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nice freind but negtive
sorry if that N word spell wrong let say unpostive, I mean my friend is good friend. but sometiems way she talks and way she repeones to me sound not postive and sometimes. and i want to know how i can not let it get to me and not let her negtive infunince on me..sorry bad spelling. hope someone get what i am saying
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Energy affects everyone, positive or negative. Life is too short to waste on truly negative people. This does not mean that you need to ignore a friend who has the occasional bad vibe or is going through something and has the blues. Everyone goes through those times, but not everyone lives for them. Some people will leech onto you and suck out the positive and fill you only with bad thoughts. Yuck. None of us can withstand that influence for long, and someone that poisonous will eventually bring you down. Get some space from this person and see if you feel better. That may be a sign to move in that direction.
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well maybe she isn't your true friend find out if shes your true friend bye having a group of friends together and you go hide and sees if your missing bye going to look for you
P.S. Don't tell anybody else about your plan
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If you are a true friend and you do deeply care about her, you would tell her how you feel. That you don't feel that her negativity isn't doing well for the both of you. But in a nice manner, and don't doubt yourself.
The best time to tell her is when you are casually out somewhere with nothing big going on and you say " -name- I really need to talk to you about something that is bothering me."
I know what it must be like because I myself am a negative person and even my best friend told me because she is like a sister, whom is honest. But I respected her more that she would stand up and tell me so because I didn't really notice.
Your friend may not even notice either.
If she gives you a hard time then you need to make her understand with a reason. Like WHY it makes you feel upset or HOW it affects you, especially seeing she is your best friend. Best friends are honest with each other.
And after all you've done she still doesn't understand, maybe you should go separate ways. But I think if you follow what I told you to do, she'll understand because she probably doesn't notice it.
-KD/f/15
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