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Question Posted Wednesday August 25 2004, 6:05 pm

ok, well i just told this guy that i don't want to date him for a while cuz i want to be alone, and he kinda took it the wrong way and i don't know what to do about it, cuz he acts like he doesn't even want to be my friend anymore, and then the guy who i really want to be with, well i dunno if he likes me or not, it really sucks how i feel!! what should i do? please help me!

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xo_dream answered Thursday August 26 2004, 10:44 pm:
Just tell him that you're sorry and that you'd still like to be friends.

You shouldn't have told him that you didn't want to go out with him because you wanted to be alone and then start trying to get with another guy .. that's not going to make him too happy .. but anyways.

For the other guy, just flirt with him + talk to him a lot [[ don't go overboard ]], and if he likes you too, things'll happen.

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DanCinNMaMii answered Thursday August 26 2004, 1:58 pm:
Hey, well the guy who took it the wrong obviuosly is sensitive and u shood apologize and make him relize that its ur lyk but dont say it lyk a jerk or something. Be nice n the guy u lyk n u dont noe if he lyks u u shod become frens with him. Hope i help Millie**

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xxoBriannax answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 9:46 pm:
He's a pussy. Just tell him you didn't mean it how you said it, and you want to be friends or something. Good luck.








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mr_frisky_lemur answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 8:36 pm:
I think you should just reassure the guy some more that you just need some time off, and maybe you can date again later after you make it with the guy you really wanna be with.

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PuReLuVeR143 answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 8:16 pm:
the guy u kinda laid off is acting that way cause he got rejected!!!!!!! hes prolly hurting and hes covering it up by acting like he doesnt care and doesnt wanna be ur friend nemore..thats okay, he'll get over it...but if u dont like him in that way u gotta tell him that the next time he tries to get back with u..as for the guy you like...flirt with him, but not tooo much where it scares him off.......dont tell him u like him until he starts flirting with u back!!! love kristin

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XxRockon answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 6:33 pm:
hmm. this happened to me one time too...I think that he is just upset beause he probably really liked you a lot and is sad because you don't want to go out with him. Leeave him alone for a few days and if he is still acting like he doesn't want to be your friend any more, confront him and tell him you hope that still wants to continue the friendship even though you wouldn't want to go out with him right now and that mabe you guys could take it to another level if your feelings change (if u do feel that way) and as for the guy you do like..you'll just have to see how things go with him and see the vibes hes giving you. If you're really daring and you feel like you want to you can ask him wat his feelings are about u. hope i helped!

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DarKAngel answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 6:13 pm:
OKay this is what you should do, you should confront the guy you said you wanted to be alone foe awhile and try to explain what you ment by what you said, now you should just go up to the other guy and strike up a conversation and then when you really know get to know him you could ask him or the way alot of people would do it is by a note those usaly always work, and don't beat your self up about it, b/c in the long run it will hurt you

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