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Well the title pretty much says it all.
I've come back from uni for the summer and I was tidying up the spareroom and found a tape in the machine. So i know it probably wasn't right of me to watch it but it turns out it was porn! I looked in one of his draws and there's like 7 tapes in there!
I really don't know what to do, I want him to stop doing it. But i don't know what to say to anyone? Or whether i should say anything at all?
I don't think it would bother me so much if he wasn't over 65!!!!!!!!!!!! It's disgusting!! And it's really on my mind loads.
we are moving house soon, so i was thinking maybe i could 'misplace' them in a bin somewhere and he wouldn't notice?
thanks in advance... (link)
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Hi there,
I know this has probably turned into something you wish you hadn't started at all by asking this question, but I hope you will not mind this input.
Put as shortly as possible with no personality issues:
He is your Dad.
I know you have a problem with him doing this, but I have to ask one simple question: Is it worth ruining your relationship over?
I know the first thought I would have if this were a debate would be: "But HE is doing it, not me!"
I understand. The real crux of the matter is this: He doesn't have a problem with it, but you do. This makes it a problem that belongs to you.
Now, you can choose to share that problem with your dad, but you risk making him never think the same way about you again.
Do you wish you could "un-know" what you know? He would always wish he could "un-know" that you know if you share your problem with him.
The other thing to consider is the age issue. It is entirely possible that he has been doing this longer than you have been alive. If he is addicted to porn, I don't know that you saying something would help. Maybe it would, and maybe it would push him further away from you. There is no way to know without trying it, and it will be an expensive experiment if it goes badly. :-(
I hope you decide what to do from the perspective that between the two of you... you are the one who has a problem with the idea, not him. I also hope that if you share this with him, you do so in a loving way, and not in a "you are so disgusting!!!!!!!!!" way.
If you just happen to "lose" his items, he will get more. This is a fact that you should know before you decide to do that. So, it wouldn't really do anything beside make him mad, and perhaps let him know that you know.
Please think carefully before you decide what to do.
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I sent you an email just now about the questions I wanted deleted.
Just reminding you as you told me to do. =]
Thanks. (link)
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Done(ish.) A response is required. Check your e-mail please.
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I have a few questions I've deleted on my list of questions page, but when I search "more questions from this user" from one of my questions, it shows the questions I thought I deleted.
Is there any way you can delete them? I don't want to put the question links on here, because they're embarrassing questions from my past from my immature days, if you remember.
I can send you an email with the question links if you want me to.
Thanks. (link)
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I understand. Boy do I EVER remember. ;-)
Now, this is why we tell you NEVER to put your unsername in a question.
If you send me an e-mail, you will have to also inbox me to let me know it is there.
This is a one time thing, so make sure you have your list complete. Also, I will only be deleting ones that have your username in the question. Make sense?
Thanks,
DN.
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Hey DN,
I posted a question on the mod descussion about those little green check marks,
they are appearing sometimes when i havnt rated a question was just wondering why this is?
=]
Thank you.
Jess (link)
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Answered.
If you can find another possibility, I am open to it.
Thanks,
DN.
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I am going to cuba in July. I don't want to spent over 750 dollars. Need all inclusive good meals Free alchohol enough food beachfront close to the airport (30-45 min away) Where do you reccomend. What resort????? (link)
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Traveling to Cuba on a budget seems to be very popular these days. Sadly, nobody here has been, apparently, judging by the length of time this has been posted here.
The same advice I gave you in your other question on picking between two resort hotels would apply just as well to trying to find an overall CHEAP Cuban Resort vacation which is all inclusive.
Here is a link to the TripAdvisor Cuban travel forum:
http://www.tripadvisor.com/ShowForum-g147270-i91-Cuba.html
... Happy traveling!
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Which resort is better and why...Hotel Villa Cuba or palma Real. Both in Varadero Cuba??? (link)
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Hi there,
I am guessing nobody here has been to Cuba based on how long your other question has been sitting unanswered.
While I can't say much about Cuban resorts, especially the Hotel Villa or the Palma Real, I can point you in the right direction:
Tripadvisor.com's Cuba travel forum looks like a great place to get any kind of help you would need in making decisions for a resort hotel in Cuba:
http://www.tripadvisor.com/ShowForum-g147270-i91-Cuba.html
Enjoy whichever Cuban resort hotel you decide on. :-)
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http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=160813
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=162345
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=162349
Those questions say that there are two answers, when I only see mine.
Is this from the account where old questions are put?
Thanks. (link)
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Hello there,
There are occasions where an answer was deleted and the number of answers gets out of sync. There are also times when a user has been banned, and their answer is hidden until the ban is lifted. Lastly if you have your threshold set to 3 and the user either doesn't have enough ratings to have an average yet, or has a rating below 3, you will not see their answer(s.)
Thanks for the alert. I will see about building a script to re-sync the proper numbers. Should be interesting.
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I am working on my friends 1996 accord ex.He has a problem with the power locks not working they sound like they want to inguage but no go.Even with the remote does not work. I took the passenger side door switch over to the driver side to see if it was the switch but still the same I can hear a noise from what I think is the door actuater on driver door when you hit the button at first sounds loud like trying to work then gets faint as you continue to hit the button almost like loosing electrical juice. If you give it a rest and start over then again sounds loud then gets lower in sound. So I am lost any ideas or hints as to what is going on please help ! (link)
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Hi there,
Well, by using the remote you bypass the switches altogether. Some cars this age will have a central lock control unit for the power door-locks. The 1996 Honda Accord is probably no different. Odds are it is in the driver's door. of your car.
Have a look at your wiring diagram, and see where that control unit is. If you don't have a book with a wiring schematic for your 1996 Honda Accord, you are going to want to get one.
If you check the central lock control unit and it is good (just because it clicks doesn't mean the contacts are good) then trace the wiring on both sides of the locking unit to see if you can find a damaged wire.
Once you have the wiring diagram for the locks in your Accord, you can see which wires you can use to send current directly to the door actuators themselves. If you send a known good current there and nothing different happens, pull a door panel on the passenger side where you first noticed the issue with your door locks, and apply known good current to the door lock actuator itself.
If you have a solid lock/unlock cycle, then you need to look at the wiring between the lock actuator and the central locking unit. Remember, we already sent known good power to the door while bypassing the central locking unit, so we know the central locking unit isn't at fault.
If you don't get a solid lock/unlock cycle, then it is time for you to consider shopping for some 1996 Honda Accord door lock actuators. :-(
Beyond this, I don't know what to tell you. Electrical never seemed to be Honda's strong suit, so gremlins are to be expected from time to time. You may need to let someone who really knows their Hondas have a look at it.
Also, please consider posting in the Honda Accord Owner's forum / Fan Club:
http://www.driveaccord.net/forums/index.php
... where just about every piece of helpful information for every Accord Honda ever built is readily available.
Happy Honda-fixing!
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I am having to make a decision about whether or not I stay in my relationship with my boyfriend of just over a year. To clear my head I wrote down the good points and the bad points. Could anyone take a look at this list and tell me what they think - does the good outweigh the bad or vice versa? Are any of the 'goods' enough to keep me with him, or are any of the 'bads' indications that I have to end it? What do you think?
Thanks
GOOD
It is comfortable.
I understand him absolutely.
He understands me absolutely.
I need him in my life.
He loves me and finds me sexy.
He never looks at other girls.
I can tell him anything.
He is my best friend.
I don’t think I will ever find the connection I have with him with anyone else.
He is willing to work for our relationship.
BAD
The sex is not satisfying.
He irritates me.
I have little respect for him.
I often dislike him.
He doesn’t know how to touch me.
I am jealous of him.
I think he is arrogant.
I don’t find him sexy.
His self-importance frustrates me.
I want him to be more subtle and mature.
He thinks he is wonderful.
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Hi there,
I just stumbled across this and had to wonder why nobody pointed this out simply: A greater percentage of the "BAD" things on your list are things that are your perceptions, or your insecurities.
Example: "I am jealous of him." = I would be happier with someone more mediocre.
With this in mind, and knowing that a little time has gone by, would you leave some feedback and tell me what happened?
It sounds as though you had almost a hatred for him. If that is accurate, then the best thing in the world would have been to free him to find someone who doesn't secretly loathe him.
Looking forward to hearing from you.
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well, i have this one matchbox baby and i was wondering if anyone has one that i could buy for up to five dollars??? i looked on ebay and there are none
to see the ones that i like
just google images matchbox babies and it should be the first photo, and the description should be something like " my nieces collection" (link)
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Hi there,
It is unlikely that anyone here has any of the matchbox baby dolls that you are looking for. They are actually pretty rare.
For anyone else that reads this and wants to see the picture, here is a direct link to it:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/suedehead/2693347352/
Some helpful hints for finding these in the future:
They have several names:
There was a famous one of these dolls named "Baby William" and now many people refer to them ALL as "Baby Williams" or "The Baby William" doll.
Fiammiferini
Tiny Matchbox Dolls
Pierino
Matchbox beanies
And don't forget that "matchbox babies" becomes "matchbox baby" if they only have one for sale which is important when searching places like eBay.
With that in mind, I spent a while developing a custome search for you so you can always check eBay for these rare dolls. Here it is:
http://shop.ebay.com/items/?_nkw=%28matchbox%2CPierino%2CFiammiferini%2C%22Baby+Williams%22%2CBaby+William%22%2C%22doll+in+a+box%22%2C%22in+a+matchbox%22%2C%22matchbox+beanie%22%29%2B%28baby%2Cbabies%2Cdoll%2Cdolls%2Cbeanie%2Cbeanies%29+-%28car%2Ccars%2Cdiana%2Ccharles%2Cmatchbox20%2C%22matchbox+20%22%29&_sacat=0&_trksid=p3286.m270.l1313&LH_AvailTo=1&LH_IncludeSIF=1&_odkw=%28matchbox%2CPierino%2CFiammiferini%2C%22Baby+Williams%22%2CBaby+William%22%2C%22doll+in+a+box%22%2C%22in+a+matchbox%22%2C%22matchbox+beanie%22%29%2B%28baby%2Cbabies%2Cdoll%2Cdolls%2Cbeanie%29+-%28car%2Ccars%2Cdiana%2Ccharles%2Cmatchbox20%2C%22matchbox+20%22%29&_osacat=0
... remember to always go through all pages since new things are on eBay all teh time. There is no easy way to eliminate the rest of the things that show up in the search, so you will just have to page through them and look for the ones you like.
Happy matchbox baby hunting!
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Its the google photoeditor you can download
I've been using this editor (Picasa 3)since around October
And everytime theres an update for it I update
But lately when I 'sharpen' my photos, it doesnt save the sharpen edit
Like I hit 'save' and after a few seconds once it done saving my picture reverts back to how it loooked after its been sharpened
But all my other edits stay
Help please?
I ALWAY sharpen my photos, so telling me not too is bull
And I refuse to use another editor. Picasa 3 is by far the easiest one on the internet (link)
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Hi there,
They definitely made this more complicated than it needed to be:
Other Editing Tools: Sharpen editPrint
To get the most accurate representation of how much Sharpen is actually being applied, you need to apply the Sharpen edit to your image at output size ( the size at which you'll share, print, export) while viewing the photo at actual size. Follow these steps:
Before editing, use the Export feature to resize all images to the size at which you'll share, print, or otherwise output.
In the edit room in Picasa, apply all edits other than Sharpen.
Zoom in to a one-to-one ratio by clicking the 1:1 button in the edit room.
Apply Sharpen as the final edit.
Save, share, export or otherwise output your images.
... From:
http://picasa.google.com/support/bin/answer.py?hl=en&answer=39037
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So I'm a little late but I just learned that Polaroid has stopped production of their instant film last year. I also just recently bought a Polaroid SX-70 Sonar Land camera for a project I'm working on.
I was wondering where would be the best place to get a lot of the film that the SX-70 uses or if another company is still continuing to make the film.
One more thing. Even if you don't respond to this, please check out http://www.savepolaroid.com and write to the companies about why we want(NEED) to save the film.
Every person helps. (link)
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Hello there,
I can't tell you how fascinating it is to me that someone your age is just discovering the wonder of analog instant photography.
You are in luck with your quest for a reliable place to buy Polaroid SX-70 Sonar film for your Land camera:
http://www.polapremium.com/shop/film/sx70
... PolaPremium has basically everything that is available on the world Polaroid film market, all in one place.
Yes, there won't be any new film from Polaroid, but that doesn't mean your SX-70 Sonar is going to be idle any time soon. Why? Because the people behind this BOUGHT the last Polaroid film factory and are getting tooled up to produce brand new film for your camera!
Can you believe this? Seriously? I love Polaroid film and cameras, I really do, but I had no idea that there were people so dedicated to keeping the Classic Poloroid Land cameras supplied with film forever... but that is their stated goal over at:
The Impossible Project:
http://www.the-impossible-project.com/
... Amazing, no?
Edwin Land (the inventor of instant photography) was a ridiculously bright man. This project was named for something he said:
"Don't undertake a project unless it is manifestly important and nearly impossible" -- Edwin Land
... Kinda like running Advicenators. :-)
But seriously, this is your best bet for film.
You can buy it on eBay, but if it hasn't been stored cold, your chances of success will vary wildly. Better to buy properly stored Polaroid film from someone who cares about the future of YOUR artistry.
Happy Polaroiding!
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I bought a penis shaped pasta for my boyfriend to cook for him when he comes back from vacation. I told my guy friend about it and he said that my boyfriend wouldn't eat it. Would he eat it or would he freak out?
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If he is homosexual, then he won't likely mind... otherwise why would you expect him to be OK with this? Better yet, why did you buy this in the first place? How about pasta boobies or something a straight boy might like?
Be glad you asked this here. It could really offend him.
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if any body has a ps3 (play station 3) and has grand theft auto 3 send me an in invite to sk-TheBoss-sk and join the sk crew all you have to do is make a name like mine for example sk-shorty-sk (link)
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Sorry friend, I let one of these go by but this isn't what this site is for. If you need advice on getting past a level in in GTA4, then you could ask that, but this is just straight advertising.
No more like this please.
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Hi
I purchased the CECT P168 recently & I'm not sure how to work things on it. there's no manual, and i haven't found anything useful online.
My questions are (any answers, even for 1 of the questions is GREATLY appreciated!!)
1. What type of music files can it play?
2. What type of video files can it play?
3. When sending a MMS message, how can you send an mp3 file? (it tells me it's too large, and i dont know how to make it bigger...so how would i go about doing that?)
4. Is there a way to change your text ringtone to something other than the ones they preset for you?
5. Can i download programs onto it? (And if you know what kind of programs, that would be great!)
6. What type of game files can it play?
7. How do I get an E-book on there? (Does it only play certain E-book files? because i tried to put one on and it said it couldn't read it)
8. Is there a way to get t9 english or iTAP english for the texting?
Thank you so much for your help! (link)
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Hello there,
Good news: SO many people are having the same issues with the mostly Chinese manual for the CECT P168 that some folks got together and wrote a new, and apparently more helpful, CECT P168 manual... in English!
Bad news: They would like to be paid for their work:
http://cectp168accessories.blogspot.com/
There are also a number of CECT P168 accessories available from this site as well if you need a case/cover, charger (car/home) or a battery.
They also have the most awesome Unlimited T-Mobile Data / Internet Sim Cards. I hadn't seen these for the CECT P168 yet.
A little more digging and I uncovered this site:
"User Manual for CECT P168 in English, Spanish, French, Italian and German" ... For free!
http://cectp168resources.blogspot.com/2008/04/user-manual-for-cect-p168-in-english.html
Looking for the kind of help you need, if you need help beyond the manual is going to require someone who has the phone and an extensive working knowledge of it.
I am sorry I don't have one, and apparently nobody else here does either, so I will have to send you to a user support forum for the CECT P168 (iClone):
This forum is pretty sad:
http://cectp168.freeforums.org/support-forum-f1.html
... and they want you to go to a new site which basically has nothing. Don't bother with the new site, but please consider looking through the old forum as many people had their questions answered there.
This:
"CECT P168 - Everything you need to know about the p168. Latest updates of firmware developments, mods, wallpapers, bootscreens and tricks & tips:"
http://arbelionz.3arabiyate.net/
... looks WAY more promising. :-)
Here is yet another forum that is part of the CECT P168 Resource Center:
http://phoneontherun.com/foro_cect_en/
... this also looks pretty good.
Here is a VERY helpful FAQ for your iClone phone:
http://cectp168resources.blogspot.com/2008/03/frequently-asked-questions-faq.html
... about the only question you have that I can answer directly comes from reading all this new information on the progress, or lack thereof, on updating the firmware to include Java, which it doesn't that I could find. You know what that means... No adding programs, games etc.
Pretty much have to become an uber phone geek to get this thing to do what you want.
I hope you have fun.
Happy iPhone cloning :-)
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Hi, So I am trying to find out what type of medium Arthur I Keller used to paint an illustration of two women with a couple of men in the background, for Bret Harte's novel: Her Letter, His Response, and Her Last Letter. I reallyy need help asap. the dimensions and location would help too (of the painting.) Any other valuable information would be amazing. PLEASE HELP ASAP (link)
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Hi there,
If you can find an image of this to put in front of people, they will have a much easier time answering your question.
Something that may have been crippling most people who tried to help you was the title:
"Her Letter, His Answer and Her Last Letter" by Bret Harte is correct. :-)
If it isn't too late, please provide the image and I will see what I can find.
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http://www.advicenators.com/disc_topic.php?t=1647
I don't know if you've seen this topic I posted in the Moderator Forum.
It's not a big deal, but maybe it's worth reading.
Thanks. (link)
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All taken care of.
Thank you for the report. In the mean time, please report problems here.
Thanks.
P.S. I can NOT believe I didn't see that... ever!
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imma Freak And No Longer A Virgin, Bhut when I Smashed My Second Boy And We Was Tawkin About It He Said He Liked That I Was Wet, he Could See It, and It Was On His Leg.! bhut I Wanna Know What It Looks Like.? I Have An Idea Bhut I'm Not Sure (link)
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In English please.
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hey, i asked a question and you responded earlier, the one on how to use my camera phone as a webcam.. (http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=565295)
the problem now is, skype doesnt recognise it.. like it doesnt have the button/link 'video call'... otherwise, everything is fine, i can see myself on the computer etc. just that skpe doesnt recognise it.. i just dont know why..
thanks a bunch! (link)
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Hi there,
Go into the skype settings and select your camera to enable it. Please also check the rest of your video settings while you are there for anything that is an obvious problem.
The person you are chatting with also has to agree to accept video from you, so that can be an issue. They will have to check their skype settings and see if they have it set up to accept video from people in their contacts lists.
Typically, with Skype anyway, you start a call as normal, then click the button/bar that is labeled: "Start my video."
If all of this fails, you will want to get ahold of the people who wrote the phone driver you are using to hook your cell camera phone up as a webcam on the computer.
They may not have updated it to work with the latest version of Skype. This should NOT be an issue, but you never know, so give it a shot if all else fails.
Happy Skype video!
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well, the subject for my question pretty much says it.. how do i use my nokia 5320 camera phone as a webcam, like on skype?? please give me details, because i've tried heaps of things, like attached my phone with the cable and switching on my camera on my phone, so my compute can recognise a camera or something and that doesnt work at all..
if you are wondering, i already have installed the PC suite for my phone, if thats needed here..
thank you so much to whoever that answers this, i've been asking loads of people, even the people at the phone shops and its just useless. thank you very much. (link)
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Hi there,
Turn your Nokia phone into a PC webcam using Mobiola Web Camera 3:
http://www.mrgadget.com.au/gadget/2008/turn-your-nokia-phone-into-a-pc-webcam-using-mobiola-web-camera-3/
That is the main app I have found for this. There is a free trial, so you can give Mobiola Web Camera 3 a whirl with no obligation. This way you can see if it really does work to turn your Nokia 5320 camera phone into a webcam.
It says it does (see specs below.)
May I also suggest, if you haven't already, that you get a bluetooth connection going to your PC. That way you have the whole bluetooth mobile webcam thing going on and can be rid of the USB cables for your phone.
Have fun converting your camera phone into a web-camera phone. :-)
Compatibility:
LG: LG KT610
Nokia: Nokia 3250, Nokia 5320 XpressMusic, Nokia 5500 Sport, Nokia 5700 (XpressMusic), Nokia 5710 XpressMusic, Nokia 6110 Navigator, Nokia 6121 Classic, Nokia 6124 Classic, Nokia 6210 Navigator, Nokia 6220 Classic, Nokia 6650, Nokia e50, Nokia e51, Nokia e61, Nokia e61i, Nokia E63, Nokia e65, Nokia E66, Nokia e70, Nokia E71, Nokia E71-2, Nokia E71-3, Nokia e90, Nokia n71, Nokia n73, Nokia N75, Nokia N76, Nokia n77, Nokia N78, Nokia N79, Nokia n80, Nokia n80i, Nokia n81, Nokia N81 8GB, Nokia n82, Nokia N85, Nokia n91, Nokia N91 8GB, Nokia n92, Nokia n93, Nokia n93i, Nokia N95, Nokia N95 8GB, Nokia N96
Samsung: Samsung SGH-i400, Samsung SGH-i550, Samsung SGH-i550w, Samsung SGH-i560, Samsung SGH-i7110, Samsung SGH-i8510 Innov8
Turn your Symbian phone into a high-quality PC webcam.
MAIN FUNCTIONALITY:
Transforms your mobile phone into high-quality PC webcamera.
Works through WiFi (NEW!), Bluetooth or USB.
Screen Capture functionality, when device screen can be demonstrated on PC real-time.
NEW!!! Cool video effects, to have fun with your friends.
Works with Skype, Yahoo, YouTube, MSN, AOL IM, ICQ and many others.
Compatible with all Symbian S60 3rd edition devices.
Compatible with Windows Vista/XP/2003/2000.
Carry your webcam with you wherever you go and connect it to your laptop at anytime. Try it now!
Note: Trial version lasts 3 days
Features:
* Uses phone as a web camera
* Works as a web camera driver on PC
* Connects to the phone over WiFi, Bluetooth or USB
* Video effects
* Compatible with Skype, IM, Yahoo, YouTube and others.
Minimum Requirements:
* 8 MB of free disk space on PC, 68kb of free phone memory, 720kb run time memory
Display Dimensions
160 x 240, 176 x 208, 208 x 208, 240 x 320, 320 x 240, 320 x 480, 352 x 416, 800 x 320
Operating System
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