I've been going out with my boyfriend for a couple months and I very much enjoy kissing him. The problem is, he always makes the first move. Out of all of my boyfriends, I've never made any first moves or anything. I want to just try something new and make my boyfriend realize I'm spontaneous, sexy and not shy. Any kissing techniques I could use on him? I really don't want to come off like I'm trying too hard, but I need help to get over this shy thing I have with my own boyfriend!
Sekcbabygyrl007 answered Thursday August 26 2004, 4:58 pm: well... be you..dont try anything new as far as kissing techniques. But its ok to make the first move...especially if you're going out with him. Try something new and plan a nice date ....do something out of the ordinary... but nothing to freak him out. [ Sekcbabygyrl007's advice column | Ask Sekcbabygyrl007 A Question ]
ManDA_Lee answered Thursday August 26 2004, 2:00 pm: well why dont you ask him how he feels about you making the first move. lmao lol. or just suprise him and kiss him.
JuStSuRrEnDeR_x3 answered Thursday August 26 2004, 11:38 am: well u should like take him to someplace romantic .. perhaps the beach or movies ( lol )mabey like a romanic movie .. n when the time is right .. u should french him ( french kiss ) .. ive done that before .. trust me .. u gain alot of confidents .. i hope i was of some help :D [ JuStSuRrEnDeR_x3's advice column | Ask JuStSuRrEnDeR_x3 A Question ]
russianspy1234 answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 10:51 pm: how old are you? you could try doing more than kissing if youre ready for that. if not try kissing him in other places. the nexk is a great place so is the stomache but when you get that low well theres otehr places that are better to kiss. as for kissing techniques, something that makes a kiss alot better is making your toungue and lips taste sweet. gum works for that so do some candies. it really does alot. [ russianspy1234's advice column | Ask russianspy1234 A Question ]
xxoBriannax answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 9:43 pm: Take a shit on his chest, lol, or.. kiss his neck,
SammyPie answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 8:30 pm: When you two hang out or you are out on a date... just randomly and when its least expected, grab him by the shoulders and kiss him. Guys LOVE a spontaneous girl. Or just randomly start running your fingernails on his neck or something. Anything random you do will make your boyfriend realize how sexy and spontaneous you are. Go for it, hunni!
PuReLuVeR143 answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 8:08 pm: ive told this to manii other ppl who have asked kinda the same question...nibbling on his ear really works...dont bite it or nething like that..hardly use ur teeth, just gently suck on his ear lobe..he will love that..and itll make him see ur sexi side..love kristin [ PuReLuVeR143's advice column | Ask PuReLuVeR143 A Question ]
XxSXyKaYlYnXx answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 7:16 pm: Yah WHiLE HEs SiTtin NExt TO yah.. You can kiss his NeCk a couple times itz a sensitve spot .. then LOOk At HIm And MAke YOur MOve IN to Kiss HIm...So THeN Your MAkIN thE 1sT moVe! [ XxSXyKaYlYnXx's advice column | Ask XxSXyKaYlYnXx A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 6:40 pm: Heh. I had that sort of problem with one of my boyfriends. I could never get up the nerve to kiss him on the lips.
When you go to kiss him, try biting his lower lip a little instead. My guy likes that. Just make sure you don't bite too hard, lol.
When/if you french kiss a lot, think of drawing little shapes (like circles, hearts, the infinity symbol) with your tongue.
Those are a couple of ideas/technique/tips. You don't even have to make the first move for the second one. With the first one, you kinda have to.
I'd think it'd be worth dealing with a bit of nerves to see how he reacts to those things, lol.
I hope this helped a bit!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
mysticpixie05 answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 6:36 pm: well dont be shy... instead of him making the first move then you do it before he does one day. or when he kisses you and the kiss is done go in for another one. i dont know how far you want to go with him or anything so thats about all i can tell ya. hope this helped [ mysticpixie05's advice column | Ask mysticpixie05 A Question ]
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