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invasion of personal spcae
ok the other day my g/f and i were making out and i dont know what got into me but i stuck my hand down her pants and she didnt like it. she was ok that i put it down there but not too far and one time i think i got a little too far cuz after that she seemed depressed. now i feel like a jerk. afterward she said she sortof liked it but im not sure. wut got into me and how can i make it up to her? by the way im 14.
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Ohh...
Yeah she was probably just nervous.
No big deal. Maybe tell her you got a little too carried away in the moment. and that it will never happen agian with out her permission.
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Its called being horny!! Anyway do something special for her take her out to a romantic play or movie nothing sad or anything. Umm . . . Do something that reminded her of her childhood in a good way like when I was little my dad would take me to the beach and build me a really cool sand castle and I would pretend I was a princess
etc. etc. DO something like that Im sure it will help. Hope I Helped.
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go to her house, and bring her a rose and apoligive in PERSON. and then you need to tell her that you dont think shes fine and ask her what really wrong.
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i bet she liked it, but i also bet she dont feel confortable enough to do that kind of things.
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ummm if i was your gf i would of slapped you lol no affence but thats pretty gross . just be like ok i feel like you changed sence this happened and stuff - just tell her how you feel
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I think she was just a little uncomfortable. if she had a hugggee problem with it, she probably would have dumped you by now. just make a
"pledge" to control your actions and tell her that when she wants you to, she'll let you know what she wants. you guys should talk about what you want & don't want in the relationship before you get close. <3
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whoa buddy youre 14 years old.. slow down. All you can do is apologize, which you've done already. Give her some flowers and candy =]
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You can't control your hormones. I think you guys need to talk about this. It's a good idea to know what you guys are both comfortable with.
♥angela
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if she's not ready to do anything, don't force her. when she's ready, you'll know. tell her you're sorry & that you don't want to pressure her into doing anything. once you tell her that, then you'll know if she's ready & she'll know you respect her feelings.
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you got caught up in the moment..just next time your hangin out keep what happened in mind and dont do that..let her know you dont want to make her feel uncomfortable and your going to back off a bit..so if she liked it and wants you to do it again, she will initiate it. some ideas is flowers,chocolates,just a card you make, letter,poem, something sweet ..but most important..to make it up to her just let her know you got caught up and your sorry you made her feel uncomfortable..etc.
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you should admit to her that iw was ajerky thing to do and say you are so sorry. stuffed animals help there so cute and roses are good 2 i am a girl so i also would know. you should reassure her that you were out of hand and that it will nothappen again unless she wants it 2. hope I helped.
Andie
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Sometimes girls are shy. Like myself, if my boyfriend (if I had one :() were to do something unexpected like that, I would seriously freak out. Him being my boyfriend should know how I would feel when he does certain things, and for you to do that is totally out of order. In the same sense, you need to write her a letter and tell her how much you love her & how sorry you are for putting your hands down her pants. Tell her that you only wanted her to be comfortable around you, and you didn't know how she'd react to it. :)
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well,
like the other person has said sometimes it will make the girl feel uncomfortable.
But you can buy her something to make up for it, but explain to her why you did it and that it was a mistake and it felt wrong. I think if you only get her something, she might feel you are trying to "buy" her back sorta thing. So jus talk to her about it, after all you two should be able to talk about anything.
Sanj
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Hey,
Sometimes doing that kind of stuff will make a girl feel uncomfortable, and i would know cuz i am a girl, and sometimes that pushes it over the edge, so next time your making out with a girl, dont get too in too it unless she is wanting to not just make out but have sex! Give her some flowers and apolijize for bing a jerk!
yours truly ~phooylooy
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