli hurts him ya know? sometimes we flirt but we dont see it..maybe just act more distant with him..not too much, but just enough so it doesnt seem like u flirt with him..hope this helpz..=]
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xO_sTePhIe_Ox answered Friday August 6 2004, 3:27 pm: Your boyfriend needs to realize that you are going to have other guy friends. If he doesn't accept that, that I dont thnk your relationship is going to work out. [ xO_sTePhIe_Ox's advice column | Ask xO_sTePhIe_Ox A Question ]
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