k, well i have red hair. & im thinking about getting streaks in my hair. or something like that. what would you recommend? i rate high!
brown streaks or black would look cute.. ♥ Dez
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Well, here's the story. I'm 14 Female. My friend moved to my town a couple years ago. She visits her old town often, so she brought me with her one time in the summer. It was REALLY fun, we hung out at her old friend's house. And this kid was there. All of us hung out all day. I like the kid that was there, and I have liked him since that night. We talk online every once in a while, and I've talked to him on the phone a few times. It seemed like he liked me from the way we talk to eachother, but I don't know. That was in the summer, and it's October! He lives about 45 minutes away, which is not too bad. I REALLY like him, but I don't know what to do. My friend says it totally sounds like he likes me, but nothing's happening. Also, like, if he asked me out or something, do you think it would work? (him living 45 minutes away?) It would be far to drive just to hang out. I don't know exactly what I'm asking, but if you have any advice, it would be great?
Hey hun..*
Usually long distance in a relationship isn`t good or healthy for a relationship.. try staying friends.. I understand you like him but if it`s a problem to see him then thats a major problem right there.. you`d want to see the person your with as often as possible.. maybe thats why this guy hasn`t asked you out cuz he`s thought bout all that..
But if it isn`t a problem to see him even tho he lives 45 minutes away then try gettin with him.. but you`ve made it sound like its a problem..
I highly doubt it`ll work out tho.. sorry to disapoint you hun.. ♥ Dez
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okay uhm. my breath always smells! i brush my toungue use mouthwash and all how come it always smells like crap
go see a dentist.. chew gum or use tick tacks during the day.. ♥ Dez
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i died my hair and it was suppose to be dark brown but it came out as dark dark black.. my natural hair is black but my hair now looks 10 times worse ...my question is what can i do to make it lighter again... if i die it again will it work ? and
try getting a dark blonde it isnt going to turn blonde but it should deff lighten it up.. iv'e had this happen.. ♥ Dez
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I have wavy hair and i hate to straighten it any advice on how to do it nice every day before school(which means it has to be quick)with out straightening it
Easy 5 for any advice at all!!!
wear it up in a messy bun.. scrunch your wavy hair with gel.. ♥ Dez
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Can a person's breasts be done growing by the age of thirteen? just curious
I guess its possible but they might grow a little bit more.. ♥ Dez
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HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I think I might be getting my period and I'm really scared! I started off having just a little bit of disscharge about three years ago, now its getting thicker and thicker. Am I getting my first period, if not should I have a gynecological exam?
Thank You!!!!!!!!!!!
Yes your going to be staring your period.. don`t be scared every female gets it.. just always be prepared and have something on you.. carry a purse with pads.. ♥ Dez
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ok, theres this boy i like and he knows i like him, and im pretty sure he likes me back, put its not definite. How can i ask him in a suddle way if he likes me? i have some ideas but theyre not very good....smartasses will be reported!
ps: i rate
i would write a letter and ask,or text messaging or over the net.. but i would feel uncomfortable askin over the phone or in person.. but if you feel convedent enough to do it that way then go for it.. ♥ Dez
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what does it mean when people say stuff like "oh were in the ghetto or oh were in the projects"?!?!?
Ghetto is a run down neighborhood.. where there is alot of drug use,shootings,violence and stuff.. projects is like an apartment complex where its cheap rent and pretty fucked up.. alot of people like to say its black people neighborhoods which yea majority of black people live in the ghetto but there is some where mexicans and white people live also.. ♥ Dez
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Everyone's asking questions about cutting. Do they mean that they're literally taking knives and cutting their flesh? If not, what do they mean then? If so, why the hell would they do that? It makes no sense.
Yes they actually cut theirselfs.. i don`t understand it either or why they do it.. personally i think its some crazy white people stuff.. *thats coming from a white girl so its not a racist comment*.. i think some people do it for attention i don`t thing it has anything to do with makin em feel better or whatever.. ♥ Dez
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Flirting...wow i am soo confused what flirting is and what some examples of flirting are...could anyone help me out please?
Flirting is doing things so that a guy or girl will like you and let them know they like you.. usually people do lil like love taps by like horse playing or something.. also doing things for them would let them know you like them.. coplimenting is a good way to go also.. ♥ Dez
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I have been working out like a lot latley, like on average an hour of cardio everyother day along with kickboxing and other things. I just started my period and I feel and look like I havnt done anything, could this be a result of my period?
thanks:) I'll rate high
Yes it could be because of your period.. like usually a female get s cravings while being on their period and eat junk foods or something that deff is going to make you gain weight.. but i would think cuz you work out pretty often you shouldn`t have a problem.. just watch your weight.. and watch what you eat.. ♥ Dez
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ok i am 18 and i live with my sister (well freind who is so close she is practically a sister) and her fiance. now the two of them are always having sex. like she and i will be playing cards and he asks her to come upstairs. well she comes back like a half hour to an hour later and i knew they were having sex cuz i could hear them. there is no way to drown them out b/c i dont have a cd player and we dont have a tv. and they are so loud i can hear them throughout hte whole house and many times outside the house. it is kinda disturbing, because they go at it multiple times a day, and not even give a shit that i am in the house and am forced to listen to them b/c i don;t have anything else to do. what am i supposed to do? what can i do to block them out or how can i tell her that them having sex is so annoying for me to hear them all the time. its almost as if she is rubbing it in my face that she can have sex b/c i swear they are loud on purpose. and i am a virgin so it is like she is saying "haha i can have sex and you arent". am i reading into this wrong? how can i confront her aobut it? what should i say? please help me out. i am so sick of hearing them having sex.
Yes telling her that its annoying would be a good thing to do gosh..
you should just be like hey can you be more quieter or atleast respect that i live here too..
tell her how its very disturbing and really bothers you and makes you uncomfortable..
♥ Dez
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Me and my friend Paul are practically brother and sister! We've always been tight but over the summer it seemed as if we were getting feelings for eachother that werent normal 'friendly' feelings. He invited me everywhere with him. We went to the beach to watch fireworks, i joined him for dinner, and almost every weekend we hung out at his house watching the stars and talking. i never feel uncomfortable around him and i can tell him anyhing. Were both strong christians and believe that God will lead us in the direction we need to go. But I just dont know ...
is this Love? :-\
Awww thats so cute and good to hear..Sounds like your in love with the guy to me.. ♥ Dez
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Do creams for stretch marks actually work (like, get completely rid of the stretch marks?)If not, then do they fade them even?
If so for those two, which kind would you recommend and whats the price?
Coco butter does.. it doesnt cost that much a couple dollars and you can get it at any store.. walgreens or whatever.. ♥ Dez
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okay im 14 and im a girl. lately i have been wanting a boy friend more than anything! i know im pretty and i like a few people but i dont know if they like me i really want a boyfriend and i wanna do stuff with them what is wrong with me how can i get one faster? and no dumb people and no oh your too young or time will come
Well seriously hun you don`t want to jump into a relationship fast it might just rush into a broken heart and all girls can tell you it sucks.. You should give yourself time *i know you said don`t bring that up but i`m just lettin you know*.. you should always have standards in what you want in a guy and keep those standards and don`t just go for anybody who comes your way.. you should probably start out as friends with a guy before actually doing stuff with them cuz you could do something simple like a kiss on a cheek and a guy could say they had sex with you.. i`m just lettin you know about reality.. if you rate me low thats fine.. or if you don`t rate me at all thats fine too.. ♥ Dez
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Should I be mad if three guys bet on me saying I bet she'll say no to you when they ask you out or she'll say ya to me, and I knew them all as friends and stuff? I rate high, thanx.
I would be pretty mad too.. so i think you have every right to be pissed off.. ♥ Dez
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what is a good way to start talking to someone who you like and you think that person likes you too. im sometimes really shy.
Just ask him whats up? ask about things you know he does like maybe a sport or something you know he enjoys.. ♥ Dez
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I had my period for two years not and it still doesnt come every month. Like when i do sports i never have it but over the summer i have. Is this normal? Im a 14/f. I asked my mom and she says its normal but my friends started last year and they have theirs every month. Do i need to get it chech or am I worring about nothing.
Thanks For the HELp
Your worrying about nothing.. Playing sports will cause you to not to have a period it`s healthy.. No worries.. ♥ Dez
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ok im a 16 year old girl... im not gonna be having sex anytime soon, but am i suppossed to shave "down there" even if no one will see it? and how much are u suppossed to shave?
Shaving down there is your personal decision.. it`s not something *you have to do*.. you can shave if you are more comfortable with it.. Some girls shave just their bikini area so when they wear a bathing suit you don`t see pubic hair which is kinda embarrassing.. some shave it for when they have sex like *oral sex* that way when a guy does that to a female it isnt hairy and nasty *who would eat something hairy eewwyy lol* but some girls also shave it all or most just cuz their guy their sexually active with likes it or just its more comfortable for them and it looks nicer.. just like shaving yout legs its just more lady like and its for hygene reasons.. but you don`t have to shave that area or anywhere you don`t want to.. if you need tips on shaving that area please feel free to leave it in my inbox.. ♥ Dez
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