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everybody keeps telling me that there is no suce thing as not big enough for a tampon, but ive tried to put one in and my mom has helped me to put one in but no matter wat we do it wont go in, that really scars me for wen i have sex and stuff... is there some reson it wont go in no matter what i do.. it makes me really nervous about all of this..

i read about something like that on beinggirl.com. some women have to get there opening opened by a doctor. if blood can come out then you have to have some kind of opening, know what i mean. well here's the website..
www.beinggirl.com

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Are being "stretched" and being "loose" the same thing? (down there..) Thanks

yeahh.

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when someone says theyre sprung..what does it mean?

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=sprung

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Is it possible for girls to have wet dreams? because i wake up and theres always clearish gooey stuff in my underwear. Oh, and in school i get it to. what is it? Thank you, i rate high :)

yes, it is possible.

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whats your opinion on a freshman dating a junior?
Please Help all i want is opinions
I RATE!
kthnkxbye

it really depends on what kind of relationship it is. in some cases, the junior takes advantage of freshman. in other cases, its really good... my friends were like that. they were together for god-knows how long but a it took a long time for some people to accept it. (she was 15, he was 16)

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does anyone know where you can buy leg warmers ? like, the kind that ballerinas wear. thanks

my friend got some at aeropostale. i think kohls has them too.

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hey peeps i was just wondering what you think... should a girl tell her b/f if she is taking pregnancy pills?? xoxo i'll rate good for good answers! thanx

"hey hun you wanna meet for dinner?" "umm sure" "by the way, i'm on pregnancy pills..."

that just went through my head. I think you really don't need to share unless you guys are having sex or absolutly need him to know. It won't affect his love for you...might give him a push to get in your pants but no, it's not necessary.

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can people instant message eachother if lets say, one has aim and the other has yahoo instant messager

no. you both have to have the same one, sorry.

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For Christmas my bf got me this necklace. I can't say I am dissapointed, don't get me wrong, I am so happy he got me something! And it is beautiful. The only thing is that it is a little formal. It has dimaonds all over the chain and stuff (I don't think they are real though). But my question is, should I wear it everytime I see him? It is a little formal to wear with a normal outfit like jeans and a tanktop. I wore it to a New Years party and he noticed that I was wearing it cause he said, "oh you are wearing it!" and was playing with it. Should I wear it to school? It just seems a little formal. Do you think he would care if I didn't? I sorta wish he would have gotten me something a little casual.
14/f

show him that you think it's special and only wear on special occasions like anniversaries, formals, special dates...i don't think he would mind.

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how do you make the heart things not like this

& hearts ;

take out the spaces.

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okay .. i'm a 14/f ...5'2-5'3 and 95-100 lbs. i was wondering - how do i lose about 10 lbs ...? i know that i am overweight, so i was wondering if you had any tips? thank you very very much:) ...
-desperatetolose-

ok you are NOT overweight. you could be borderline for UNDERweight. at 14, i was also 5'2-5'3 and I weighed 120...I was healthy and in shape. you don't need to lose any weight!
but if you must lose some (no more than 5 please!!!!!!) cut back on sodas, junk food. drink lots of water, eat a little less and workout. NO MORE THAN 5 POUNDS! it's not healthy!

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You see I am in the 7th grade and turned 13 just a while ago and I have had a crush on this really cute guy at school. His name is hunter and i have liked him since the second day of school. He has already had one girlfriend and he knows i like him but how do i get him to notice me? Help!!
-Gossip_Girl
P.S. you should check out my column but i just didn't have advice on what I should do myself but you are on my favorites list!!!!!!!!!

All you can really do is get to know him as a friend, flirt with him a lot, talk to him then take it from there. don't go out of your way to impress him b/c it's not worth it!
thanks for adding me to your faves! I'll check out your column!

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If some guy says you're both dating, but not officially going out [boyfriend/girlfriend], then does that mean you're single or taken?

I think you are still single.

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Would anyone recommend a tampon brand that fits these requirements:

~easy to get in and take out
~has an applicator
~good for girls who are just starting out on the whole tampon matter.

*brand websites highly welcome*

will rate

do not get cardboard! they're hard to put in!
tampax pearl is good but i haven't found any smaller than a regular where I am... it's really not that big of a difference.

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OK so today i am wearing jeans and my new ugg boots (short, chestnut) should i tuck my jeans into the boots? or have the jeans cover the boots? thanks in advance

I never tuck mine in... I'm not daring enough. but if you like it, do it.

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i've never used a tampon and i haven't had my period yet but does using a tampon feel like sex

let me put it to you this way...most people enjoy sex. using tampons can be a hassle. so probably not.

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ok! i really like this boy and he will be at the same new years eve party as me tomorrow, how should i let him know i like him?

I don't know what your personality is like but for the guys I've been with// hope to be with, I flirt with them for a while then eventually I put it simply and tell them I like them & want to get to know them better.

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Everybody in my life is seeming to find "the one" but i seem to be all alone and if seems as if everybody guys i mean dont like me will i be single forever?

Nope. I haven't found "the one" and I'm sure a lot of people haven't either. no, you won't be single forever. you just gotta wait. there's no rush.

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ok well every January our home school group has a talent show. We have bout 130 people in the group and thier are alot of families that particapate in it. see, i dont really have a talent?!?!? i mean i play piano but so does everybody else! and my family AND my friends all same i am really funny so i thought, stand up comedy? no, what if nobody laughs?!?!? so...singing? (I am a good singer.) but wait, no, what if i hit the wrong note or something? well u get the point, what should i do? anybody got any ideas??? i have no clue so tips would be great...please dont say anything sarcastic like farting through your under arm, i am seriously in need of advice. Merry Christmas

do something funny so if you hit a wrong note it won't make a difference.
well...i was thinking about this last night actually because i would love to participate in a talent show...dance to numa numa. you know the crazy song? ifound a video of these 2 guys doing a dance to it on google. just search "numa numa dance" ... its hilarious. people would really enjoy and upbeat dance. you could also learn the napolean dynomite dance. just have fun with it!

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ok the other day my g/f and i were making out and i dont know what got into me but i stuck my hand down her pants and she didnt like it. she was ok that i put it down there but not too far and one time i think i got a little too far cuz after that she seemed depressed. now i feel like a jerk. afterward she said she sortof liked it but im not sure. wut got into me and how can i make it up to her? by the way im 14.

I think she was just a little uncomfortable. if she had a hugggee problem with it, she probably would have dumped you by now. just make a
"pledge" to control your actions and tell her that when she wants you to, she'll let you know what she wants. you guys should talk about what you want & don't want in the relationship before you get close.

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