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Hi . Im 13 and I have been smoking marijuana for a little bit now . I have been holding back this secret from my parents and even closest friends . I just don't want to be known as one who tries to fit in with the other crowd . That's not my reasoning for doing this . I do it because my brother is an addict and I tried it once and it was like the best feeling ever so I kept doing it . Ive gone to school high but since Im just a natural goof off and crazy student nobody seemed to notice as far as I know . I know its bad for you but I don't do it often . The addiction runs through my blood . I just cant help it . I cover up the smell with stong perfume and the days I smoke I usually just come in late and say Im tired I had a long night and go right to bed . Should I tell someone about this ? I just don't know what to do . (link)
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You said you can't help it, you actually can.
My family has a countless number of people who are addicted to different things and also have different disorders.
My immediate family-My oldest brother was addicted to drugs, and ended up in prison. My second oldest brother was addicted to harder drugs but ended up getting help for them. My mother is an alcoholic, she's addicted to alcohol, it's now a disease. My younger brother is in juvi because of his addiction to drugs. My mothers side of the family has even more problems. I had gotten into some bad things myself, I felt myself becoming addicted but I stopped because I had strong enough will power.
So your will power isn't very strong because you feel like you can't help it.
So yes, go look for help to stop. It can ruin your life and people's lives around you. Talk to a counselor.
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Hey guys
So i am 16 and moved to this state 3 years ago and one of my guy friends has had a crush on me ever since i moved here. I dated him once and it only lasted 3 months. I only see him as a friend and nothing more but he just cant accept that. I have had a few boyfriends since i last dated him and i am currently in a happy relationship with another guy. My problem is, my friend is ALWAYS telling me how much he likes me and how he cant get over me and stuff like that. He says that over texts although when we talk in person he just acts like a normal friend. I have told him a million times I ONLY LIKE HIM AS A FRIEND AND I HAVE A BOYFRIEND. he just doesnt get it -_-. Its been going on for 3 years and i want to keep him as my friend cuz he is fun to hang out with and nice but what do i do?? (link)
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He's not acting like a friend when he does things like this. It's unfair to you and it can get really annoying.
I'm sure he can be a great friend when he's not obsessing over you but if he can't accept that he's only ever going to be just a friend, he can't be your friend. He can't just beg you all the time or try to manipulate you or try to make you feel sorry for him because that's what he's trying to do.
He really does have to give it up.
Since you've already told him that you don't like him like that and you only see him as a friend, you're going to have to stop talking to him. Maybe then he'll get the hint. Then he'll wonder why you're not talking to him and you'll tell him that you only like him as a friend and he's not getting that.
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Hey im usinng my sisters account lol but anyway im a guy im 17 and my girlfriend is 16. We get intimate alot and we go up to my bedroom and do oral usually. Well for two days now when i asked to go up to my bedroom she made up an excuse that she was too tired or that she wanted to watch a show on tv but she never did that before. When i finally convinced her to come up to my bedroom she wouldnt let me eat her out or finger her. She always tells me when she is on her period and i asked if she was and she said she wasnt. When i tried to reach to finger her she quick stopped me and said she would rather just give me a blowjob today. Thats fine by me haha but i cant figure out why she was acting like that... (link)
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There could be tons of reasons why she was acting like that. Do you guys do this often? Maybe she's tired of it or something. Maybe she doesn't find it enjoyable anymore.
Honestly, we can all just make guesses but you should probably just ask her about it. Just ask her why this has been going on. She'll hopefully tell you why and how you guys can fix it.
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Why do guys always try to pull my pants/shorts down? Like no kidding this is the fourth guy now to try and do it. Like i will be at his house and then we go upstairs and he will just quickly reach out and try ro yank them down but i dont let it happen (link)
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Well you are definitely picking the wrong guys to hang out with.
Are you dating them or what? They're obviously immature so try to pick better guys. Also, wear a belt from now on..or simply don't go upstairs with them.
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Im fourteen, he's thirteen. We're not dating, he's just a friend. He kept trying to finger me, so I finally let him. I was kinda horny, and having been fingered before knew it felt good. But it was so embarrassing. He couldn't get his finger in! So I stuck my hand in my panties, and kinda shoved his finger in there, but then it was barely in, and the way he was doing it just HURT. Afterwards, I was so sore. Then he tried to eat me out, and it was like he was just sucking and licking. But it wasn't normal, I got no feeling out of it, and it was just sloppy and awkward. He also cannot kiss! It's like he's trying to eat my face. He gets the whole side of my mouth wet, and practically gags me with his tongue! I never want to do anything with him again. If he tries what do I do? Tell him why? Or just say no? (link)
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Just say no. You don't need to tell him why, just tell him you don't want it. If he starts questioning it, you don't have to explain it to him. It's really none of his business why you don't want it anymore.
He's really young, so are you. You guys don't have much experience with this so you can't expect him to be good his first time doing things like this even if some people just naturally know what to do.
Anyways, everyone else already mentioned the fact that you're only 14. Just letting you know one more thing, boys can't keep secrets about sexual things.
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I'm a 13 year old girl and when i turn 14 (It's ages away)I want a party. I don't want a little sleepover, but i want a proper one like in those American teen movies. I know I'm really young and usually you have them when you're like 17 or 18, but i just want to know a few things:
-where would i have it? (my house is quite big, but it would be sort of awkward, so i would rather hire a venue)
-Is it a good idea? Or would people just not take it seriously?
-How would i get a lot of people to come? even though my social circle isn't very big.
-Should/would there be alcohol?
-How much parental supervision should there be?
-How many people should i invite?
-How much would a venue cost? (in pounds)
-Any additional things you might want to add about parties?
I most likely wont be able to or something, but I'm quite curious, and i think it would be fun :)
And please tell me if this is a stupid idea! Thanks!! :D
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Where you would have the party would be up to you and what you can afford.
I'm really not sure if it would be a good idea or not. I think people could take it seriously, but it shouldn't be one of those crazy teenage parties, those end badly.
I'd say invite your friends, their friends, ect. If you're having it at your house, it's best if you only invited people you know. If you're having it somewhere else, then just try to spread it around.
There shouldn't be alcohol because I mean..you're only 14. That should be saved till you are older. I mean it does happen, but it can just ruin your party.
I think parents should be around because of the age. I think most parents will let their children go to your party knowing there will be adult supervision. They don't have to be hanging out, but they should be there doing their own thing.
How many people should you invite? That really depends on where you'll be.
Same with the cost.
So pretty much, I'd wait to have some full blown party because even though you'd be mature enough to handle it, a lot of people your age can't. I'd suggest having a good amount of people over that you know, have lots of food and drinks, dancing and games.
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I'm an 18 year old male, and I could never even think about young girls sexually. But the other day at work, a girl came in with her parents and was clearly(by looking at her face and size) about 13 years old. However, she was very developed in every other way, quite well endowed, in good shape, in dressed in an outfit that complimented her features VERY well, and I couldn't help but be attracted to her. I would never try anything, because I know that it would be horribly wrong. But does the fact that I couldn't get her out of my head make me a monster? Or is it normal to feel that way under those circumstances? (link)
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It doesn't make you a monster. I don't want to say it's normal though either. Young girls are looking more and more older, and that's obviously not a good thing.
I think it's normal to be attracted, but don't keep trying to look. When you see a young girl who is attractive, remind yourself how old she is and how creepy that can be. And definitely don't keep staring because then you'll get bad images in your mind.
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Well I met this guy 2 years ago, and if I knew anything about it I would say it was love at first sight, which would probably explain why I still think about him all the time, and I've had a boyfriend and been married since then. well this guy and I have had our ins and outs, he has a girlfriend that doesn't want him talking to me or something so he doesn't, but I'm one of those people if you really want something then don't give up, so I would text him. and he'd either text back or not. I've been through a lot emotionally with this guy. we hung out one time when we first met and we kissed but that's about it. we talked all the time but decided we both didn't want a long distance relationship cause I lived 4 hours away, I was only visiting family when I met him. well he got a girlfriend so we quit talking so much, and on and off we went. well the last time I texted him like a month ago I was kind of a bitch cause I was pissed off and he told me I should just move on, well I thought I did, and then I was driving home from work the other day and he popped into my head out of no where, well my mum says he's my "Noah" (the notebook) whether I like it or not, he's always going to be in my heart. and so I texted him and he actually replied he was being a little short so I cut the conversation short, well the next day I sent him a picture of me, to see If it was even him texting me, and he never replied so I texted him yesterday and asked if he got my picture he said no, so he had me send it to his email, then he sent me a couple pictures of him. I asked if he could call me cause I was smoking a cigarette and I don't like smoking alone outside and night, and he called me, we were on the phone for almost a hour, and he was nagging me about how I'm old enough its about time I fly the coop, and go live life. that I should go to LA (which is were he is) then he started asking me what I want from him, cause I'm so consistent, he tried to help me break it down so I can figure out why I just cant shake him cause any other guy I can. well I told him cause I think I still have feelings for him and I'm just trying to find out, and he said I fucked a lot of stuff up for him with past relationships I've caused them fights and stuff cause I texted him, and I don't understand how that's my fault cause all id say is hi, unless he told them about me or they were super insecure I don't know why someone would get so upset from a hello. well anyways towards the end of the conversation he was saying that he needed to think about things, he's glad we had this talk but he needed to get off the phone and just text me, cause I was driving him crazy. he said he thinks rationally and I was making him think crazy shit, he doesn't understand, but it wasn't bad. so I shouldn't worry I just needed to let him think so we got off the phone and he texted me and said he just didn't want to get all emotional and stuff on a phone call and he was still attracted to me, but well figure it out. I don't know what to do. my mom and grandma say that maybe I never left his mind either and that's why its driving him crazy cause I'm stuck in his mind, but my dad said to leave him alone, cause it doesn't sound like its going to go well or something, that I shouldn't try and persue a relationship with him.
I'm so confused, and I'm so sorry this is so long. (link)
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Is he in a relationship right now? If so, then you should stop talking to him. He's trying to move on and have relationships. Even if you just say hello, the girl will probably ask who it is and he'll have to explain, which causes problems.
Normally in relationships, you shouldn't be texting people who you were involved with. You need to respect those boundaries.
So maybe he does think about you but he isn't trying as hard as you are to get this thing going. If he does contact you and tells you that he does want to start things up again, then go ahead, but for now just leave it alone.
It's a good thing to be a persistent person but sometimes, it's not always the right thing to do. Life isn't like movies, although that would be amazing. So as of right now, I'd suggest letting it go unless he figures out what he wants.
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Hey ok so i know this probably sounds lame but if you could take the time to help me out i would REALLY appreciate it!(:
Well im going through a tricky time right now. I have a boyfrind he is 17 and im 16 and we have been dating for almost a year. We text alot but mostly at night when we are not so busy. He stays up really late like me, but anyways sometimes we will be texting and then out of nowhere he just stops for like 20 minutes or more and i always ask, what are you doing? And he says "not much". Its so frusterating and i have talked with him about it many timea and told him how i feel. He always apologizes but he still does it. Like right now for example we were textng and he hasnt responded to me in 2 hours! What should i do about this? And also can anyobe please explain to me why boys do this? Thanks! (link)
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Most guys don't really see texting as a big deal. I've known plenty of guys who do this. My boyfriend used to text a lot and then when we were together for awhile he stopped texting me as much, but it was because he didn't really care for texting.
I don't think there is much you can do about it. You can't make him text you and you've already talked to him. Maybe try phone calls instead of texting. Other than that, I really don't think there is a fix unless you keep the conversation more interesting.
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I am a female, currently 14 but when this happened I was 13. Do not tell me that I was too young for this, I KNOW. I made mistakes, we all have. Anyway my (ex) boyfriend was 16. Him and I broke up on March 28. About 2, 3 months ago. I can't get over this break up. No its not just cause he was my first love, it's because I've been hiding something. Him and I had been fooling around. We were on and off since like 2 years ago but this time we lasted 8 complete months. And during those 8 months, I gave him several hand jobs. He gave me hickies on my neck and chest, fingered me, played with my breasts, and titty fucked me. I couldn't find a proper term for that sorry /.\ well that went on everyday for 1 or 2 months. When suddenly that day came when he told me he had cheated twice on me , the first when it had only been our 3rd month of dating, and then he also cheated when it was our 4th month dating. Obviously you could guess how extremely stupid I felt. We did those things for a while and he lied to my face. I felt disgusted, I felt like I had gotten used. I still wanted to work it out for sake just because I didn't want to feel stupid for doing that and letting him do that to me. I will get over it cause I mean it happened. But I just can't. Whenever I tell someone that I feel sad about him they just say " but he cheated on you! " but they don't know that we did all that stuff.. I'm just kind of hooked on to that & I have no clue how to tell anyone because I'm so ashamed of myself. How can I get the guilt out of me? :( (link)
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I think I kind of understand how you're feeling about this. I'm a bit confused though.
Do you feel guilty because you messed around with him?
You don't need to be ashamed of what happened. You already know you are too young for that, but that's how I can understand why you feel so bad about this. Young girls normally get attached when they get physical with a boy. They give themselves to boys and then those boys betray them. You thought you could trust him and trust him with your body. That's why people give advice to wait until you are older.
Anyways, the way you move on from this guilt is to let it all go. You need to accept that what happened has happened and you can't change it. The past is now in the past.
You don't need to tell people what happened between the two of you, not your friends. They won't be able to help you the way you need to be helped. They'll just ask questions, feel a little sorry for you and then gossip. I would suggest to talk to an adult you trust. They have more life experience and they can actually help you get through these feelings.
It will be awhile till you are over him. You really cared about him and he really hurt you so it's obvious that it would take awhile. Just focus on yourself. You learned from your mistakes so don't put yourself down for it, someday it will be useful to you. I mean maybe one day you'll meet a young girl who is struggling with a similar problem and then you could help her.
So don't go to your friends for advice on moving past this, go to an adult that can help you move on.
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I'm a female! There's this one guy who I use to have in one of my classes, we never talked too much. One day in my summer break he messages me on Facebook and we start talking and we started gettif flirty then he said he liked me. We kept talking for a while and one day my friend told me he has been talking to other girls the entire time. I updated a status about him and he got mad and it created lots of drama. I heard he was saying rude things about me and he tried talking again and be asked me out.. I wanna say yes cause I like him but iDont know of he's playing me again /: (link)
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What kind of status update was it? Was it a relationship status or a mean status about him?
So he was talking to other girls, but you guys aren't dating right? So he wasn't exactly in the wrong since you guys aren't exclusively seeing each other.
The status update was probably a bad idea because it caused unnecessary drama. He shouldn't have been saying rude things about you, if that was even true because you only heard about it and didn't hear any of this from him (Same with the talking to other girls).
If you guys were dating and he was talking to other girls, then it would be a problem. Anyways, if you don't think you can trust him, don't be with him. Relationships don't work if there is no trust.
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Hello all,
before you take this the wrong way I want to tell you that no I'm not a teenager who is love struck or any sort of non-sense like that, I hate long threads so I try to be as terse as possible.
I'm looking for efficient and painless ways one could commit suicide and no I'm not sure whether I'm going to do that to myself or not.(this is all you need to read in order to answer if you are more curious you can read the rest)
As I've stated I'm not a teenage idiot you see everyday on these threads, I'm a 28 year old guy who is relatively accomplished in his professional life and very accomplished in his dating life, my social life sucks because I don't have a lot of friends besides the girls I date and that's it. I have enough money to last me for ages even if I don't work and I've recently received my Ph.d in Banking and business management. you may not believe it but according to people around me, my life is pretty good(that is not what I think, because if it was obviously I wouldn't think about killing myself)
previously I always scolded people who talked about killing themselves and called them weaklings and annoying douchbags but the truth is it has been a few weeks since the thought has been initiated in me, because to put it simply I am bored with everything there is! I don't enjoy sex(even with new people) I don't enjoy the company of smart people like I used to, I don't enjoy buying things, I don't enjoy playing video games anymore, I was always a bit on the bored side but it has been increasing for the past few years and now I think I've experienced all the boredom I could handle and no I'm not a believer, I'm an atheist and do not have one shred of spirituality in me, I believe that Organic life is on this planet to reproduce and go on living but despite my wishes to struggle and go on with this boring process of trial and error we call life, I want to get out; you know, be free of all the misery, I know I won't care after I'm dead and I'm sure people who miss me will get over it because I've hurt them a lot of times.
I have loved people and people have loved me, I have lost people and then some, I've seen everything there is in life and I agree some of them are extremely beautiful, but I just don't like any of it and I know I'm not depressed since I function perfectly in society and my workplace.
please do not lecture me about the sanctity of life and do not offer ridiculous ways to kill myself, I want efficient and hopefully painless because the pain alone would make me not want to do it. (link)
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Firstly, we aren't allowed to tell people on this site how to kill themselves. It's our job to help people live and get through their problems.
Every one who wants to commit suicide want an easy way out, but honestly, it's all painful.
I won't lecture you, but you do need help. Just because you have good things going for you, doesn't mean you are supposed to be happy. There are poor people who hardly have anything who are the happiest people on this planet. So obviously, this is a problem going on inside of you.
So before you jump to conclusions on ending your boredom, you need to talk to someone. These kinds of things can be fixed without taking your life. You're looking for happiness in the wrong places. So go seek help.
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Well Im 13 years old and Im in 7th grade almost 8th . This boy who is in 6th entering 7th is like my bestfriend and I just recently got his number last week . I was texting him having a friendly conversation then he asked me what sexting was and I told him . He then said he would like to try it . He sent me a picture of his dick and I was too nervous so I sent a picture of my bent elbow . Yesterday , out of the blue he asked if I would ever have sex with him and I said yes . Then I asked and he said yes . hard . Next... He asked me to have sex in the bathrooms . and I said yes . Im very nervous and I don't want anyone to know about it because then Ill be called a slut and stuff . Should I do it ? (link)
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Should you do it? No.
Sexting should definitely stop. That could get you into trouble. Especially sending pictures because then you could get charged for child pornography even for just having his picture on your phone. Plus if you send him one, since he's a young boy, he's going to be showing his friends.
Now about the sex, there are too many problems that come with it. Firstly, it's illegal since you're only 13. Besides that, you could end up pregnant. If anything goes wrong, like the condom breaking, you could end up pregnant. Then of course there is STD's.
And when he asked to have sex in the bathrooms, did he mean the school bathrooms? If so, you could end up way more trouble. It's the easiest way for people to find out. So definitely stay far away from that one.
You're only 13, you might really want to have sex because of hormones but your body is still growing. So it will hurt ten times more.
So the least of your problems is people finding out about you having sex with him. People will find out though, if that's truly the only thing you are thinking about. Since he's really young, and his hormones are going more crazy than yours, he's not going to keep this to himself. Sex is a big deal, it's better to wait till you are older so that you won't regret it.
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Hi , Im 13 years old and I just started smoking marijuana this year . My friends don't know about it , nobody does . I went to school high one time and everyone thought I was just tired and left me alone . I don't know if I should tell people my secret or not . Im scared it will spill out to my parents or something . (link)
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You shouldn't just be scared about your parents finding out.
Teenagers don't exactly keep secrets. It will get around and your reputation will go down. Now, that's the least of your worries.
Marijuana is illegal. So you could get arrested.
My younger brother started smoking weed a couple years ago. He's been in juvi back and forth. He got himself into a lot of trouble.
So seriously, even though quite a bit of people do it. It can definitely cause you a lot of problems.
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I am sick to my stomach right now:
Guy that I'm dating who's told me I'm his "dream girl" just LOST IT ON ME for posting on FB that him and I are together because he doesn't want his "EX GF" to find out cuz he "feels bad for her" (they broke up a while back), and DOES NOT WANT ANYONE KNOWING because of his ex gf who is still on his friends list and still has pictures if them together. What do you think of that?
Yet, when they were dating, he had it posted!
We had a huge fight about this before because in my opinion, he shouldn't be concerned what his "EX GF" feels when she finds out he's moved on. He tells me he feels for her. But what about (link)
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You aren't crazy, you are right that he shouldn't be doing this though.
His past should stay in the past. He shouldn't have pictures of him and his ex and he shouldn't be so concerned of who sees he's in a relationship.
It does sound like he's lying about more and you're old enough to be done with high school games. He's stuck in the past and you need to move on because you don't need unnecessary drama.
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Am I weird? All the people at my school and most my friends say that I'm mental and should be put into a mental facility. They all think that I'm weird and odd because I don't act like everyone else. I'm confused. I'm a free-spirit but I don't know what is wrong. Please help...thank you! (link)
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There is nothing wrong with you.
Just because you are your own person doesn't mean that there is something wrong with you. Everybody is different and when you're in school, they expect you to act, dress and talk the same as everybody else.
So don't let what they say get to you. Focus on yourself and as long as you're happy with who you are and don't give into that kind of pressure, you'll be fine.
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I like this guy and I think he likes me back but I'm scared he's gonna ask me out and I'm gonna have to say no. My friends tell me to try and sneak it but I'm DEFINATELY not sneaky and I'm gonna get caught especially since he goes to the same church as me. I dont want to ask my parents when I can start dating cause it's kinda weird. What should I do :( (link)
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Well sneaking out could definitely make things worse. Plus if you get caught, your parents will make your life so much harder and you will lose their trust.
You should at least try to talk to your parents. Tell them you like this boy and you think it's mutual. Tell him you'd like to date him and if he does ask you out, maybe your parents could have him over for dinner to get to know him a little better.
The best thing to do is try.
If your parents still say no, then when he asks you out, just tell him you're not allowed to date yet. He'll understand and know that you are a good girl who respects her parents wishes.
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One of my friends was planning on attending a concert this weekend. She had asked me to come along, but I said no, because I just can't afford to buy a $200 ticket right now.
She was planning on going with other friends, but she found out that they were planning on doing something really stupid, and didn't feel comfortable going with them. She begged me to come along, and claimed that a relative of hers had given her a free ticket, which she wanted me to have. I said I'd go.
Then, she admitted that her parents had just gone online and bought me a concert ticket, because they wanted their daughter to have someone they trusted to go with.
I am VERY uncomfortable taking a $200 ticket. She told me not to worry about it, and not to try to pay them back, but now I feel like I HAVE to. I work part-time, am trying to save up for living expenses in college, and just don't have $200 right now. I don't want to ask my parents for it, because they bought me an expensive birthday gift and I don't want to take more from them.
So now I'm sort of in this position where I feel like I need to pay her parents back, but I didn't want them to buy me the ticket in the first place! What do I do?
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You didn't ask for it, you should just appreciate the gift. That's what friends do.
My dad is the same way. He hates borrowing money or people giving him money or gifts.
The thing is with friends and family, they do nice things for each other. Eventually if they ever need anything, you'll do something for them.
I think the way to appreciate is is to do something nice for them as a thank you. Maybe make them cookies or brownies. Write them a thank you card.
They aren't expecting you to pay them back. You didn't ask them for the money. I've had friends parents buy me tickets for amusement parks. They aren't as expensive and $200 but if I added up the times they've done that for me, it would be over $200. I was just really thankful for it.
It's really good that you do think this way but sometimes you just have to be happy and be grateful for it.
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So there's a guy at my school and I really like him. He always texts me and tries to talk to me. He compliments me a lot and always laughs at EVERYTHING I say. We seem to click on everything from liking the same colour to favourite food and music. Does he like me? Because some of my friends tell me he likes this other girl. Should I risk asking him out? Does he like me? I'm 13/f and In 8th grade. He's in the same grade as me. (link)
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It does sound like he does like you. Unless he laughs at everything other girls say too.
Maybe flirt with him a little and see how he responds to that. Sit closer to him and see if he's uncomfortable with it, just find little ways to subtly flirt and see if he's comfortable with it.
That will give you a better idea. Or you could go all the way and tell him you like him and then you'll know for sure how he feels.
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Hi Im 18 and I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year our anniversary is next month. we get along just fine and haven't had sex, we respect each other about anything and just last weekend my boyfriend and were at my house my parents were gone and he came over i played guitar in front of him for a while then we ended up making out but as we started making out, all of a sudden I feel his hand going under my shirt
Trying to feel my breasts. It made me feel good but at the same time I felt like its bad I don't know if I should've said something I mean afterwards he asked me if it was ok with me and also said he wasn't ready for sex but he respects me. I don't know what to think but I love him (link)
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Well it doesn't sound like you're ready to be that intimate yet. It's not that there is anything wrong with it, but it varies from person to person when they are ready for that kind of intimacy.
It's really good that he respects you. So at least you know you can be comfortable enough around him to let him know that you just aren't ready yet. It's not like he's going to leave you for it. If he did, he wasn't a very good guy. But you guys have been together for a year and haven't done anything so everything is fine.
When you're ready, you'll know. Just have a talk about it. Let him know you're not ready and when you are, you'll let him know.
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