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okay well, last night i went to bed around 145am. stupid right? i woke up at 830am because a friend texted me and i heard it and woke up.

i have school tomorrow and im planning on getting up around 5:45

my bus comes at 7:06.

what can i do so i wake up at that time with no problem? its always a problem for me to fall asleep the first day because i think alot the night of school. help :)!

(ps: if i have to take a pill, tell me really soon because i need to have my mom get it on her way home from work!!) (link)
i'd say u need a pill my sister has them and they work great for her its a sleeping pill talk to your doctor


Okay so this year I partnered myself with my best guy friend Steven. Well over the weekend he told me he liked me, and I've never thought of Steven as more then a friend. [[I have a lot of guy friends because of my past experiences with girl-friends. They all seem to be back stabbers so I've given up.]] I told Steven that I honestly find him a really good friend because I hate it when girls go out with guys just because he likes her it doesn't seem far to them. I thought I was being nice, but he wont leave the subject alone and is leaving notes in our locker which honestly make me feel uncomfortable. I dont know if they'll continue because this is the first day back after knowing he likes me- and I guess Cole knows he likes me, and I told him what he was writing and Cole got mad. [[He's always been amazing to me. I love Cole.] I told Cole not to say anything, but he offered me to move into the locker with him and Mike which Im about to take up because Steven just called and is like "Hey Baby.. you didn't write anything back to the notes I wrote to you.. did you like them?" and I was like Um no. and I dont feel comfortable with you saying those things Steven I dont feel the same way about you. So Steven got mad and I guess Cole did talk to him=\\ and is like You like Cole dont you? Which I might, I've known him for so long but thats none of his buseness. But I was like He's being nicer about this then you are. You know I don't like you so stop with the notes... or I really am gunna move in with him. Which I guess Steven doesn't want but I dont know what would make Steven act this way, Ive known him forever, and he really is my closest guy friend so if someone could explain his hostility to me it would be greatly appreciated. and I guess people are telling me that because Cole offered immediatly for me to move in with him that he likes me which isn't the biggest problem I have at the moment. Stevens bothering me though, telling me I have pretty eyes, and makes me feel awkward and Im afraid Cole and him are gunna get into a fight because you should see the way Cole looks at him=X it kinda scares me. What do I do. Coles the friend that would kill anyone that hurt anyone of his friend, and I dont need them getting in a fight which Cole is debating he told me. and I dont know what to do with Steven. Its the begining of the school year and already this is happening... this is gunna be a fun year.
=X
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I would tell the teacher about this steven guy


i work at a resturaunt so im on my feet all day, wat can i do after work to make them stop hurting and wat can i do to get used to it (link)
Cold water


MUST BE FREEZING


17/F (Soprano) I'm looking for a really upbeat song to sing for an upcoming talent show...some examples of my favorite songs:
We Belong by Pat Benatar
Cry by Faith Hill
& Taking Chances-Celine Dion

I'd prefer it didn't be about love with some dude...I've never been in love and wouldn't relate much to the song...remember: I want something really cheery! thanks. (link)
I got a pocketfull of sunshine


Here's the story. Me and a girl, lets call her Emily, had a thing for each other for about a week. We have totally different personalitys, such as, we dont have A LOT of common things, and she's not really into what i am, but the thing is she still likes me. I called her about 3 times a day.. She thought i was a little annoying, so she told her friend to tell me that i was 'clingy'. I got a little angry.. kinda.. and i kinda made a bet with Emily's friend that i wouldn't talk to her for 3 days.. 3 Day's passed by, and I've ignored every single call/text/IM, that she sent me. I know that was a stupid idea, and now she doesn't like me anymore. Any idea advice someone can give me? I really really need help.. (link)
Well you did say you didn't like and maybe if you re-do like her you should not have iggnored her calls just because of some stupi bet now this is a life lesson now if theres erm.....A girl don't call 100 times a day once a day will do and don't iggnore her calls


15/f does anyone have the env2 phone and how do you like it? does the camera work okay, not having a flash? also - i havn't seen the phone in person, only online, which color looks better in person; the maroon or black? thank you! (link)
I dont have it, but I REALLY WANT IT!
Two of my friends have it, and they love it


Its a really great shape, and easy to text with. Overall, they both said its an extremely great phone and reccommend it. And the cameras pretty good too.


As for color, thats a preference. I would get the maroon, because I like it, but the black is a more "classic" look -- like it could match more. Its a really great phone you should deffinantly get it


Me and my boyfriend had sex. There was a hole in the condom, but he said he didn't cum? Could I be pregnant? (link)
Theres deffinantly a chance
Go buy a pregnancy test to be sure


i'm babysitting these two kids on tuesday, one is a year and a half old, and the other is about 3and a half years old.
this is my first time babysitting so i don't have a rate and i'm almost 15 years old.
how much should i charge per hour?
like 5 or 6$?
thanks (link)
$2.50 per person per hour thats what i charge


I have been babysitting my sisters baby for about 3 months now, for free. How do I ask my sister to start paying me???
from,
Money maker (link)
I would tell her if i watch the baby its gonna cost or i won't do it at all i don't want to work for free no more sorry sis




Hi i have babysat these 2 kids and recently i have been asked to help out at a small party to celebrate their grandparents anniversary..... There will be 6 or 7 kids there between the ages of 1 and 6.... I have like pin the tail on the donkey and a big balloon they can play with but what else can i do to entertain them..... (link)
well for different ages you can set up different things for the age groups the 5 thew 6 years could have a obsticale course and for all them you can have a pinata and a movie


Ok, sooo I babysit two little girls and they are 8 and 9 years old. I'm 14 and they always ask me to bring something fun for them to do. And I don't have things they would like anymore considering I'm 14 !!! Then I always ask them what the wanna do, and they say idk, or ugh I'm sooo bored!!!!


So, any tips on what I can do with them or bring for them to play with???? (link)
ok have you every read the babysitters club books well what the babysitters do is bring kidkits filled with coloringbooks,crayons,books that you can read to them puzzles stuff little kids like


So I took a course on babysitting/kidsitting. I talked to multiple people in my neighborhood about it. Most of them said that if I took it they would hire me. So I took the course but now that I have the certificate nobody will hire me. I am afraid to put up flyers because I heard about how some people call the numbers and pretend they have kids to babysit but then they are like perverts and end up like kidnapping they babysitters. I want a job but noone will hire me. What is a good but safe way to get the word out that I'm certified and avalible to work? (link)
If you still live with your parents then this is what I do I put up some fliers then if someone wants me to watch there kids they have to bring their child to my house so theris parent supervision


what would happen if you were walking on a street drunk but underage? would you get arrested? or have to go to court? (link)
well it all depends on your area.
where i live, you will get cited (getting a citation for drinkinnn) and be charged. this is if your a minor, now if your between 18-21, im not really sure what the rule is, but i know it gets messy. citations, court, fees, all that. my friend (18) got it and it sucked.
so if you are walkin underrage and a police breathalyzes you, that sucks. its rare, and ive never heard of that happening, except in dewey beach (you can get a wwi - walking while intoxicated...EVEN if your 21+)
so as you see, different places have diffeerent areas.
and its illegal to drink in public.


15/F
Okay so there B and D .B i've known ince 5th grade and we've been best friends since we hang out and talk about anything. we also like to sing songs some of them are love songs haha, n D i've known since last year we just talked and stuff and we kinda flirted but then summer came n blah. B n D are friends. Ysterday i hung out wit B and we were walking and hes like i have a question and im like yes an then hes like nevermind i don't want my friendship to be ruined if he likes me because i like D and this year me n D have two classes and i feels like hes like hes stalking me or making me jelous yesterday he talked to me the first time since school started he tlaked me to SHH as a joke
i really am i like in lust with D so what should i do i wanna become closer with D without like using B and i don want B to know i liek D (link)
HUh girl u need to rewrite this because i have no clue on what you just said no offense i would of helped but i didn't understand


16/f
ok so i had a bit of bad razer burn "down there", then it got really itchy and got even worse from me itching it. Then it got kinda irrtated from my sweat and stuff from my soccer preseason. What is the best way i can get rid of this rash? I have been putting baby powder on it, but i need something that will make it go away so i can shave again.
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thats what i got i just wore tight jeans so i would have to un buckle my pants in school and itch but i never did because i was in school and everyone would think i was gross thats why i wore tight jeans


soo i just bought the cutest purple pants..they are really confortable but i dont know what to wear on top..
any ideas?
:) (link)
White Black Purple shirt is fine


i'm 16 and about to start my jr. year in high school.my whole life i've played sports everything from tennis,soccer,basketball, and lacrosse.i had this dream ever since i can remember to play a sport in college and to repersent the U.S. on a national team.i've been playing lacrosse for three years now and i want to play in college D1 or D2 i also want to be on the U.S. 19 and under team for women's lacrosse but i don't know how to get there or the people to talk to about following my dreams.my city just got lacrosse as a sport so we aren't that good and our coaches don't really know the game so we don't win a lot.on the bright side i'm really good at and lacrosse and it saved my life so not playing in college would be like not living.everyone that i've talked too has told me that i can't play lacrosse at a D1 or D2 college bc i come from a bad team and they think i'm not good enough.but they are wrong i have the drive the heart and talent to play at this leave bc i've played against girls who went D1 and D2 and had no problem scoring or defending them.i'm scared that coaches will not even consider me for their team because my team is really really bad.i don't want to give and i know i won't but i need to know who i should talk to so i can follow my dreams.i think that sometimes coaches in college may over look bad teams even though there might be a few players on the team that could make and break records,win NCAA titles and become all-americans if they were ever given the chance too.i play on a travel team during the fall and summer and scouts are there but i need to know how else i can get coaches to see me for the player that i am and not my high school team's games.(please help me,everyone has dreams and not everyone follows them.i don't want to be the person that makes that same mistake) (link)
I am the same. I reaaallyy want to plya field hockey d1 in college.
Maybe your team isnt that good, but do you have potential? Sounds like it. Even more crucial -- you have a GREAT attitude. Motivation is soo key.
Basically, if your not in the top 5%, or live in an area that is good (like in my area the top 10% gets recruited for field hockey because were good), you just wont be recruited. And, if your on a bad team, NO recruiters will go to your games.
So, what you have to dois get your name out there. You will have to apply to lots of schools, and send in videos, letters, reccomendations from coaches. Basically prepare a dvd and make like 10 copies, write a stellar letter basically saying what you just said>>your passion is actually so great. Mention potential and your drive and such. Then reccomendatoins. I alsooo dont know if your talking about your school team or a club team. If your talking about your school team, JOIN A CLUB TEAM!!! This way, youll have two reccomendations. If your already on one, join another (if your not on a school one). Having two letters from coaches is extremely impressive. Winter leagues help you get really good (oh yeah fyi I play lax too I'm pretty serious).


But most of all, go http://www.collegesportsscholarships.com/
this website helped me so frickin much. It answers everyyy question, and was just such a help for me to start thinking about playing in college.
Check out the timeline here... its important. But basically every link on this website is so great


Good luck and I reeaally do hope you play in college!
:)


sorry if that N word spell wrong let say unpostive, I mean my friend is good friend. but sometiems way she talks and way she repeones to me sound not postive and sometimes. and i want to know how i can not let it get to me and not let her negtive infunince on me..sorry bad spelling. hope someone get what i am saying (link)
well maybe she isn't your true friend find out if shes your true friend bye having a group of friends together and you go hide and sees if your missing bye going to look for you

P.S. Don't tell anybody else about your plan


Hi i'm like 14, so anyways, yeah I am so bored i have dsl & I have only a few webs i know of that are SAFE/ FUn! So like do you know of any cool teen girly websites similar to stardoll, then please let me know! (link)
myspace.com
friendshack.com
howrse.com
girlslife.com
myyearbook.com
aol.com


Hello there,

Please stop the one line answers. If you don't have something to contribute, please don't.

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=548626

This:

"Do you care for him and want to protect him"

... doesn't make sense, really, and the question is very serious. It is worth more than a one line answer.

Thank you.

DN.

P.S. Please reject this question after you have read and understood it. No answer required. (link)
I mean if you care for him and want to protect him then you trullay love him thats what love mean doesn't it




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